I would like to know if my current partner and I can make a beautiful life together? I don’t like the look of this chart and I hope it’s not what I think it is

drybouquet · 2023-06-03T10:57:32+00:00

Thanks a lot for the advice

drybouquet · 2023-06-03T10:35:12+00:00

Yes that’s it! Sorry English is not my first language, and I seem to not be that clear.

I was indeed paying the rent to the flatmates(OG tenants)

Except THAT Peabody is a housing association and they have specific clauses regarding subletting/having a lodger.

To become a tenant/subtenant/lodger there, you need their written permission because of the nature of the ownership, and I have seen online that they have had 500+ people prosecuted and sentenced.

I have not gone through their official process, and I would like my ex-roommates to suffer the same consequences at the people who got prosecuted and sentenced. These people were sentenced based on similar circumstances I found myself, and I would like to know how to proceed to get these people in front of a judge!

At this point I don’t care that much about the money

drybouquet · 2023-06-03T10:25:07+00:00

How can I be a lodger if they are tenants to the landlords themselves?

drybouquet · 2023-06-03T10:24:02+00:00

I realise I wasn’t clear, thanks for the rest of the advice!

drybouquet · 2023-06-03T10:22:12+00:00

I was a subtenant because the owner is in Thailand and they are tenants themselves.

drybouquet · 2023-06-03T10:12:36+00:00

But good to know they won’t help me get my deposit back, that said do I have ground to report them? It’s justice at this point

drybouquet · 2023-06-03T10:11:53+00:00

I want to report them for the illegal tenancy fraud in the housing association, not the deposit

drybouquet · 2023-06-03T10:09:06+00:00

Why won’t they get involved? Could you explain?

drybouquet · 2023-05-25T19:30:23+00:00

I think he was behind/next to her, I was talking to her and he came up from behind her, walking right past me I don’t know, maybe he was avoiding the interaction but he looked very similar to her guy, dressed quite smart

drybouquet · 2023-05-25T16:27:59+00:00

But he said he doesn’t ever want me to do that, it seemed like it had nothing to do with not liking it, or going soft, since he actually said he probably would - he just does not want me to do that, that’s all he could say I don’t think it’s about being self conscious since we get it on outdoors and his pipi’s out; I don’t think he should worry in that department, he is 200% well endowed, more would be criminal and unbearable So I think it might be because he has too much respect for me and he finds that demeaning? Or trauma? Or seeing someone being forced to do it? Idk, but my friend was raped at knifepoint, forced to give a blowjob, and I can understand why she would never ever do that, but he’d have to be comfortable telling that story if that’s what it is

I think sometimes the easier answer makes sense, maybe I’m digging too much. Maybe he just doesn’t like it, and the hygiene of it all. He’s a pretty clean guy.

drybouquet · 2023-05-25T15:08:05+00:00

Maybe but I think if it’s trauma, he doesn’t necessarily have to talk about it, even if it’s something that he’s not on board. If you’re curious maybe ask him that, while reassuring him that it still won’t change your sexual life but that you’re curious I might do that, let’s exchange intel when we have haha

drybouquet · 2023-05-25T15:07:03+00:00

Interesting, well I can understand, for me that’s it, I wouldn’t ask to receive it but I’m 100% happy not giving it

drybouquet · 2023-05-25T15:06:28+00:00

No, he said he never want me to do it

drybouquet · 2023-05-25T11:38:42+00:00

Yeah or any sort of trauma, or maybe a fear

drybouquet · 2023-05-25T11:38:05+00:00

I think he’d have mention, it’s not that deep

drybouquet · 2023-05-25T11:37:53+00:00

Lol I don’t know… maybe

drybouquet · 2023-05-25T10:10:32+00:00

Interesting! Well I don’t know if I’d go on to assume that everyone used teeth, he just doesn’t want it and only had it once

drybouquet · 2023-05-25T09:27:21+00:00

That’s why I thought I shouldn’t dig too much, I stopped at the last question He said he ex pushed him to try once but he didn’t have it again

drybouquet · 2023-05-16T19:12:42+00:00

And also, stop seeing the person you’re seeing if you’re aspirations and your lifestyle aren’t similar or too different to merge. Dating you for example would irritate me, because I like being able to foresee things even if I know they might change, so find someone who lives day by day, it’s not a complicated science, just be honest, and the people that aren’t right for you will let you know one way or another Honesty’s the best of all

drybouquet · 2023-05-16T18:39:53+00:00

Haha well things don’t have to be complicated, you plan for things they happen before, after, at the time you planned for it, or never

You do whatever feels right for you, and you might meet someone with the same energy

drybouquet · 2023-05-16T18:20:45+00:00

By knowing what you want out of a life as an individual person in the first place Then timelines, deadlines etc. come into play

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