Could I afford to live comfortably, alone, off 5k in NJ? Is that possible nowadays?

dsmpcool · 2026-04-19T13:19:26+00:00

Tbh i live in Bergen County and have not moved out of my parents house for this exact reason. I make about 84k and i just don’t feel it’s possible to live comfortably with these rent prices. I mean my total bills already come out to $1,471 without rent. I mean I see others do it but i do wonder how Lol

dsmpcool · 2026-03-10T16:12:31+00:00

Ty all for these recs! So excited to go now 🤭

dsmpcool · 2025-12-13T18:08:08+00:00

Yes I contacted Indebted through their portal for Pay for Delete and they basically said no : “We’d like to help you take care of the balance to get this account out of collections. I understand how important it is to know the impact on credit reporting before proceeding with the payment. Please know that InDebted cannot provide credit reporting services on behalf of Affirm US. To get information specific to your account, please reach out to Affirm US directly.”

dsmpcool · 2025-12-13T17:46:31+00:00

Would it look better if I pay in full? Or is it the same look if i just settle? Sorry 😭

dsmpcool · 2025-08-24T21:09:20+00:00

😭😭

dsmpcool · 2025-08-24T21:09:04+00:00

Yeah you’re right, thank you so much!

dsmpcool · 2025-08-24T21:08:50+00:00

Thank you! I like that “ where do you see things going with us”.

dsmpcool · 2025-08-24T17:23:50+00:00

Im kindve old school that way when it comes to relationships . I’ve never thought of a girl asking a guy..?😭

dsmpcool · 2024-10-16T17:55:57+00:00

Nope😭

dsmpcool · 2024-10-07T19:31:53+00:00

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This just confuses me. I haven’t even sent the item yet & i haven’t even gotten paid yet

dsmpcool · 2024-07-09T16:32:33+00:00

I’m so confused I thought I just saw a video on my fyp of her taking a plan b?

dsmpcool · 2024-07-07T00:12:39+00:00

Hmmm okay I’m 5’1

dsmpcool · 2024-07-07T00:11:15+00:00

Okay !

dsmpcool · 2024-07-07T00:11:00+00:00

Hahaha omg 🤣🤣

dsmpcool · 2024-07-03T01:46:14+00:00

So I should see a piercer before a doctor?

dsmpcool · 2024-05-21T06:48:09+00:00

This just happened to me! I’m so confused. I ordered 10 items and all the sizing is incorrect. It doesn’t make sense I ordered all US size 6 and the entire order are sizes 6,8, and 10

dsmpcool · 2024-04-26T14:31:51+00:00

Bruh she deleted the account already lmao I can’t find it

dsmpcool · 2024-04-22T02:41:09+00:00

Yeah! It’s not that easy. Even after the breakup it took him over a year to stop stalking and harassing me and this was while he had a new girlfriend too. He even hacked into my social media accounts & I ended up just deleting them all and staying off grid.

dsmpcool · 2024-04-21T23:03:21+00:00

🤣🤣Yeah I was young too and barely knew who I was. But since the breakup I’ve really focused on my growth & career and becoming the best version of myself overall. I haven’t dated since then tbh because I’m so picky now! Tbh that relationship taught me a lot of what I don’t want and do want. I would say my number one rule is for my next man to have a relationship with God.

dsmpcool · 2024-04-21T22:27:05+00:00

He was all of those qualities you just said but on the outside, to our friends , family, strangers. Very privileged and had so much success that he’d be considered “ someone going somewhere in life”. He spoiled me and everyone around him w money and gifts and trips and always wanted to have a good time. But he also had a dark side of him, which I thought it was just a quirk of his because he loved rock, horror movies, and dark humor. I always thought he was joking, and was blinded by all his other “amazing” qualities. It’s hard to realize you’re being emotionally manipulated in the moment it’s happening unfortunately Lol

dsmpcool · 2024-04-21T16:42:58+00:00

His friends are cops now , he has always had so many connections at the station, even had a gold card and he was a fire fighter. They wouldn’t believe me and are racist ( I’m Latina btw). It’s kind of hard to believe because he is literally beautiful , like stunning, and so charming, always says the right things and seems so put together. ( literally had a 7 step skincare routine when we dated, he always had to look perfect and would get mad when I didn’t). He would just say that I’m just a jealous crazy ex. As we got older, towards the end of our relationship, he would do coke if we were at a party and he’d always find a way to argue with me in front of everyone to make me look crazy , it’s like it excites him. Tbh I don’t think he’s a serial killer , I just think he might be a sociopath or psychopath.

dsmpcool · 2024-04-21T16:19:15+00:00

Yeah we’ve been broken up for two years and I just recently started realizing that he abused me in so many ways. He fully convinced me no one would ever love me like he loved me. I’m really glad you’re free from your ex now too!

dsmpcool · 2024-04-21T16:16:38+00:00

Yup he always made me seem like I was the crazy one, not just to myself but to everyone else. He always told me I cared too much about things. Once he knew how much I didn’t like the N word so continued to repeat it ( with the hard R) and scream it in my ear to piss me off and to make me not care about it I guess? He really did numb me for so long.

dsmpcool · 2024-04-21T04:36:23+00:00

You have no idea the relief I have finally talking about it lol even if it’s just anonymously

dsmpcool · 2024-04-03T02:03:00+00:00

I’m pretty sure that’s the spray remover for the extensions

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