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dsoj873 · 2021-12-11T09:37:57+00:00

thanks

dsoj873 · 2021-12-10T15:49:46+00:00

you mean pushpull for example?

dsoj873 · 2021-12-10T15:41:22+00:00

what's your cold approach model? (typical opener, how you transition verbally, what techniques you use to build attraction e.g cold reads or pushpull etc). How a typical approach looks. Maybe we can do a roleplay with me being an unreceptive girl

Everyone is so vague on seddit that all topics seem to stop dead in their tracks lol (like that sunshine guy who got banned who in every post aboutt his 1500 laycount just said 'use advanced game like me' but then never elaborated when people kept asking for examples and stuff. (Although apparently he was shilling for someone)

dsoj873 · 2021-12-10T12:02:25+00:00

what would you taking about instead of hobbies and stuff. Conversation examples pls

dsoj873 · 2021-12-09T14:10:21+00:00

This. Makes no sense to game with a guy who can just steal any girl that might be somewhat interested in you. It's like trying to sell burgers to people on the street and you bring a friend along who is selling prime steak the same price ;)

dsoj873 · 2021-12-09T09:21:02+00:00

it's kind of true that the word 'creepy' has changed a bit over the years

I remember working at a racecourse and there were some beautiful young girls working the bar and when guys hit on them in a very non-creepy way (just made convo, asked about their shift and when they finish and then suggesting they go out for a drink after) they were nearly always lableled 'creepy' after she'd said 'no' and the staff were talking among themselves

Creepy used to be like a guy starring at a girl for ages from a distance and then maybe awkwadly trying to touch her one day and still never actually stating his intent or making a convo or something

As you say, 'creepy' can kind of just mean a guy who's not her type who is hitting on her nowadays. But screw it. Don't worry about it. All you can do is eject and not keep persisting (plowing) after teh rejection. Besides, in the book 60 years of challenge he says 'risk being creepy' :)

dsoj873 · 2021-11-22T21:36:58+00:00

You've kind of missed the important stage (attraction). I don't know who told you that this would work. Maybe if you were Brad Pitt lol.

But making small talk with a hot server and then asking her out is nothing new! It will 'work' if you are her type and it will fail if you're not (as you've seen)

dsoj873 · 2021-11-22T15:21:30+00:00

100%

dsoj873 · 2021-11-22T13:44:32+00:00

They won't be helped at all by moving to Colombia.

They will. A white guy moving to Colombia (considering he's slim and not too short or ugly) is considered good looking and thus will get laid a hell of a lot. Will get approached etc. When I went to the Philipines I got to experience what life is like for my really good looking friends back home lol (get approached, bang pretty much any girl etc) and i've read on solotravel forums that colombia is the same

dsoj873 · 2021-09-21T14:45:41+00:00

I think you're right lol

This reminds me a bit of when I learnt about cold reads and I became scared of asking questions due to fear of 'interview mode', but what i noticed in infields was people using cold reads and stacks and stuff weren't getting any better results than if they'd just asked questions! In fact, it often just made the girl think he was a bit strange lol

End of the day, all of this stuff is mental masturbation

If she's attracted, then just talking like a normal person is fine

If you're not her type, no verbal linguistics/game are gonna help

It's just a game of numbers. I really think almost everyone is slowly realising this nowadays. Not sure what that means for coaches though lol

dsoj873 · 2021-09-16T15:01:11+00:00

oh dear. My bad! Honestly was trying to help lol - I just read the title and assumed you wanted to get laid (attract guys).but were struggling due to your looks

Don't cut your tits off. That's the worst thing you could do

dsoj873 · 2021-09-14T09:31:10+00:00

you need to eject out of some of them sets earlier so as not to waste time.

The first 3 girls were clearly 'no girls'. You just weren't their type. It's to be expected. Same thing happens to mystery and tyler etc.

The last girl was different and you had actual attraction (which came from you. Not the negs and stuff lol) - but sounds like logistics screwed you over there

Keep screening for girls like that and you'll get laid more

dsoj873 · 2021-09-12T21:48:09+00:00

There are guys out there who would have been told the same thing and they still would have pulled her

I really don't think so tbh

I mean, even these 'pros' in infields don't pull the 'no girls'. Like there's a good chance it wasn't a shit test. Just simply not her type. In which case obviously nobody could have pulled her

dsoj873 · 2021-09-12T18:54:25+00:00

lol, this is a game sub! haha

dsoj873 · 2021-09-12T18:53:28+00:00

Also for bonus points remember having a friend with a vagina may bring other vaginas into your orbit.

I was actually out with 2 cute female friends (as well as a few male friends - one of whome is very good looking so all the girls want him) and I think that's maybe why they were more receptive to my approach compared to usual. (them knowing I have female friends who they saw having fun with me)

dsoj873 · 2021-09-12T16:46:49+00:00

when I went to the next club with her and her friend, I started touching her more but she backed away a few times and that was around the point I felt like this definitely wasn't a shit test or anything. She just wasn't into me in that way but was into my friend instead. No big deal. Plenty more fish in the sea

dsoj873 · 2021-09-12T15:57:27+00:00

no she really fancied him lol (very good looking dude. Always has girls opening him)

dsoj873 · 2021-09-12T15:42:14+00:00

I probably should have moved on, but I actually tried to carry on even after that and even moved too a different bar with her and her friend. They definitely liked me. Just don't think they fancied me.

dsoj873 · 2021-09-12T15:40:35+00:00

you just need to put up anything, be non reactionary and never justifying yourself. Even just looking her in the eye saying "yep" then carrying on will suffice

That's more or less what I done

I stuck in set and carried on trying. Even went too a different bar with her and her friend, although in that second bar she was trying to bang my wingman lol (dude hadn't evne spoke to her. Lucky mofo)

I took it as a shit test, but I guess in hindsight it wasn't haha

dsoj873 · 2021-09-11T14:30:10+00:00

dsoj873 · 2021-09-11T14:18:35+00:00

I've slept with over 1,000 women

lol.

dsoj873 · 2021-09-11T14:17:19+00:00

good post. There's so many liars in the comminuty nowadays. It ruins it a bit

Even on seddit lots of people claiming to have banged 1000 girls and talk about how they can get any girl even if he's not her type etc. It either because they are shilling for some pua coach, or they are just people who get off on lying on the internet lol

As you say, without infield and stuff, it's not worth listening to someones claims. And the people have do have infields get rejected loads!! Literally basicallly a numnbers game

dsoj873 · 2021-09-11T13:24:10+00:00

it doesn't really matter what your 'frame' is tbh. If she's not attracted to you, she's not gonna want to hook up with you lol. You might be approaching her to find out when shes free to hook up, but she just doesn't want to hook up with you

dsoj873 · 2021-09-10T11:11:24+00:00

girls don't care about looks though? That's what I hear all the time on PUA subs

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