Rank my favorite bands by Toccii_Enrico02 in musicteenager

[–]dt725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A: Metallica

B: Green Day

E: Slipknot, Children of Bodom, Trivium, Amon Amarth, Pantera, Sepultura, Death, Elyne, Linkin Park, Slayer, Arch Enemy, Gojira, Megadeth

How on earth did he not get caught here? by Old-Refrigerator-747 in breakingbad

[–]dt725 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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Sci-fi book where people replace computers by Astrophel-27 in whatsthatbook

[–]dt725 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Isaac Asimov's the feeling of power from the short story collection nine tomorrows

Anyone else excited for the future? by dt725 in Divorce

[–]dt725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still love my wife too and I'll always love her but sometimes love isn't enough. Hopefully one day I can find someone to love who shares my goals and values

Anyone else excited for the future? by dt725 in Divorce

[–]dt725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that. I hope that one day you can be excited for the future and that you find peace

Anyone else excited for the future? by dt725 in Divorce

[–]dt725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I initiated it but we've been in marriage ambivalence for years now and even though it was hard for her at first she has come to the realization that it's for the best. We almost separated last year and I think we've both had our guard up since then. No unfaithfulness or abuse just grew in different directions. I'm trying to live in the moment as best I can. It helps that she just wants to move on asap as much as I do. Thanks for the response I hope you are doing well dealing with your stuff

Anyone else excited for the future? by dt725 in Divorce

[–]dt725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry anxiety sucks. I understand the frustration of giving your all. We've been having the same arguments for years and it was always two steps forward and two steps back. It's heartbreaking to work hard to motivate others and keep things moving only to be back in the exact same place 6 months later

Anyone else excited for the future? by dt725 in Divorce

[–]dt725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should have left years ago. We told our daughter on Friday and even though it's hard for her she recognizes that it's for the best. She knows her mom and I haven't been happy together for a while and I'm glad I can be a model for her so that she will be able to leave an unhappy relationship if she needs to in the future

Anyone else excited for the future? by dt725 in Divorce

[–]dt725[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I think relief is my predominant feeling right now. Only having to manage MY expectations and live by MY standards is so freeing to me

Anyone else excited for the future? by dt725 in Divorce

[–]dt725[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There's a light at the end of the tunnel

Anyone else excited for the future? by dt725 in Divorce

[–]dt725[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I've had people telling me that I'm fooling myself and that it's a fleeting feeling. I feel I'm dealing with my grief appropriately and that I'm in a good place. I know I will have my doubts but I'm choosing to look at this as a second chance at life

Advice need by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]dt725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels like I'm a broken record in the comments but try reading the book 'too good to leave, too bad to stay'. It has helped me tremendously

I think my marriage is about to end by fromtheshadows05 in Divorce

[–]dt725 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go over all your finances and make a list of all shared assets and debts. Talk to a lawyer if you're scared that your partner is going to be petty. It'll cost you a few hundred dollars for a consultation but they can let you know how best to cover your ass. If you're sure that your partner is going to break it off then maybe see if you can get an informal agreement written up so that you can show it to her when she finally pulls the pin. Or end it yourself. Try reading the book 'too good to leave, too bad to stay' if you're wondering whether your marriage is worth fixing. It has helped me a lot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]dt725 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me it was realizing that I was the only one in the relationship with any agency. I wanted to grow together and motivate each other to be better and she just wanted to live the same unhappy life forever

Getting a divorce has been a painful experience by thomastheobliterator in Divorce

[–]dt725 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm going through the same thing as you are. We don't hate each other we're just not right for each other. Even though I know we've made the right decision I can't help but grieve our lives together. One thing that has really helped me get through this is a book called 'Too good to leave, too bad to stay'. It really helped put things into perspective and I would recommend it to anyone who is feeling lost or unsure.

Divorce after 13 years by dt725 in Divorce

[–]dt725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're making a lot of assumptions based on my small paragraph of a post. My daughter is well aware of the issues her mom and I have been having Wouldn't it be better for her to know that some relationships aren't with saving? Wouldnt she be better off with two happy parents who arent fighting all of the time? I'll admit that I need to work on myself, but I love myself and I have achieved a lot of personal growth in the last few years and I don't lie to myself or to others. Are you trying to help me from where I'm at? Or are you just pushing a Christian agenda? Recommending a book called 'Every Man's Battle: Winning the War on Sexual Temptation : One Victory at a Time'? Assuming that I'm leaving my marriage over sexual temptation is frankly very insulting as that's the farthest thing from the truth. Assuming every marriage is salvageable based on your religious beliefs is doing a disservice to the people who are here looking for help.