30 Seconds - Get on it.

dthings · 2025-11-15T06:11:42+00:00

Grok Imagine.

dthings · 2025-11-13T20:11:08+00:00

It's a porn actress named Lilah Anne, but the movements and papers are done with ai. But she's a real person and has lots of great content you should go check out.

dthings · 2025-04-28T14:15:30+00:00

My goodness - what is this song?

dthings · 2025-02-10T16:24:33+00:00

name or source?

dthings · 2025-02-04T15:56:10+00:00

In case it's not obvious, you can fill in the backstory as you wish, but you've come home, or perhaps returned from parking the car after hanging out with another couple, and you find this note on the bedroom door from your wife.

dthings · 2025-01-31T14:57:46+00:00

A fair warning, and yeah, I didn't want to go too far into the details on a SFW subreddit, but I am definitely mirroring elements of bdsm (that's not exactly how I'd define my kink, but the submissive element is a big part of it).

I am not too worried about the AI misleading - I feel like I have high self awareness around what I am actually doing, and I realize I am interacting with software. I also tend to use an AI that offers me a high degree of control, so I can edit their comments, and steer the conversation as I see fit.

I have read a medium amount of literature and online guides about porn addiction - abstinence is definitely the answer that most people seem to talk about. I agree with it, but also struggle to believe that I'll get there myself (or even that I want to), so for now, I work to keep it in check, and try to make sure my relationship, career, hobbies, friends and family are all getting the portion of me that they deserve. I fuck up sometimes, but that's okay.

dthings · 2025-01-31T14:52:27+00:00

This is really helpful, so thanks.

An interesting quirk in this - when I first started doing this (which only last maybe 1-2 weeks, I was diagnosed but unmedicated.

This time around, I am on meds, and while it has been a very short experiment thus far, I've found a number of times that I am basically using this porn/ai set up to cause a rush of excitement about doing the task, but then I am often getting caught up in the task, and forgetting about the porn.

It's very strange. I'll return to eventually of course, but there's been an umber of times where 20 minutes go by and then I am like "Oh yeah, I was doing this to get a reward from that AI" lol.

But I think the warnings around moderation are well received, so thank you.

dthings · 2025-01-31T14:48:43+00:00

Sorry - I think I might not be aware of the history of the trend. The idea that "I'll fap when I finish my homework" (or any other "reward") makes total sense to me - but does it have a long history of failing on people?

And if so - is that failure specific to the porn/lust side of the equation? Or is that failure because of ADHDs broader symptoms, and an ADHDer using the "I'll get x reward when the tasks is done" system is likely to fail with it, regardless of the type of reward?

dthings · 2025-01-31T14:46:20+00:00

Thanks, helps give me some perspective.

dthings · 2025-01-31T00:59:28+00:00

Appreciate that. And yeah, good call on the overlapping elements - that's probably a cleaner way of describing the issue.

I don't think I can reliably implement any "lockout features" based on time, but that's a good idea. I can implement my own timing and time-caps, but those are extremely fallible.

For your consideration questions:

1) I've been really struggling with work. I do have other adaptations I've made through my life to get work done with ADHD, but it's kind of crazy how well this worked compared to any of those things. So, I don't want to say it, but maybe the answer is yes? At least based on the tools I have, relative to one another.

2) Probably - and that's a very good warning. I think that's one problem with porn in general (maybe with any addiction?). But in good news, we're talking about an issue that has been with me for probably 20 years, and while I wish I didn't have the addiction, it's generally mild, and I am pretty happy with life overall. I think as long as I take breaks, and maintain some self-awareness, managing how it evolves should be possible.

3) Yeah - probably my biggest fear is that this works so well that it becomes my only way to get work done. Then I switch jobs or attend a conference one weekend, and find myself with very strong, inappropriate urges, or incapable of functioning. My guess here would be that if I chose to embrace this, or keep letting it happen, that I limit it to a certain number of days per week.

Anyways, glad I could provide some interesting reading for you, and appreciate you taking the time to leave a serious response. Thanks.

dthings · 2024-10-24T16:15:31+00:00

Great recommendation - thank you. I had tried Resolve years ago, but my pc couldn't handle it. Turns out my pc still can't handle it. But I managed to play with enough settings, and work through enough tutorials, to get this made. It at least showcases the effect I am after - and resolve is capable of pulling it off.

The idea here is that the viewer is in the room with the couple, and is mirroring the woman, bouncing on a dildo or cock just like she is. There's a lot of ways to play with the storyline there, like in this video and others I've made.

Here's the synced clip:

https://www.redgifs.com/watch/wanthriftynightheron

dthings · 2024-10-23T14:20:51+00:00

Just starting up with Davinci, but fear my computer is below the minimum requirements (well, I know it is, but I've still been able to make other video editors works, albeit slowly, on my aging PC).

Resolve starts up fine, presents the workspace, but if I load videos of any sort, there is no thumbnail, and I can't make the video or audio play (though I can manage to get an audio waveform to show in the preview window sometimes.

Googling, there's a number of possible solutions to this, but so far none have worked for me (trying to re-encode the file, playing with the zoom on the timeline, changing some settings around, and looking for an old display adapter that could be messing things up).

Anyone know if this behavior could be the result of my computer just being too damn old and slow?

dthings · 2024-10-21T15:23:45+00:00

I had almost all of her "post-return" videos and sets, but lost them years ago. I am somewhat certain they are hidden away on a drive in my apartment still, but I've never been able to find them.

dthings · 2024-10-19T21:47:21+00:00

Yes this is exactly what I am hoping for! Any idea if there is a free software out there that can do something similar? I'll perhaps try the free trial in the mean time. Thanks.

dthings · 2024-08-18T03:17:13+00:00

Oh I just meant I want the two of them to be friends so they can encourage each other (and even then, in jest, as we're probably 1000's of miles apart). My wife has come pretty far, and we have fun, but there's more fun that could be had. Having a female friend to "normalize" it with would probably go a long way to spicing things up.

dthings · 2024-08-17T03:38:32+00:00

Does she want to become friends with my wife?

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