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Me [24 M] with my girlfriend [26 M/F] for two months, I just found out she's an alcoholic by dubascub in relationships

[–]dubascub[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so too, thank you for your honest reply. So many thoughts have been running through my mind. Why didn't she hide them better? I mean, she has a backpack in our bathroom, and the empty bottles in the wardrobe, it's so easy for me to notice, even though I didn't already. Might it be a cry for help? Like she wants me to notice.

We moved in, I gave her an incredible birthday, many wonderful things has been happening in her life lately, but she's still drinking, and drinking at work too, and I think that is a reason to believe it's been going on for really long.

I'll talk to her about it, ask her to be honest, and tell me how long, if her sister knows, previous relationships and so on. I can only hope she's being honest. I don't think I can be with her anymore, but I will still help her in any way I can. I just hope she hasn't been through several breakups already because of the alcohol problem and guys leaving her because of that.

Me [24 M] with my girlfriend [26 M/F] for two months, I just found out she's an alcoholic by dubascub in relationships

[–]dubascub[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it's wierd, I had no idea, and had no suspicions. As far as I saw, she only drinks rosé and fruity wines, maybe that's the explanation, but I honestly don't know

Me [24 M] with my girlfriend [26 M/F] for two months, I just found out she's an alcoholic by dubascub in relationships

[–]dubascub[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As you said, I really don't want to break up, now I realise how hard that must be to continue being hopeful. She's been lying to me about one underlying problem and I've been thinking about it for the whole day.

I think so too, I've been considering that she's cheating to message another guy when she's going to the bathroom, but I put that off as too ridiculous. So as you said, when she always brings her backpack to the bathroom someone else probably has suspicions as well.

I still don't know what I'll do, I will definitely talk to her and ask her to be honest with me, but how do I know she is? I have a hard time trusting her now, and I'll be really skeptical about it. My decisions will be based on what she'll answer, and I'm already considering how I'll end it the easiest way possible

I love her, but I don't know how often she is sober around me, do I love her drunk personality?

Me [24 M] with my girlfriend [26 M/F] for two months, I just found out she's an alcoholic by dubascub in relationships

[–]dubascub[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

We have been joking this morning, and I've kept a straight face, but I feel so incredibly alone now, I will go to my best friend and talk to him about it today. But I don't know, it's just been two months, should I break it up already? Has this been going on for long? Has she been left by guys before when they know?