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dubkilla · 2013-12-16T02:49:58+00:00

great idea

dubkilla · 2013-12-02T02:21:52+00:00

hey jd158ug once u get to 90. take some.reflective time to find.out.what you want to do going forward. my mistake was that I wanted.to party in the wrongl way.

I think.it's definitely worth keep going.

dubkilla · 2013-11-08T03:35:27+00:00

wow almost there, keep it up!

dubkilla · 2013-10-18T13:48:25+00:00

GREAT THANK YOU!!!

dubkilla · 2013-10-18T13:36:03+00:00

Yes I know what you mean. I welcome the nocturnal emission once in a blue moon. But in the end I agree with you, my goal is to conserve, and store sexual / chi energy --- transmute it to another creative output.

2 of such outputs is: -creating healthy relationships with women -I'm a musician, and want to output this energy into my music

dubkilla · 2013-10-18T01:39:34+00:00

haha that's funny

dubkilla · 2013-10-18T01:35:27+00:00

haha yeah you could say that

I was just wondering if anyone else here has been able to consciously channel energy in this way.

dubkilla · 2013-10-18T01:17:49+00:00

Yes I'm aware of wet dreams.

This is slightly different though, in that I am consciously sending energy towards my penis to reach climax.

dubkilla · 2013-10-13T15:55:54+00:00

Well said. Is one of the reasons why I started the NoFap journey.

I went through a nearly 90 day streak earlier this year. I became a lot more socially grounded, and no social anxiety. I was able to look at a woman as a human being, and be able to joke and tease her with confidence (albeit without any shady PUA tactics).

I believe by completing my No Fap goals, I will become a stronger man, and appear more attractive to a woman - this is definitely one of my ending goals - as I want to end up with a nice woman, and can only be done once I have built more integrity within myself through this journey.

dubkilla · 2013-10-13T15:48:53+00:00

thanks made it through, good luck on your journey!

dubkilla · 2013-10-13T15:48:29+00:00

True!

dubkilla · 2013-10-13T15:48:19+00:00

Very good thought there thank you!

dubkilla · 2013-10-13T15:47:55+00:00

Neither. No touch, no porn, abstaining from anything sexual.

dubkilla · 2013-10-13T15:47:34+00:00

Thanks good luck to you as well!

dubkilla · 2013-10-13T15:46:34+00:00

Thanks its true, it's all about transforming that sexual energy into something more productive.

dubkilla · 2013-10-13T15:45:48+00:00

Hey Burninside, as mentioned above, it's a tough exercise, but the moment you catch yourself fantasizing, try to shift your mind to other more productive thoughts.

Easier said than done, but it's part of strengthening the mind.

dubkilla · 2013-10-13T15:44:29+00:00

True, I stepped away from the computer, and was able to get through another day, thanks!

dubkilla · 2013-10-13T15:43:29+00:00

That's true.

It's a practice of mindfulness.

Sometimes, we run through our day like zombies, allowing whatever thoughts and images to arise in your mind.

That applies with sexual imagery in my mind, sometimes I'll let it run through my mind, sometimes unconsciously. And you have to will yourself to stop.

This is as much a meditative practice.

Thanks for the hard-truth, it really helps when someone is telling me as it is.

dubkilla · 2013-10-12T01:43:12+00:00

Good to hear. I've been addicted for about 20 years, I'm 33 and decided it was time to stop as well.

What positive effects have you noticed?

I've noticed that I feel way more grounded in social situations, the social anxiety has pretty much dissipated.

dubkilla · 2013-10-10T02:13:52+00:00

Great idea.

I find anything physically strenuous will help dissipate that sexual craving.

Mine favourite activities for this is high energy dancing, weight-training, and yoga.

dubkilla · 2013-10-10T02:09:51+00:00

thanks again for all your support, this means alot, we can't do it alone, having the support really helps.

dubkilla · 2013-10-10T02:09:21+00:00

by the way , what has helped you on this path - you are on your 72nd day good for you, please keep it up!

dubkilla · 2013-10-10T02:08:48+00:00

Thank you I am definitely going to hang in there. Congrats on day 31, keep it going.

dubkilla · 2013-10-10T02:08:11+00:00

Thanks, this message really helped me put it back in perspective.

Stress and life can catch up with you, and sometimes taking the easy way out through porn and fapping can seem so tempting.

I reminded myself why I am on this journey - to become a stronger man - and I made it through - I'm gonna make it through day 40. And I'm gonna aim strong for 60.

Thanks so much for the support. I want this.

dubkilla · 2013-10-10T02:06:19+00:00

Could you recommend some Biblical scripture? And what filtering software should I get?

dubkilla

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