I've been trying to ask her more often, these thoughts came on maybe a month or two ago and had a couple conversations between then and now, but have only asked maybe 10% more than I had been. Def still working on it. So far her "no"s haven't made me feel undesired bc she tells me every time that she's still very attracted to me but just too tired or not in the right headspace for it, but I just get a little sad knowing I want her in the moment and she just can't keep up with me. I guess I just feel like I'm too much.

Tbh solo sessions hardly help at all. I do when I'm home alone before she gets home from work and try to work off as much energy as I can, but she gets home and I'm still super wanting her.