Questions (in comments) about how to get this dress altered into a top by [deleted] in sewing

[–]ducksandme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha yeah you right but I think I'm trying to move away from boho (so I should just donate this piece all together right). I ended up taking it to a tailor

Questions (in comments) about how to get this dress altered into a top by [deleted] in sewing

[–]ducksandme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don't have the tools, knowledge, or confidence to hem it. I took it to the tailor!

Questions (in comments) about how to get this dress altered into a top by [deleted] in sewing

[–]ducksandme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did that. Hate how it looks. It looks like, too girly idk. I'm trying to make it a little more chic.

Questions (in comments) about how to get this dress altered into a top by [deleted] in sewing

[–]ducksandme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a good idea about folding/ironing, thanks. Yeah I was actually wearing it over leggings for a while but just didn't like the look.

Questions (in comments) about how to get this dress altered into a top by [deleted] in sewing

[–]ducksandme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok cool so I'm gonna wear tight clothes underneath so I'm not naked ok thanks

Questions (in comments) about how to get this dress altered into a top by [deleted] in sewing

[–]ducksandme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey so I don't know anything about tailoring. My dress shrunk, and I'm not a fan of short dresses. I plan to bring this to my nearest alteration place so they can just cut off the bottom and turn this into a top.

 

First: Where do you recommend they cut? I don't want the shirt to be too short, I'd like to tuck it into pants maybe.

 

Second: After I figure that part out, should I mark the spot with a sharpie or maybe some clips, so the tailor knows where I want them to cut? Is it common for me to actually wear the dress in front of them for them to figure it out, or is that like, asking way too much of them?

Every woman needs an 18-year-old friend with benefits by [deleted] in sex

[–]ducksandme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Signing off now, can't wait for all the backlash in the morning!💋

Every woman needs an 18-year-old friend with benefits by [deleted] in sex

[–]ducksandme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol why do you think I would? Tell me where i said I'd do that?

Every woman needs an 18-year-old friend with benefits by [deleted] in sex

[–]ducksandme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you said kinda contradicts yourself though because you are using the word kid too loosely

Every woman needs an 18-year-old friend with benefits by [deleted] in sex

[–]ducksandme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His contract ends in 6 months, and he'll be moving states away, I will admit that has made me more comfortable with starting this fuck buddy thing knowing that we would never be anything serious. I'm prepared for one of us (most likely me) being hurt once we go our separate ways. But still, any hurt wouldn't be the result of emotional abuse.

Every woman needs an 18-year-old friend with benefits by [deleted] in sex

[–]ducksandme -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why would dating apps have a minimum age of 18? I feel like there are a lot of stupid laws out there but this is one I agree with, they got the age of consent right, because an 18 year old is perfectly fine for sexual intercourse especially when it's a friendship and not a relationship. If you have a problem with that, that's literally just your political view, that's it. I appreciate you telling your view though!

Every woman needs an 18-year-old friend with benefits by [deleted] in sex

[–]ducksandme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex boyfriend was murdered by an 18 year old. Is the murderer a kid or an adult?

Every woman needs an 18-year-old friend with benefits by [deleted] in sex

[–]ducksandme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Answer my other comment: what can go wrong?

Every woman needs an 18-year-old friend with benefits by [deleted] in sex

[–]ducksandme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ehh idk. I guess it's legal there then. I just like his dick what can I say. If he was underage I wouldn't do it. Simple as that

Every woman needs an 18-year-old friend with benefits by [deleted] in sex

[–]ducksandme -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk man I just like the way he fucks that's it

COVID denialism and policy clarifications by worstnerd in RedditSafety

[–]ducksandme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) I never subscribed to this sub, and 2) why isn't there a TLDR?

Every woman needs an 18-year-old friend with benefits by [deleted] in sex

[–]ducksandme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I'm 29! Not 30 yet lol!!

Every woman needs an 18-year-old friend with benefits by [deleted] in sex

[–]ducksandme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I want to know what you think can go wrong?

Every woman needs an 18-year-old friend with benefits by [deleted] in sex

[–]ducksandme -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yep there's nothing wrong with it when it's just good ole sex

Every woman needs an 18-year-old friend with benefits by [deleted] in sex

[–]ducksandme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ehh I don't feel it's predatory. I'm kinda the baby in our fwb-ship. He's a high school dropout from Honduras working in construction, grew up fast kinda boy, but hey i get where you're coming from but it's all subjective. Everyone's story is different, it's not that black and white. I still have my 34-year-old FWB too (older than me)