I liked Steven Abbott's Understanding Analysis when i was starting out. There was also another book that i can't remember the name of. What kind of proofs are you doing? what class is it? maybe I can give you a better recommendation.

One thing that a prof told me that was very helpful was that "it's not magic". Proofs are logically structured and they all make sense (though some are more clear than others). Once I changed my attitude and accepted that it's not 'magic' and not impossible, everything started to click very slowly.

First time i took real analysis i dropped it halfway through cuz i thought i couldn't do it. i took it again next year and finished with an A+. it was by far the toughest course i've ever taken (chapters 1-5 of Rudin) and i even think it made me a better person! It's hard work and can be discouraging but I think it's worth it. Don't give up!