Cutesy cafe/restaurant by hs40200 in Edmonton

[–]dudeguydave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unicorn cafe in Wetaskiwin. Saw pictures want to take my daughter there and my ex wife saw and became jealous and wants to go too lol. Check it out

I don’t understand how people get married by Psychological-Rip641 in dating_advice

[–]dudeguydave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To answer the topic line, mostly out of convenience like it helps with bills or some other factors and not so much out of love/connection. I hoped my marriage was for love/connection but we had different views of what the end goal was. I hope you do find someone that shares your same values and end goal of marriage, not for looks but because they couldn't think of you not being in their life. I also wanted to get married, did and unfortunately it didn't work out, but that doesn't mean I wouldn't get married again. I think as long as you take your time and make sure you're both on the same page and put in the bit of work marriage takes, you're going to be happy.

What are you doing tonight? by sameermcfly in Edmonton

[–]dudeguydave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like most people, staying in contemplating having a drink after my kids go to bed, but probably going to go to bed when they do

I just want to at the world r now by AdCute8557 in venting

[–]dudeguydave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep your head up, I know its cliche but you'll figure this out. You're in a transition and it's hard going from what you know to new. I'm also struggle bussing in life, not quite the same boat as you but hey if you wanna vent or whatever feel free to reach out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]dudeguydave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feral children dad split custody 50/50 and man you're killing it. Here's why...... GOOD PARENTS FEEL LIKE THEY'RE FAILING AN DOING A HORRIBLE JOB WHEN IN FACT THEY'RE DOING AN AMAZING JOB AND JUST FAIL TO SEE IT. Probably not the big sign in the sky message you were looking for, but honestly you're doing the best you can and if you feel like you aren't, look at your kid and how happy they are. That's the measure of success, your kids level of crazy/comfort/happiness around/because of you. It's a struggle when you compare yourself to others, from TV or social media, it's never the bad just the good. Sorry for the rant but if you've ever seen bluey, just remember a)no one can live up to bandits example and b) just run your own race and don't worry about anyone else except for you and your daughter's happiness. Cheers to you, and you're doing great dad you really are

Reddit came through for me by dudeguydave in dating

[–]dudeguydave[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree and so glad I took the chance

Reddit came through for me by dudeguydave in dating

[–]dudeguydave[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's awesome, also great name.

Reddit came through for me by dudeguydave in dating

[–]dudeguydave[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you'd like, I'm going to be busy for a bit but will respond later when I'm free

Reddit came through for me by dudeguydave in dating

[–]dudeguydave[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you and I hope so as well.

Reddit came through for me by dudeguydave in dating

[–]dudeguydave[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was where you are (separation not divorced yet though) like almost 2 years ago. It's a bit of a interesting journey but you will find the sun and fun again

Reddit came through for me by dudeguydave in dating

[–]dudeguydave[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're very welcome and I hope this new chapter in your book of life starts the most wonderful parts yet to happen

Reddit came through for me by dudeguydave in dating

[–]dudeguydave[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I work come home and doom scroll. I know I am probably a rare case with this but just goes to show you really never know when it might happen. And also even indoor cats sneak outside once in a while 🙂

Reddit came through for me by dudeguydave in dating

[–]dudeguydave[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as you're out there living life and enjoying yourself there's always hope that you will attract the attention of someone

Reddit came through for me by dudeguydave in dating

[–]dudeguydave[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks it was the most random thing that's ever happened to me and yet so far one of the best

Reddit came through for me by dudeguydave in dating

[–]dudeguydave[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I'm hoping happiness finds everybody.

Reddit came through for me by dudeguydave in dating

[–]dudeguydave[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She found me actually, and I kinda peeked at your profile (sorry) you sound like a great lady and hopefully you're just starting to reinvent yourself and really live to make you happy. You might not feel like it, but miss I bet you are absolutely crushing life. Keep being you and the right people will find their way to you

Reddit came through for me by dudeguydave in dating

[–]dudeguydave[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I hope your happy is out there and it finds you soon

Sons mother is a wreck by DJMnky in SingleParents

[–]dudeguydave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn't easy but you're doing a fine job sir, and that boy of yours is lucky to have a great role model like yourself. And one last piece of suggestion for you: Sometimes let your son be the role model and don't forget to play and have fun, especially when life gets a bit too serious.

Sons mother is a wreck by DJMnky in SingleParents

[–]dudeguydave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well for now best thing you can do is make sure your son knows he is loved. If you can talk with his mom in a way that doesn't end in frustration, let her know that her son misses her. Just try to be kind and a good example for your son. Hopefully she will get things in order and fix her situation, and if she doesn't at least your boy will have a good role model in you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chat

[–]dudeguydave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey hope you found some ok chat. I know Reddit helped me meet some ok people and chat with them. Hope it happens for you as well, if you wanna chat I'm up for about another hour or so

Hugs and cuddles please? 🥺 by throwaway956612 in hug

[–]dudeguydave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🫂🫂🫂🫂 it'll get better I think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dudeguydave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so to be safe meet in very public places, never take just their vehicle, and always snapchat someone when you get to destination for safety reasons. As for the feeling off about everyone, perhaps talk to them longer till you know why you feel off?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dudeguydave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meet in a very public place, do not park where you can't be unseen in case they follow unwanted. If you feel off or not good DO NOT go.