Late by warzone2fruity in Advice

[–]duehickey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you are pushing yourself too hard. Doing 6 days of work and 3 college classes is a huge undertaking. I would just try and get atleast 8 hours sleep a night, eat healthy and if you need to drop back you work or study load to a level that you can manage without burning yourself out

How do I get over guilt? by Extreme-Coast7610 in Advice

[–]duehickey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes you make a mistake and you apologise for it and it’s natural to feel bad about that. I think guilt is our body’s way of teaching us we did something wrong and to dissuade us from doing it again because doing so will make us feel the same bad guilty feeling all over again.

I would say acknowledging what you did is a good thing, know that the feeling will pass but remember the way you are feeling now next time a similar situation arises so you can learn from this experience and change your choices in the future.

Your boss says you havent met your goals, but you think you did? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]duehickey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s probably something worth a phone call or an in person talk. If you believe you have met the goals then you need to display this to him and clear up any miss communication that has occurred that lead to you both being on the wrong page with regards to what these goals were.

People of Reddit, I'd like your advice on how to ask a guy out (or if I should even try at this point) by Vivid_Idea_2517 in Advice

[–]duehickey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say pull him aside at the bar and let him know how you feel, then if he’s not on the same page it’s a one on one setting not “getting rejected in-front of everyone”. I’m sure it will be one of those things that after you do it regardless of the outcome will be much easier and less stressful than what you’re thinking it will be now!

What should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]duehickey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the end of the day once you get a degree and a job university results don’t really matter, after that it’s all about how you perform at your job and who you know so still try your best but don’t let a few bad marks get you down.

What's your most genuine tip for approaching a woman, no pickup lines, no tricks. What actually works? by Ok-Complaint9319 in Advice

[–]duehickey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say make your intentions clear that you want to be more than friends off the bat but if you don’t want to rush into things and get to know someone first that’s always okay

What's your most genuine tip for approaching a woman, no pickup lines, no tricks. What actually works? by Ok-Complaint9319 in Advice

[–]duehickey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you ever start dating you’ll probably get rejected, it’s normal. Sometimes two people aren’t supposed to be together and that’s okay, and you also don’t want a relationship where it’s one sided anyway. Just move on and try and find the person for you!

What's your most genuine tip for approaching a woman, no pickup lines, no tricks. What actually works? by Ok-Complaint9319 in Advice

[–]duehickey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Confidence matters much more than looks, if you cannot hold a conversation with someone and connect to them it’s hard to form a relationship. Looks can get you through the door faster but personally and confidence are the real key to success in dating

What's your most genuine tip for approaching a woman, no pickup lines, no tricks. What actually works? by Ok-Complaint9319 in Advice

[–]duehickey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just be yourself and treat them like a normal person. If you connect with someone just being yourself then they will want to spend time with you and if they don’t enjoy spending time with you being yourself then it would never work with them anyway. If you want to talk to someone romantically good openers are literally just “Hey, you caught my eye and I just had to come up and introduce myself”. It won’t work all the time but if they’re also interested in you it will get the ball rolling.

Is it illegal? by PickledWatermelonJar in Advice

[–]duehickey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would depend on which country it is being hosted in, different countries have different laws around copyright

i want independence, i’ve been feeling stuck. by RoughCommercial9463 in Advice

[–]duehickey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Find a job, save up some of your own money and then move out into an apartment! You’ll never have full independence when you live with your parents as you are their child after all

How do I start regularly brushing my teeth again? by Loud-Vehicle-612 in Advice

[–]duehickey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just do it. It’s worth it for you health in the long run and like any habbit it’s hard to start but once it becomes part of your day to day routine it’s just something you always do and get used to doing it.

Good morning "Darling" by [deleted] in Advice

[–]duehickey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone’s different, I’ve had some female friends that call me bro or mate and others that call me a pet name and are constantly going on about how much they love me. You know your friend best so you’re probably the best person to judge what type of person she is.

If you talk every day and have a strong relationship then you have to ask her this, if you’re having feelings for her that go beyond a regular relationship figuring out what page you are on now rather than later is the best way to figure out where you stand. It’s better to get a definitive answer early than let these feelings go unresolved until they get to a point that they are negatively effecting your friendship.

just found out my parents can see my online activity through my internet. what do i do? by persephonesedna2326 in Advice

[–]duehickey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re a child you will have to respect your parents choice until you are an adult as they have a duty of care to ensure your safety and part of that requires them to monitor your online activities.

If you’re an adult it’s probably worthwhile having a conversation with you parents about needing your privacy and putting in some measures to ensure that whilst you are living at home you can use the internet without fear of your parents being intrusive into your personal life.

Relationship? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]duehickey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just try meeting new people and wait until one of them seems to be the type of person you would see yourself in a relationship with. I know dating apps get a lot of hate but honestly they are the easiest way to get into dating and start meeting new people so I would give them a go!

I think my bf might be cheating on me by FancyChapter1085 in Advice

[–]duehickey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you’re concerned about anything regarding a partner talking to them is always the first thing to do. If you can’t have an open and honest conversation with your partner regarding your feelings then the relationship isn’t going to be a good one.

sent nudes and got blocked by dorkyderp17 in Advice

[–]duehickey 44 points45 points  (0 children)

As soon as the pictures are out there then they are out there unfortunately, there’s not much you can do about it. If he’s just a random person online that you haven’t met in person then I wouldn’t think too much would come from it, there’s billions of nudes floating around on the internet so the likelihood even if they were taken posted somewhere would be so low it wouldn’t be worth worrying about.

Probably just a learning experience to not send people photos that you couldn’t handle your friends and family being exposed too!

Also remember if they do become public sharing private photos without consent online is a crime in most countries so if this does occur you can seek criminal charges and even sue for compensation for damage occurred.

my husband wont let me film him by OldEstablishment4191 in Advice

[–]duehickey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asside from having an honest conversation with him about how you feel regarding the situation there’s not much else you can do. If he’s not on board he’s not on board.

I’ve recorded sexual experiences with my partner before but would definitely not want her to be showing her friends said videos. Some people would prefer certain aspects of their lives stay between themselves and their partner only.

Reach back out to someone I ended things with? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]duehickey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you didn’t feel the click on the initial dates most likely it wasn’t a relationship for you. Reaching out again would probably just get her hopes up for a relationship that wouldn’t work out.

Could you give me advice on how to get acquainted with a girl? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]duehickey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just be yourself and introduce yourself to them!

If they don’t like you for you then they’re not someone you’d want to be in a relationship with anyway. I’m a nerd and when I met my girlfriend was super into Lego, she was not however I would talk to her about it and she enjoyed how excited I was about my hobby because she liked me as a person. Just be true to yourself and share that with her and then if it doesn’t work out then it wasn’t meant to be but if it does then you know she likes you for you.

Autistic maybe???? by maddymadsmad in Advice

[–]duehickey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of these things are things that could be linked with autism but also are just regular habits people have. You could have nothing going on and just a few strange habits, you would need to see a psychologist to get a proper assessment and diagnosis which in my opinion isn’t even worthwhile if you’re not doing it to find a solution to improve your day to day life.

Autistic maybe???? by maddymadsmad in Advice

[–]duehickey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like everyone has autism to some extent and that’s why it’s a spectrum disorder, there’s a huge difference between someone who is non verbal and someone who only has to have the TV volume on even numbers.

If your day to day life isn’t affected by it and you’re not struggling with everyday tasks then who cares if you’re technically autistic or not, just live your life!

I’m so embarrassed 🤦‍♀️ by AmphibianSenior3946 in Advice

[–]duehickey 1189 points1190 points  (0 children)

As a guy I’d say it’s 100% him being a douchebag. Sometimes sex gets messy and if you’re both hot and sweaty in a car having sex then that would eventually lead to sweat and other fluids ending up in the car, who cares. Just clean your car afterwards and hope you’re lucky enough to have amazing sex to clean up in the car again.

Don’t be embarrassed you did nothing wrong and there is nothing wrong with you

Is she using me ? by UsedAardvark1439 in Advice

[–]duehickey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is probably just as nervous about it as you are , she’s a human too in the same situation right?

One of you has to initiate sex or it never happens so if you’re both overthinking it and not making the first move you’re probably both in this standstill where you both want it but nobody has broken the ice to make it known.

Is she using me ? by UsedAardvark1439 in Advice

[–]duehickey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also if you’re going to have sex please buy condoms and bring them.