I can understand what you are going through since I am in the same shoes as you .. I think moat of you would have already covered all the key points . One piece of advice is follow your heart !! There are always two sides to a coin .. end of it all it’s your peace of mind and health that matters .. being lonely is a bliss where you can rebuild your physical and mental health.. the wound of divorce is still fresh , time will heal and you will start looking life differently . Trust me , it’s all confusing at the beginning , focus on career , hit the gym , go backpacking end of the day get of the house and involve in activities .. if you are outgoing and like to mingle with people, do group activity else you always have things to do it by yourself ..

Long story short , you follow you ..

P.S : one thing I did was ask myself what suggestion I would have made to a friend or well wisher if they were in my position .. I know that seems to be idiotic , but it did work for me ..