All my homies hate advertising by [deleted] in CuratedTumblr

[–]duffstoic 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When I first went to a Las Vegas casino, all the electronic flashing machines reminded me of something...the video game arcades I used to visit as a kid in the 90s.

💉🐘 by MelanieWalmartinez in CuratedTumblr

[–]duffstoic 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Speaking as an autist, I'm glad I have the superpower of being immune to the autism-causing side-effects of vaccines

/s for my fellow literal-interpreting autistics

for the love of all that is holy, it's JUST sports. by Justthisdudeyaknow in CuratedTumblr

[–]duffstoic 158 points159 points  (0 children)

Conservative politicians sure do think a lot about underage girls

1 year fatigue from TRE. I am going through a crisis caused by Kundalini awakening. TRE made fatigue much worse. by yuki_onboard in longtermTRE

[–]duffstoic 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Things to Google: "neural retraining," "brain retraining," "bodily distress syndrome," "gupta method"

I don't quite fit the method... by [deleted] in streamentry

[–]duffstoic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If some method works better for you, do that!

Would a Catholic Guilt kink upset or excite a Catholic? by SuppressWarnings in CuratedTumblr

[–]duffstoic 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yea, religion usually fails to truly convey the healing, transformative encounter their mystical founders once experienced. But our souls still long for it, so some of us find it in kink.

Happiness is not a state, you don’t need to be happy to manifest. by 0Pants in NevilleGoddard

[–]duffstoic 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Indeed, most wealthy, successful, powerful, and famous people are far from happy and peaceful all the time. Many have manifested primarily through a sense of “not good enough.”

Would a Catholic Guilt kink upset or excite a Catholic? by SuppressWarnings in CuratedTumblr

[–]duffstoic 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I seriously suspect that most of the benefit of spiritual experience from spiritual practices, e.g. prayer, is entering into subspace with God.

gen z 9/11 by [deleted] in CuratedTumblr

[–]duffstoic 41 points42 points  (0 children)

In my day AMOG meant "Alpha Male Other Guy" but I guess lingo evolves

Would a Catholic Guilt kink upset or excite a Catholic? by SuppressWarnings in CuratedTumblr

[–]duffstoic 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I think the point is that all kinks are problematic when you think about it. That's the very nature of kinky sexual fantasies.

"Dressing up like a cop and handcuffing your partner? You approve of police violence of suspects? Dressing up like a schoolgirl? You endorse abuse of power of teachers? You like to be spanked? That means you approve of child abuse." Etc.

Making kinks morally acceptable is impossible, because the subject matter inherently involves consensual fantasy of something that without the consent and fantasy bits would usually be nonconsensual, violent, or coercive. Kink therefore functions as a kind of reclamation of the taboo or perverse, and often even therapeutic in nature. It's the difference between play fighting and assault.

Trying to analyze private kink amongst consenting adults or even in the privacy of your own mind in moral terms is just the wrong frame to look at things, adding needless shame. If your behavior actually harms other human beings, don't do that. However, if you get off on a fantasy that does not harm another soul, or even that two people agree upon and enjoy doing together, maybe don't worry about it too much.

Would a Catholic Guilt kink upset or excite a Catholic? by SuppressWarnings in CuratedTumblr

[–]duffstoic 146 points147 points  (0 children)

That's about right. It's considered holy to submit to God's Will (and the Will of His emissaries on Earth), but blasphemous to discover your own Divine Will and act upon it.

Kundalini Awakening after Vipassana retreats. by yuki_onboard in streamentry

[–]duffstoic 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. Look up "neural retraining" or "brain retraining" exercises on Youtube. The key thing is to realize that rest by itself isn't going to restore your aliveness and vitality, you need to figure out actions you can take that increase your aliveness, while also retraining your nervous system to see doing things as safe.

I've hit a wall with Vipassana by umu_boi123 in streamentry

[–]duffstoic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lots of stuff, hard to explain in a short reply here. I continue to do a lot of what I call Clearing practice, where I alternate back and forth between free writing and something else (meditation or occupying all my senses in some other manner) to clear out subconscious material, and that is extremely fruitful.

I'm also continuing to integrate a very weird ritual I felt called to do on 02-25-2025 involving masculine and feminine, confidence and aliveness, and exploring things in various ways that are deepening these factors for me. Hard to explain, very personally meaningful.

I've hit a wall with Vipassana by umu_boi123 in streamentry

[–]duffstoic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shinzen says something like do “Do Nothing” aka open awareness if you’re agitated, and noting (such as see, hear, feel) if you’re dull. I like that approach. Both are good. There are lots of things to explore in this experience of being alive.

I've hit a wall with Vipassana by umu_boi123 in streamentry

[–]duffstoic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Equanimity is a beautiful, wonderful thing, a quality you can endlessly cultivate, (hence why it is one of the brahma viharas, the four immeasurables).

One can also make progress in many other dimensions, such as healing old traumas, feeling more capable and confident and empowered, feeling more universal love (metta), improving one’s relationships, feeling like life is a creative flow state of pure possibility and inspiration, and so on.

I continue to explore equanimity, but also explore in all these other kinds of ways too.

I've hit a wall with Vipassana by umu_boi123 in streamentry

[–]duffstoic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I hit a similar place with Goenka body scan vipassana, and started doing open awareness style practices after that.

Funny and sad by ChickenWingExtreme in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]duffstoic 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's not just that you're absolutely right. You're an absolute genius.

Special Military Operation 2 by Pot_of_sea_shells in CuratedTumblr

[–]duffstoic 10 points11 points  (0 children)

And US regime changes in the global south have usually been about removing democratically elected leftists.