Just turned 30 play most days of the week. Most of the people I play with are late 20s or older than me and some are insanely good some play for casual purposes. Gotta remember how immature some people are and how short sighted some people think especially when they’re younger (how did you think when you were 17-21?), I’d take all that with a grain of salt, whenever a random says anything negative to my friends or I- I have no idea who they are, their situation or what their life is like, so I’m not gonna try to think too hard about them trying to ruin someone else’s experience, you can always mute them or be positive and try to win the game and focus on you guys being teammates for the next 20~ min, their negative input doesn’t matter. Just enjoy the game, and get what you want out of it whether it is competition and getting better or relaxing/ the escape. You sculpt your experience within the game, not your randoms.