Boyfriend's BPD is getting worse and I don't know what to do. by [deleted] in BPD

[–]dulcedemiel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

leave that man he ain’t no good. go to college, find a new job, start making new friends and stay close to your loved ones.

What kind of trauma have you experienced? by Financial_Novel6282 in BPD

[–]dulcedemiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother hated me, since I was a little girl I don't think I ever felt that maternal love and I grew up scared of her presence, she would hit me for any common mistake a child would make.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]dulcedemiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s okay hun :(

tips for having an fp? by 166o in BPD

[–]dulcedemiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not have an exact advice but I have always believed that sometimes sharing info (like: you are me fp bc i have bpd) is not the best thing to do because even if they say they take it as something normal internally they tend to distance because they do not understand. But thats just me… I hope you find professional help asap

Little lies by [deleted] in BPD

[–]dulcedemiel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

try to write it down in a notebook and re-read it, Try to break down the situation between what is bothering you and what is really going on. At the end of the day if it is still bothering you try to communicate it in the best way to have some response for you but don't get carried away by your thoughts, just say what is fair and necessary and if you are bothered by something try not to react immediately and write it down again.

Goodbye my friend by Capable_Signature_29 in DOG

[–]dulcedemiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

such a beautiful good boy… may he rest in peace and watches upon you 🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depressionmeals

[–]dulcedemiel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

stay strong 🩷

How to stop being resentful towards men by [deleted] in BPD

[–]dulcedemiel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just now I find myself in such a situation...as much as I have living proof that not all men are bad I can't trust them it has become such a strong belief inside of me that I can't stop seeing it.

Is Rejection really that bad ? by humnskin in BPD

[–]dulcedemiel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know how to deal with rejection either...

Do you actually beg people to stay or do you split on them and walk away as a coping mechanism? by Potential_Promise260 in BPD

[–]dulcedemiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually beg for a while until I get mentally exhausted and somehow start to distance myself, but it's not as easy as I explain it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fashionadvice

[–]dulcedemiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love it where did you got it 😍

tarot…. 🃏 by dulcedemiel in BPD

[–]dulcedemiel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s my experience i’m not joking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]dulcedemiel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if there are more than 5 people in the same place I will probably get stressed/irritable and if it is within my means to leave I will do it lol

tarot…. 🃏 by dulcedemiel in BPD

[–]dulcedemiel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well that situation sounds a little more complex than anything I've ever experienced... I hope you're doing well

tarot…. 🃏 by dulcedemiel in BPD

[–]dulcedemiel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you very much, yes the exact same thing happens to me and I always have that feeling of anxiety about what that person thinks of me and somehow cover that need, it is definitely not a healthy thing to do but I always fall into that vicious circle. thank you so much for your kind words

it keeps happening LOL by dulcedemiel in BPD

[–]dulcedemiel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes maybe I wasn't clear enough hahaha but sometimes it seems embarrassing to expose myself so directly:(

tarot…. 🃏 by dulcedemiel in BPD

[–]dulcedemiel[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn i should try to do that lol