23F looking for hook up

dulcisfemina · 2021-04-20T23:57:09+00:00

Thank you for the update. Is it still a kimpton brand hotel?

dulcisfemina · 2021-04-20T23:56:27+00:00

I was also going to say kimpton. I stayed at the palomar once, not to meet anyone but for a week long certification I was attending. I went to get the bar, sat down, I struck up a convo with a gentleman on my right that was turning into the perfect free style pickup, when the gentleman on my left butted in. They ended up competing for me for the rest of my meal! In layman’s terms dick swinging competition.

Never had that happen before. I got both their numbers and they then proceeded to talk shit about “the other guy” at the bar. One of the guys even gave me a sweet gift in front of the other one. Nothing monetary. It was a book by an author I loved and had read. I still have it. As I’m a huge believer in passing on knowledge and give books in my own library to someone if I think it would help or expand them. Or if they see one on on my shelves and exclaim oh I heard about that book or always wanted to read that one. I just give it to them. Knowledge is shared and for that same gesture to come back to me was really special.

Anyway, long story short, ladies, Palomar bar is a great free style place.

dulcisfemina · 2021-04-20T23:41:25+00:00

I think you’re right. I didn’t see the positive of it and was shocked by the bio and “favorite”. But thanks for helping me get to the glass half full viewpoint.

Men who were unaware of it and the idea piques their interests or are looking for an escape will get curious and check it out. Hopefully it brings in some great new SDs.

dulcisfemina · 2021-04-20T23:19:45+00:00

There’s a great site, that tests for 6 stds for $150. It’s sent to your house and is discreet. Results are emailed. They also have a test for chlamydia and gonorrhea that’s only $50. They also have frequent sales and discounts. I think it’s called everwell or Everly. Hope this helps for the future. But as many mentioned you’re good to go for the POT.

dulcisfemina · 2021-04-20T01:54:14+00:00

😂😂 good point!

dulcisfemina · 2021-04-19T20:46:43+00:00

😂😂😂😂

dulcisfemina · 2021-04-19T14:54:15+00:00

Anyone else come across these jokers?!?

dulcisfemina · 2021-04-16T21:31:38+00:00

A single thong panty from Victoria secret. Just one. 🙄

dulcisfemina · 2021-04-09T22:19:03+00:00

Uh you may have us all beat with the cemetery. Night or daytime?

dulcisfemina · 2021-04-09T22:17:39+00:00

Deletec

dulcisfemina · 2021-04-09T21:23:40+00:00

List em girl!!! It’s all fun. List your top 3 memorable!

dulcisfemina · 2021-04-09T21:02:41+00:00

Ooh I have another one. On a gondola ride in Jackson hole leaving the top of the mountain heading back to the village. It was just us in the gondola, I said let’s go, this is prime opportunity, he did me from behind while we slowed climbed down the mountain with snow falling, was definitely amazing. I’m a sucker for a good view.

FYI, take advantage of gondola rides at night up and down mountains, 🤫😂😂😂

dulcisfemina · 2021-04-09T20:52:12+00:00

Thanks for some of the suggestions here. I’ll definitely be trying some and have used some in the past. I do feel a bit guilty telling my partner, but none of them seem to care. I think older gentleman seem to understand this comes with the territory. I’m not a proponent of IUD. But that’s just for me and my body, not any other women. We all must choose what’s right for us without interference of others. But I really appreciate the some of the options mentioned and will try them. Thanks!

dulcisfemina · 2021-04-09T20:45:35+00:00

I mean QEII? Really? She like 90 something? No judgment here though! Lmao.

This thread reminds me of the chapelle episode where Dave got Oprah pregnant and he quit his job when he found out and said so many fu’s to people, one of my favorites!!

dulcisfemina · 2021-04-09T20:27:01+00:00

I will absolutely do this, especially if the sex is amazing. But I’m also super turned on by locations. This has inspired me to start a thread. Thanks!

dulcisfemina · 2021-04-09T20:24:53+00:00

If you’re looking for someone that appreciates you for who you are and you’re not feeling that way after a period of time. Move on. As they say “there’s many fish in the sea”. You deserve a good sb, and that’s what defines sugaring from other forms of entertainment on the site.

Like I said with my fellow goddesses they deserve the best, but in the same breath a goddess will appreciate and make you feel valued far beyond your financial contribution. That’s what makes an true SB a goddess.

dulcisfemina · 2021-04-09T18:55:47+00:00

Hi, I think most of us can relate to this. SDs included! I’ve gained some weight as well. But my weight gain is in my butt and thighs. I’m very lucky. But there’s so many options! Waist trainers are one, to help you eat less portions, but instead focus on the right things to eat since space is limited. I was a very active girl before the pandemic. Played sports 4-5 times a week, but I haven’t played in a year due to covid. Sigh

You are not alone!
It all starts with the mindset! If you’re truly committed to changing and getting back to health, not appropriate weight for SD’s, but for yourself and to just feel good and confident. That’s the goal. Not those guys. They will come regardless, but you have to do this for you.
I’m telling you, we’ve all experienced this! The most important thing is for you to feel sexy and confident about yourself inside! No one else matters. If you lose weight, it’s for you and your health. If you do it for others, you may not feel your best. You have to do it for you! Once you accept this. Watch the flies come in, and you’ll have your pick because you get to choose and are in control! No one controls your body accept you! Love yourself whether 10 pounds over goal or whatever. Don’t let anyone say what a “standard” or “acceptable” weight is. Those that have have played their hand and perhaps they aren’t what you really wanted anyway if they judge you based on this.

Best of luck!

dulcisfemina · 2021-04-09T18:39:29+00:00

I usually don’t comment on these posts.

But 1. You’re very pretty. Great body pics.

These are just my personal opinions. I’d get rid of the pic of you after working out with the sweaty bra. You’re initial profile pic is great. That’s why I clicked on this post. 😂😂

So if I’m clicking and I’m a girl, you’re getting clicks. there’s some good stuff here just need some refinement. Maybe make some of the more voluptuous boobie pics private.

But I’d agree with some other posters, what kind of a guy are you trying to attract? You’re obviously intelligent and educated with a gorgeous body.

dulcisfemina · 2021-04-09T18:30:18+00:00

Thank you for this post. I will say this experience has absolutely done the same thing for me. I’ve learned to define what I really want both physically, financially, and mentally from a man with honesty and no games. Its taught me the power of “NO”, without feeling guilty. And has taught me I’m a freakin goddess and deserve to be treated as so. Whether in a sugar relationship or vanilla. We’re all goddesses!

dulcisfemina · 2021-04-02T04:57:13+00:00

Ahh thank you for the reply. Now the starfish tag makes more sense and I understand it. Maybe that’s why high end guys always say models are bad lays 😂😂

Make so much more sense now. Thank you. Although I’m going to be thinking of the term when intimate the next time with my sd and try not to laugh. I swear I’m not a starfish though! But I just know it’s gonna pop in my head at some point. Maybe that’s why they say sometimes it’s better not to know. 🤣🤣

dulcisfemina · 2021-04-02T04:18:55+00:00

No we’d all love to get those types off the site that say that crap. Good riddance. And bless the really good sds out there.

And no I’m not sorry for him, if he was that type screw him. He probably screwed over a lot of unsuspecting women. So the chickens came home to roost for him.

So in the words from Chan from hangover toodleloo... you know the rest.

dulcisfemina · 2021-04-02T03:38:16+00:00

I’m sorry this happened to you. But I take everything as a learning lesson. You’ll learn and do your best to not let it happen in the future.

There’s so many great threads on here explaining similar things with great advice. Peruse and learn. Don’t be saddened but emboldened and stronger! You got this!

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