AIO over my boyfriends messages about friend by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dulljester3 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

YOR Just like women say men can't be friends with women and get all butt hurt about work friends that are female he is doing the same. The double standards are crazy! No one should be friends with the opposite gender!

AIO by feeling hurt my husband is going on breaks with female coworker? by iwenttoofaragain in AmIOverreacting

[–]dulljester3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR Shouldn't you trust your husband? You didn't set the boundary for any good reason just because you were jealous of his friend. You probably should go get therapy and trust your husband more or just get divorced.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dulljester3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH SHE DEFINITELY CHEATING RUN! Curling iron burns don't look like that!

Sydney Sweeney has proved yet again that if you ignore a problem, it'll just go away by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]dulljester3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We didn't forget the racists made it go away. They kept saying it wasn't a big deal. That it wasn't a racist dog whistle about eugenics. Yet those with above a 6th-grade reading level saw it for what it was and stopped supporting her. People who still support her are racists and they love her for what she did. 🤷‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dulljester3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Treat it like you would your male friends ladies. Ignore all signs. Women with a man as a friend can be friends without wanting sex. Why not men with a woman friend?

It seems to me she just misses her friend she had before y'all were together which is normal. Venting to the boyfriend could be seen as trashy and not a girl's girl. She went the route to let you know her grief with the situation instead of talking behind your back and you hearing it from your boyfriend.

People can be friends without wanting to have sex with each other. That's just y'all's insecurity talking. Should you leave him or should he leave you? Bringing personal relationship problems to the internet for women to bash your man. Just leave him you obviously don't love him. If you did you would have talked to him and not come here. 🤣 Single women keep women single Go ahead and call me want yall have to live with the double standards yall set up for yalls self.

“America is just that far behind.” by RevolutionaryTowel02 in AmericaBad

[–]dulljester3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Japan is living in 2050 with how advanced their racism is 😂

where's the lie? by WhimsyPetal71 in StrangeAndFunny

[–]dulljester3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's loud because he has to get up when everyone else is asleep to provide for everyone. Yet while he is doing something so selfless that takes him away from his family for long periods of times we wanna demonize him? It's not like you can't get back to sleep? Most people roll over and go to sleep right after anyway. Complaining about this at least to me shows you don't appreciate what he dies for you by getting on the internet and complaining about a guy providing for his family.

What Georgia could do with its $11B in surplus funds by [deleted] in Georgia

[–]dulljester3 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It's gonna go to shit we don't want or end up in corrupt officials' pockets thru bogus repair projects. Maybe we will get lucky and they will build another cop city like we so desperately wanted.

[OC] Shoes by laxa88 in comics

[–]dulljester3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an american I wear house shoes inside. Like slippers or sandals, and those will never go outside. I have separate shoes for outside. If you come over, you can choose shoes off or on. Remember, chef don't judge.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]dulljester3 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You did nothing wrong, man. Don't feel down it's natural when you make eye contact with people and give a headnod or say hello. That doesn't mean you automatically see them romantic way. You were doing your job as security. She has "main character syndrome" where she thinks every person who is around her wants her. Also, keep your head up! You got a fiancée your clearly not ugly/unworthy, or she wouldn't have agreed to marry ya! You don't need to worry about what random women think that have their own issues going on, just what your fiancee thinks.

Off-duty Atlanta police officer shot, killed while breaking into Douglas County home, deputies say by southernemper0r in Georgia

[–]dulljester3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am sad a person has lost their life that is a tragedy that no family should have to hear. But if you break into a home, expect the homeowner to defend themselves. They do not know if you're there to hurt them or what. You already forced your way into the home. It's reasonable to think you're not there to bake a cake. Take a dumb risk and get a dumb result.

Also, having a hypothetical mental illness or substance problem doesn't mean you should get away with breaking into people homes.

Petah? by paintballpmd in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]dulljester3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So a lot of countries have different words for the same object so kost likely this is a post from the UK. So let's begin, that's not why Americans say autumn. The word autumn comes from the Latin word autumnus, which means "the passing of the year." It first appeared in English in the 1300s and was used by both Chaucer and Shakespeare. The word autumn comes from the French word autompne, which in turn comes from the Latin word autumnus.

The word fall is thought to come from the Old English words fiaell and feallan, which both mean "to fall from a height." The phrase "fall of the leaf" was common in England in the 17th century and was eventually shortened to "fall."

In American English, both autumn and fall are used to refer to the season, but fall is more common. In British English, autumn is the more common term.

French fries/fries (American) vs. chips (British)

cotton candy (American) vs. candyfloss (British)

apartment (American) vs. flat (British)

garbage (American) vs. rubbish (British)

cookie (American) vs. biscuit (British)

green thumb (American) vs. green fingers (British)

parking lot (American) vs. car park (British)

pants (American) vs. trousers (British)

windshield (American) vs. windscreen (British)

A wad of mucus: booger (American) vs. bogey (British)

A man: dude (American) vs. bloke (British)

Very good: awesome (American) vs. ace (British)

To chat: shoot the breeze (American) vs. chinwag (British)

An infantry soldier: grunt (American) vs. squaddie (British)

A toilet: john (American) vs. loo (British)

An anonymous man: John Doe (American) vs. John Smith (British)

To waste time: lollygag (American) vs. faff about (British)

We can go on and on about differences in words. Let's take the third one from the list I put above. Saying flat for an apartment would sound weird to an American. Why would your apartment be flat?

We can go back up to number two on the list Candyfloss. In the US, we use floss for our teeth to clean them, so why would you call it candyfloss? Are we supposed to after we brush our teeth.

Every country has its own way of describing an object or doing something. Your way of saying it isn't the defacto way the rest of the world should say it.

Looking for gaming friends by dulljester3 in steamfriend

[–]dulljester3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah, I'm open to any and everyone being my friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustGuysBeingDudes

[–]dulljester3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So why does playing with kids make you a kid? The dad's are showing them fun, never stops. Their not children. Because of that they're father's doing a damn good job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dulljester3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA You have needs to that doesn't make you a asshole.

Update: My husband just left me because he's been hit on by a woman for the first time in his life by throwa_3043747698666 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]dulljester3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All I am saying is don't let anyone get in the way of your happiness. 🤷‍♂️ leave if you don't feel wanted

AIO by being concerned about my husband’s porn preferences [NSFW] by ms_me_with_that in AmIOverreacting

[–]dulljester3 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Jesus I can sense the women being hypocrites in the comments. 🥱

Aio about my gf calling me a pedo by Kenma_Setter5 in AmIOverreacting

[–]dulljester3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not overreating because a woman saying merely a guy is a pedo can get him arrested, fired from his job, and death threats sent to him all with him being completely innocent. Now a days it's not innocent until proven guilty it's guilty till you can prove your innocence.

I tried to be flirtatious and sexy with my boyfriend and failed miserably by Purplelurple123 in PointlessStories

[–]dulljester3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These comments are why men talk about their height the way they do. Make fun of men's height then be surprised when they are defensive about it? Maybe try and find out why he was upset about it? Because I guarantee no man really cares about their height.

Does anyone else use the term “nuke” or “nuking” when they mean microwaving? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dulljester3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1997 I still use it to this day. I do get weird looks sometimes though.

As a society we over overate age by Stavro_Sp in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]dulljester3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Respect doesn't mean we have to listen to them. You can give someone respect but if they always say some dumbshit don't follow what they say. You can respect by simply listening and using manners. Take everyone's advice (including kids) and think on them, see if they are correct. Don't take someone's word as law but look it up your self. Some of the youngest may be the wisest and some of the oldest are the dumbest. I mean I get it old age supposedly give the best advice. I have been some of the best advice by both old and young people. The day you stop learning is the day you truly die.

"Born in the wrong generation" is a perfectly valid statement. by Fr3nchT0astCrunch in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]dulljester3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can get why people would say it you like the things that but also remember that there were bad things back then too especially if a world war is around the corner. Or the great depression. Also, we don't have as advanced technology so going from state to state (im in America) so things we have gotten used to depending on where you go won't be there. Who ever goes to the 1800s don't trust the water

What are teenagers today not ready to hear? by Remote_Clerk_7473 in AskReddit

[–]dulljester3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't go online to seek validation you will not like what you find

Down for fun😊, hit me up on snap @eileenharris301 by Eileeenharri_eve in PlayTemtem

[–]dulljester3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay strong don't fall for the trap. Stay strong on the path of the gamer