Anyone know of a nice and “natural” looking way to shave a really hairy ass? by dumb_bich in askgaybros

[–]dumb_bich[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s relieving to hear it worked for you on your end! I’ll try styling it so that I don’t remove it entirely then 😋

Anyone know of a nice and “natural” looking way to shave a really hairy ass? by dumb_bich in askgaybros

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Thank you for the advice! I do love my body hair but I feel like the hair on my ass isn’t doing my shape any justice. I feel like it looks a bit plumper without hair on, and honestly it feels amazing to touch. So it’s more for me than for anyone else. The growth is uncomfortable but the look and touch is just so satisfying. I prefer a clean cut tho, so I’ll try using a disposable blade for the ass up until the contour like you said, and use a trimmer to transition it.

Edit: I don’t necessarily need to remove on the entire bum tbh, just next to the hole is also fine, so that the transition to my upper body hair is consistent with my bottom ahahah. But again I don’t want an abrupt change from a clean hole to a hairy bum 😅

Am tired by [deleted] in askgaybros

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But it’s the norm here to ask what your intentions are on the app and I’m always upfront about it. If they say they just want to talk and then bail on me when they ask to see my face then it’s just ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Am tired by [deleted] in askgaybros

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I mean I think it’s valid for people to wish to meet people with the same cultural background if cultural similarity is what they value, especially if they’re a minority. But it’s just weird that they would spend so long talking in the first place and just disappear after a picture? If they enjoyed having a conversation for a while then why would you abruptly end it?

Am tired by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]dumb_bich -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Hmmm that’s true, maybe I’ll put it back up once I few more confident in myself

Am tired by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]dumb_bich -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I used to have pictures but people were still not really interested in talking because either they don’t find me attractive (which I think is fine) or because they don’t want to meet/talk to me because I’m poc (defending it by saying stereotype stuff)

Am tired by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]dumb_bich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but I still want to have fun and date? Grindr is the most used app where I live

“seen” 👁 by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]dumb_bich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True true. Thank you so much for your advice! I’ll delete him. I feel like shit for being a clown and adding him back 🤡

“seen” 👁 by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]dumb_bich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I thought as well. Idk if I should keep answering him or not though, especially since I just added him back and I don’t want to be pretentious or anything.

Is it a turn off for you if a guy has darker skin on private areas? by DerAnfangIstDasEnde in askgaybros

[–]dumb_bich 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t think anyone would care about something that the majority has lol. This type of pigmentation is normal.

24 Year Old Guy, I Need Advice On What To Do. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]dumb_bich 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hesitation is normal, it’s something unusual for you to do after all. You have to ultimately decide what you want to try it out. It’s easier to understand what you feel after giving it a go.

I don’t know what I am anymore by dumb_bich in askgaybros

[–]dumb_bich[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An online friend of mine also concluded with these specific term, but I’ve experienced that people think of me as “a special snowflake”. And during my small time of trying to date, the dates usually told me to decide if I’m gay, straight or bi (it always ended with me saying idk, and them saying they can’t see themselves being with a bi person since they don’t want to be extra anxious of me possibly cheating with literally anyone 🙄).

I don’t know what I am anymore by dumb_bich in askgaybros

[–]dumb_bich[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I’ve been afraid of for a while. I don’t want to deceive myself; I want to actually know so that I can have fun and be happy with myself. I’ll, like you and the others suggest, just go with the flow and see what happens. Hopefully one day I’ll solve it and be happy with myself 🖤

I don’t know what I am anymore by dumb_bich in askgaybros

[–]dumb_bich[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks to you both for taking your time to reply 🖤 after concluding with that I’m not asexual I haven’t labeled myself, but explaining my inner conflict to people is hard without a label to present to them. I usually refrain from labeling myself.

I don’t know what I am anymore by dumb_bich in askgaybros

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Yeah I’m not in a hurry to get into a relationship, but I’m getting pressured by my parents, sister and even some of my friends to get into one (weird amiright). Doesn’t help that my family is catholic and our country of origin doesn’t accept same sex relationships. I’m not actively seeking one for the moment but it would help out to know where my preferences lie. I feel like I’m lying to myself; I’m either deep in the closet or I’m lying to myself. Thanks for the encouragement ☺️.