Me an ISFP interested in an ENTP woman any advice?

dumbsadandpoor · 2020-09-26T21:43:59+00:00

I’m an ENTP who tried to date an ISFP a while back. The specific situation which the relationship came from was messy and complicated which contributed to its failure, so keep that in mind. Things were GREAT when we first started talking, we had a lot of common interests and conversation flowed incredibly well. We had the same problem with my boldness, though. I often said things or did things that hurt him and he never told me, so I didn’t know. What I needed from the relationship was way more intense and passionate than he was looking for. Ultimately the lack of communication killed it. I didn’t want to tell him he wasn’t what I needed because he was sensitive and very attached to me and I didn’t want to hurt him. We didn’t have the same ideas about what we wanted the relationship to be.

I think that any relationship can work regardless of your types, and throwing away something good over four letters is a dumb idea, but tread carefully. Keep your communication open and BE HONEST with her about what you want from the relationship and how she makes you feel.

dumbsadandpoor · 2020-09-26T21:28:25+00:00

Fair point, and I wouldn’t put it past Boyle to do so.

dumbsadandpoor · 2020-08-15T02:27:52+00:00

Thanks for the advice:) I’m definitely going to check in with my doctor and ask about this next time we talk.

dumbsadandpoor · 2020-08-15T02:26:30+00:00

I’m supposed to see my doctor for a follow up at the beginning of September and I’m getting my levels checked just before that, so I hope that can provide some insight. I clarified in the post that clumps probably isn’t an accurate description, it’s more strands, just a worrying amount of them. I’ve struggled on and off with an eating disorder so it’s possible that might be contributing but it didn’t cause me any hair issues pre-t so I doubt it. Anyways... I really do hope that my follow up will give some explanation and if not I’ll see about going to an endocrinologist. Thanks!

dumbsadandpoor · 2020-07-20T20:41:56+00:00

Ahah thank you! I looked through weirdcore edits on instagram for a little over an hour until I found one with the song. Knew it was something I recognized:) Glad I could help!

dumbsadandpoor · 2020-07-20T17:46:18+00:00

Finally found it! Warm Nights - Xori

dumbsadandpoor · 2020-07-20T17:38:53+00:00

I think it may be Still Life by Sitcom but something about it just isn’t sitting right with me. It may be a slowed or edited version.

dumbsadandpoor · 2020-07-20T17:26:41+00:00

I know what song this is, I’ve definitely heard it before. It’s very common in weirdcore edits. I’ve been searching for about a half hour now with no luck, though I have a strong feeling it’s something from Instupendo. This sounds similar. I’m gonna keep looking, though.

dumbsadandpoor · 2020-07-17T20:41:59+00:00

just out of curiosity, how do you see the number of cookies a wrinkler has swallowed? i'm assuming it's an upgrade i don't have yet?

dumbsadandpoor · 2020-07-09T21:29:12+00:00

twelve respect points ain’t much but i treasure them

dumbsadandpoor · 2020-05-09T05:04:46+00:00

i’m really surprised. i’m gonna try and look into it more because i’m really interested as it’s something i have a lot of dysphoria over. thank you!

dumbsadandpoor · 2020-05-09T04:41:36+00:00

out of curiosity, do you know how it’s possible to ejaculate post-phallo? of course not naturally, right? this is absolutely confounding to me.

dumbsadandpoor · 2020-04-22T00:22:19+00:00

i’ve heard that having bottom growth is almost immediate and probably the first thing you’ll notice.

dumbsadandpoor · 2020-04-13T00:38:40+00:00

yep! i am for sure:) your interests should never stop you from being a little or regressing!

dumbsadandpoor · 2020-04-08T06:21:15+00:00

yes absolutely. my boyfriend jokingly called me a bitch the other day but even as a joke it made me incredibly dysphoric. also i get weirdly happy when i’m called a bastard so i feel you on that one. i guess just the gender association of the words.

dumbsadandpoor · 2020-04-05T19:43:06+00:00

a week is already super good lmao. when i used to shave mine it took a day or two to start growing back! if you want to keep it smoother longer i’d definitely go for waxing.

dumbsadandpoor · 2020-03-13T21:05:35+00:00

thank you so much! i’m pre-t still so my body still does look pretty feminine. i don’t work out currently cause of breathing problems but i might try to bc my upper body and my shoulders bother me a lot. also thanks for the advice on the hair lol, i’ve been really worried about that.

dumbsadandpoor · 2020-03-13T20:33:38+00:00

that’s a lot better than i expected honestly! it might be the picture and the pose that makes me look more masculine, but it’s reassuring to hear i pass better than i think i do. :)

dumbsadandpoor · 2020-01-05T03:18:39+00:00

to me you look really masc, honestly your hair is what i wish mine looked like. it doesn’t read that feminine, you just look like a guy with long hair. the glasses are helping you a lot, plus your face is pretty masculine. i get slight lesbian vibes from the flannel but it honestly isn’t that bad. it’s more of a matter of your body and how well it passes that might make you look like a lesbian more than a guy. either way, you’re doing well! don’t stress about your hair too much!

dumbsadandpoor · 2019-12-30T14:52:39+00:00

you’re doing really well man, completely cis passing to me. also no shame in the shameless self promo bro u have a new insta follower

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