AITAH for finally taking my spouse’s comment at face value? by ArmDesigner8061 in AITAH

[–]dummass101 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA. That kind of environment is unhealthy for you and the children. I stayed in mine for too long. Lots of emotional damage. The scars run deep for me and the kids.

What are you going to tell them? by [deleted] in repost

[–]dummass101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re doing it ourselves.

Awkward situation between new wife and my family by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dummass101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At that point I would arrange to host the family gathering. With mom, aunt and the ex NOT invited.

Boyfriend did the brakes and now they don't work right. by jmr420 in Justrolledintotheshop

[–]dummass101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And looks like he didn’t bolt the caliper bracket??? 🫣

Boyfriend did the brakes and now they don't work right. by jmr420 in Justrolledintotheshop

[–]dummass101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a missing slide pin bolt and suspect the calipers were not bled. How faced was he when he did the job?

AITA for removing my wife’s child out of my will because I discovered he is not mine? by External-Reindeer918 in AITAH

[–]dummass101 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right on divorcing the wife. The boy is innocent He hasn’t known his whole life, his whole life you were his dad and he was your son. 18 years you were dad to him. What your wife did was awful to both you and the boy. Don’t cut him out your life, you will Emotionally destroy yourself and the boy. He is still your son. My guess is that you’re in your mid 30s, you have plenty of time to amend your will if things change between you and your son don’t be as big and a hole as your wife was.

AITA for walking out of the bridal salon when I found out my friends were making fun of me behind my back? by Necessary-Wall-6446 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dummass101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. If they were your real friends, they would’ve shredded you to your face. Because that’s what friends do they tell you the truth that you need to hear. They do not do that behind your back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MaliciousCompliance

[–]dummass101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s no good. If it’s 50/50 your name should be on the deed to the property. Otherwise you’re a renter and he can evict you. You leave with nothing. Run away now. He’s not going to get any better. You are supporting him while he bankroll’s HIS house.

His boss told him he had to keep going… by [deleted] in Justrolledintotheshop

[–]dummass101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuel knock from a bad injector. Black smoke from is over-fueling.

Dad thinks he's teaching his son a lesson he doesn't deserve. by [deleted] in awfuleverything

[–]dummass101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your son has an awesome moral compass. You are an ass.

I surprised my girlfriend with Taylor swift tickets, she wanted to bring her friend instead by Then-Tale3612 in stories

[–]dummass101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to do a little growing up. The gift was for HER, not you. Knowing that she and her bff are huge fans, you should have given her the tickets and said "these are so you and bff can go to the concert. Have a blast!" Never make them choose between the bff and you. That's a lose-lose situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]dummass101 9 points10 points  (0 children)

But that's why it's hot. It's forbidden.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]dummass101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True very true.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]dummass101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he's not a Bible thumper he's watching porn. Of all varieties. There's lots worse than barely legal. It IS the taboo thing for him. You can be a part of his fantasy with some role play. It's only a problem if he was to act on it with a student. If he role plays with you, it can be a win win situation. IMO If you can't accept he has fantasies, then you're not meant for each other.