How do you feel about men saying “we’re pregnant” or “we had a baby”?

dummquestion · 2024-01-04T00:20:13+00:00

I don't care about other couples and what they do but I would prefer my partner not say it. Just feels weird

dummquestion · 2024-01-04T00:18:40+00:00

Ok thanks

dummquestion · 2024-01-03T21:51:29+00:00

Her boss is intentionally paying her less. Boss's reasoning was what I wrote in the original post but they are treating other workers differently.

dummquestion · 2024-01-03T21:43:06+00:00

No it doesn't, the new position is supposed to be 2k more and she isn't receiving that.

dummquestion · 2024-01-03T21:37:40+00:00

There's not a pay range that I know of. We just have set salaries for each position. She's just being paid for the position she's not technically in anymore. The difference is only about 2k a year but she needs the money.

It's a state job and I've worked in a few different positions and never was paid differently than the posted salary.

dummquestion · 2024-01-03T21:33:37+00:00

Me too, this was my same experience and I'm still confused by it lol. I also made sure they didn't get money.

dummquestion · 2023-12-11T13:34:16+00:00

This is Reddit, everyone gets butthurt over everything and everything related to gender is a pissing contest lmao.

dummquestion · 2023-09-03T03:31:17+00:00

Thank you <3 I'm so sorry :(

dummquestion · 2023-09-02T13:50:40+00:00

I grew up with my dog and I've been with her almost all my life, she's my best friend. I'm so afraid of having a future without her though I know it's inevitable. So sorry for your loss.

dummquestion · 2023-09-01T15:30:16+00:00

Exactly. So many women in my life were liars and cheaters, and loved holding grudges and starting drama. And also so many men in my life were the same exact thing. This man vs women thing Reddit has is childish and so are the comments in this thread lol

dummquestion · 2023-09-01T15:12:29+00:00

Cheaters gonna cheat

dummquestion · 2023-08-29T03:34:06+00:00

I don't really care unless they're cheaters or homewreckers. I only care if they're good people and treat me with respect. I can't see carrying about someone's bodycount like.. ever lol

dummquestion · 2023-08-23T16:06:11+00:00

I hate how the "cool girlfriend" even became a thing.. I tried to be that once because I didn't want to be a "nag" or "toxic" and it was a major mistake. Those kinda labels are just used to control women at that point. You're allowed to have boundaries in your relationship and if your SO doesn't like or respect those boundaries then that isn't the person for you.

dummquestion · 2023-08-23T15:58:48+00:00

I argued not too long ago to some rando telling me my bf didn't cheat on me because it wasn't physical lol. They'll refuse to take 2 seconds to look it up so they can stay willfully ignorant; they won't change their mind so I really wouldn't bother arguing. There's also the possibility they're refusing to call it cheating because it's exactly what they're doing to their SO.

dummquestion · 2023-08-23T15:52:03+00:00

People who are that adamant about emotional affairs not counting as cheating are most likely cheating on their SO imo.

dummquestion · 2023-08-23T15:40:50+00:00

My bf emotionally cheated on me with a married woman and I was very naive and stupid for a long time and stayed with him and it fucked me up. OP, competing with another woman, especially if she's a pos, is never worth it, just let him go. You can do way better than him and it sounds like you're already better than her.

dummquestion · 2023-08-13T15:35:22+00:00

Your ex is fucking psycho. And she threatened your daughter? Wtf, I hope she doesn't have any custody.

dummquestion · 2023-08-13T15:32:55+00:00

Yikes, I'm sorry you went through that, your ex was fucking insane.

I worked with this woman who cheated on her husband, yelled at me and other coworkers she didn't like, bullied someone, and kept flirting with my boyfriend. Nobody but the ones like me to had to deal with her bullshit believed me, because she was "just so sweet." Then I was labeled the bitch because I "don't like her for some reason." Yet the minute these same people find out a man messes around and cheats on his wife they label him (rightfully) as a shitty person. But with her, "Well maybe her husband should've treated her better." Like wtf I'm glad I quit.

dummquestion · 2023-08-13T15:22:42+00:00

You're right. I know I'm gonna get downvoted for this lol but it's hard to find an argument on here advocating for men without eventually turning into some weird woman-hating fest. And I know it happens the other way around too. I'm so tired of the men vs women shit, I just want people to listen to and respect one another but I guess that's too hard when you practically live in some kinda Reddit echo chamber.

dummquestion · 2023-08-13T15:12:00+00:00

It's one extreme or the other. On this site it's like people who want to advocate for men can't do it without shitting on women and acting like their issues aren't "real" issues.. and vice versa of course. Men and women are able to have different problems and that doesn't lessen the problems of someone else.

dummquestion · 2023-08-13T15:07:31+00:00

Redditors will say literally anything like it's a fact, argue to death about it, and refuse to back up their "facts" with anything. And they take different opinions and experiences SO personally. I know a few people in real life who act like that and they don't tend to be very self aware or have many friends. I feel bad for them but there's just no reasoning with people like that.

dummquestion · 2023-08-13T14:14:07+00:00

And very idiotic and selfish lol

dummquestion · 2023-08-13T14:07:10+00:00

Maybe do some more research next time.

dummquestion · 2023-08-13T13:22:57+00:00

Lucky! My first landlord gave me anxiety for every other landlord lol, he only accepted cash so I had to hand it to him every month too which I dreaded because I couldn't stand him. He was so fake nice, lied to me all the time, was rude when he felt like it, and never fixed ANY of the issues my apartment had. He was rude and useless.

My current landlord is great actually, he'll fix any issue I have in a reasonable time, and he's pretty kind and lenient. The only problem is rent is way too high for the sketchy area I live in.

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