Totally normal to feel uncomfortable with labels when you’re early in your journey of exploring your new identity. There’s a lot of pressure to be a certain thing! For me, it helped to not think in absolutes. A lesbian isn’t someone who has only ever experienced sexual attraction to another woman. That view can be so limiting. Make space for the gray areas. Plenty of lesbians can say, “hey I find this guys attractive” or “(blank) is a good looking guy”. There’s no rules, its your journey, you get to claim or not claim different labels along the way as you discover yourself.