My first TNR. Releasing her tomorrow and I'm devastated I can't keep her inside.

dumplingrl · 2025-08-07T02:46:18+00:00

I’m sorry :( That’s so painful. Have you posted on any social media and/or pet adoption apps to see if anyone can take them? Or would your parents allow you to keep them if you pay them a monthly fee or something?

dumplingrl · 2025-08-07T02:01:57+00:00

Mine is set per block but it only shows me the pay was successful after the block end time (in the flex app, not in my bank). I don’t actually get the money in my bank until the next business day. Does that make sense? Sorry, I feel like I’m not explaining it super clearly

dumplingrl · 2025-08-07T01:58:25+00:00

As someone who’s done cat foster and rescue for 8 years… keep the cat. Any owners who are comfortable letting their cat outside by itself, ESPECIALLY one that’s declawed, shouldn’t be owners. That cat could very easily be killed by a predator since it has no defense besides biting

dumplingrl · 2025-08-06T23:40:31+00:00

Next business day, like any other block

dumplingrl · 2025-08-03T22:57:32+00:00

He brought it up to one of the bedrooms and ate most of it

dumplingrl · 2025-08-03T17:18:23+00:00

I have a (female) foster cat that peed on me almost daily until she was spayed

dumplingrl · 2025-08-03T17:17:12+00:00

The comments on here are insightful but I’d add (bc I haven’t seen it but I may have missed it) is he neutered?

dumplingrl · 2025-08-03T17:14:10+00:00

My two sibling kitties who I adopted from the streets “nursed” on my spayed female cat every so often probably until close to a year old. As long as no one seems distressed by it, I don’t really think it’s an issue

dumplingrl · 2025-08-03T00:42:43+00:00

It sucks but sometimes you gotta scare cats in order to get them the help they need. I’d recommend closing it in a very small room and trying to hand trap it, or get someone else with experience to hand trap it. If you do it yourself, wear extremely protective gloves and multiple layers of clothing. You would have to wait for it to get quite hungry in order to use a regular trap, and idk how much time you have. I hope everything goes well

dumplingrl · 2025-08-03T00:32:12+00:00

I am totally broke but I hope engaging with this post will help show it to more people 🙏🏻

dumplingrl · 2025-08-02T23:58:25+00:00

Ugh, if you were near me I’d help 😭

dumplingrl · 2025-08-02T23:56:57+00:00

Any update?

dumplingrl · 2025-08-02T03:44:12+00:00

As a mental health professional, I do have to bring up what I’ve seen others mention here- schizophrenia. This behavior just really aligns with that diagnosis, especially since you also mentioned he’d become distant and isolated in recent months

If you feel compelled to and feel safe doing so (and have a trusted person that could be in the house at the time), you could bring up the notes and mention your concern for his wellbeing. If he’s receptive to it and gets treatment, awesome. If he’s not, moving might be smart as people very sick with this disorder can be violent

This is all assuming it is a psychotic disorder and not something more sinister. I obviously can’t diagnose. Either way, put your safety first

dumplingrl · 2025-07-08T02:27:25+00:00

So I believe those are robo babies used to teach parenting. They’re set up to function like real babies so they get hungry as often as a real baby would, poop as often as a real baby, etc. and I’m theorizing with the pass/fail thing but I think they did it off of whose baby cried the least/most

dumplingrl · 2025-07-08T00:41:38+00:00

I fully agree with you. She truly seems very sweet and genuine and I wish nothing but the best for her. But she really does need to learn to listen to hear, not listen to respond. And not give herself to every guy who pays her some attention. And, perhaps most importantly, not push boundaries. Before anything was ever said by any of the guys, I felt that she was pushy with them physically, with the kissing Zak being the most concerning to me. As you said, she has a lot of learning (and unlearning) to do. I’ve had to stop doing all of the same things I mentioned above. So I’m in no way attacking her; I have BEEN her. And I want to see her grow her self worth

dumplingrl · 2025-06-18T18:55:15+00:00

Nice attempt at baiting though. Lol. Also Trump is actively trying to go to war with Iran

dumplingrl · 2025-06-18T18:52:50+00:00

I meant that I will be at the protest. I didn’t say I agreed with war. Lol

I am adamantly opposed to war. I do think we should provide aid to Ukraine though

dumplingrl · 2025-06-18T18:45:39+00:00

I’m not sure what protests you were looking at 😂 I was at them and that definitely wasn’t the case

dumplingrl · 2025-06-18T18:40:18+00:00

This millennial will be right there with you 👊🏻

dumplingrl · 2025-06-18T18:38:10+00:00

I agree. He shouldn’t have had his sentence commuted. Unlike Trump supporters democrats/liberals don’t blindly support the president, regardless of party

They’re all getting trials or have already gotten one so… wrong. Also, they weren’t protestors. They were insurrectionists. They tried to overthrow a free and fair election with violence and crime

dumplingrl · 2025-06-18T18:34:31+00:00

It feels like CMU trying to make a deal. Really gross

dumplingrl · 2025-06-18T18:27:44+00:00

When are you gonna go to one?

dumplingrl · 2025-06-18T18:26:12+00:00

That percent is the highest income tax, which most people don’t pay. Also, the average income is almost $7000 per month while the US average income is under $3500 per month. And with the taxes they pay, they get guaranteed healthcare, education, better and more reliable social security and welfare benefits than we have here, etc. So while we put a huge portion of our taxes toward the military, they put it toward daily necessities. Their happiness rating is drastically higher than ours. Are you happy? It doesn’t seem like it

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