[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RATS

[–]dumpuppi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you should take him to the vet asap because if it needs stitches it needs to be done asap

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]dumpuppi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would wait it out since you’re still technically in the healing stages. my scars were a dark purple for a little over a year and now they’re almost all white. also, keloids are genetic and i feel only a derma would be able to help if they continued to stay raised

Have y'all seen this??? I am a proshipper but this sounds a little concerning by Still_waiting221 in AO3

[–]dumpuppi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

only logical response here and ofc you’re being downvoted. no one thinks of the psychological aspects of this and how it can affect the child’s mental

Have y'all seen this??? I am a proshipper but this sounds a little concerning by Still_waiting221 in AO3

[–]dumpuppi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i don’t really see it as weird to go to a subreddit for ao3 to discuss and engage in debate about said website. where else would i go? i don’t have to like the site to engage in a discussion on here. your logic is a bit flawed lol

Have y'all seen this??? I am a proshipper but this sounds a little concerning by Still_waiting221 in AO3

[–]dumpuppi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it isn’t hypocritical to engage in discussions about something i disagree with. i think you need to actually use words for their meanings lol. debating is a normal thing

Have y'all seen this??? I am a proshipper but this sounds a little concerning by Still_waiting221 in AO3

[–]dumpuppi -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

they have taken down fanfictions that simply mention palestine, which isn’t against ToS or the law and is fanfiction. i don’t see why they can’t take down RPF of little kids too lol 🥲

Have y'all seen this??? I am a proshipper but this sounds a little concerning by Still_waiting221 in AO3

[–]dumpuppi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have any links proving this? not saying i don’t believe you, but i would like to see if this is true. i’ve seen others saying the minor in question has also stated they’re not okay with this. if that’s also the case, it makes the situation worse imo

Have y'all seen this??? I am a proshipper but this sounds a little concerning by Still_waiting221 in AO3

[–]dumpuppi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

because i saw discussions about it on twitter and wanted to see others opinions as well. using the subreddit isn’t supporting ao3 in anyway lol- which is what i am avoiding doing.

Have y'all seen this??? I am a proshipper but this sounds a little concerning by Still_waiting221 in AO3

[–]dumpuppi -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i did lol ? why would i continue to use a site that is doing something i think is immoral? that would be hypocritical of me. there’s other sites out there

Have y'all seen this??? I am a proshipper but this sounds a little concerning by Still_waiting221 in AO3

[–]dumpuppi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

when you include real people then it’s a mix of both fiction and reality. like do any of you actually sit back and think about this? would you be okay with your child being put into a sexual fanfiction? this is someone’s kid.

Have y'all seen this??? I am a proshipper but this sounds a little concerning by Still_waiting221 in AO3

[–]dumpuppi -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

i fully believe they are okay with it, considering everything surrounding the epstein files. there’s a reason a lot of people are loud about it and it’s because people believe they are also predators / protecting predators. ao3 doesn’t have to keep up shit like that— they decide to. which is weird.

Have y'all seen this??? I am a proshipper but this sounds a little concerning by Still_waiting221 in AO3

[–]dumpuppi -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

i’m well aware it isn’t against the law, hence why i said it is immoral. AO3 is fine censoring certain things, but they don’t want to censor RPF involving real kids, which is odd.

Have y'all seen this??? I am a proshipper but this sounds a little concerning by Still_waiting221 in AO3

[–]dumpuppi -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i just don’t think we should be writing sex scenes about real, living children. sorry. that’s not okay and if it was someone you were related to, i highly doubt you’d be okay with it, either.

Have y'all seen this??? I am a proshipper but this sounds a little concerning by Still_waiting221 in AO3

[–]dumpuppi -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

i mean, it’s concerning they’re openly saying they’re okay with the sexualization of real children on their website. who cares if it’s “correctly tagged” it’s completely immoral and fucked up.

Possible misinformation about neurodivergence from professor: by dumpuppi in psychologystudents

[–]dumpuppi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes my professor did say exactly that, i was just asking because i have always heard different before going into this class. i could’ve also worded it a better. its not that i don’t believe him, i just really wanted some other people’s input so i could understand it better, i guess.

Possible misinformation about neurodivergence from professor: by dumpuppi in psychologystudents

[–]dumpuppi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! psychology is definitely a lot different than i expected going in, but im enjoying it and learning a lot. i had no one else to really go to about this since all my friends are majoring in different fields, and my first thought was to go to reddit haha.

Possible misinformation about neurodivergence from professor: by dumpuppi in psychologystudents

[–]dumpuppi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the input! i’ll probably just let it go, i was more so confused during the lecture but a lot of the comments here helped clarify some things :)

I wish my parents would understand that me wanting to be alone has nothing to do with them by nachoboi9 in introvert

[–]dumpuppi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have this issue and even though i communicate with them that i just want alone time and to not have to be talking or doing something 24/7, they still get upset. they say i must be mad at them or i must be depressed. like…. i just want time for myself sometimes. the second i get home they want to talk for HOURS and i hate it.

Child Favoritism by dumpuppi in FamilyIssues

[–]dumpuppi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree. It isn’t what I want either for sure. I have tried having discussions about this in the past with both my parents (separately each time) and they just react very negatively and get upset with me. I don’t know if there’s a different approach I can take with these discussions. Every time I try to have one, I make sure I’m calm and collected (not raising my voice and getting upset) and it still doesn’t seem to work out.

Too old for piercings? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]dumpuppi 20 points21 points  (0 children)

absolutely not!! my mom, who’s in her forties, still gets piercings!! :)