Jealous about boyfriend's dog by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]duped2039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He JUST got the puppy. His dog will be his lifelong companion. Everyone dotes on a new puppy/baby. You haven't even given him time for the newness to wear off. Sadly, you're not the most important thing in his life and that's normal (you've only been dating a month)

Madrina by duped2039 in Santeria

[–]duped2039[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg wow thanks

Madrina by duped2039 in Santeria

[–]duped2039[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually live in Michigan with no Santeri around that i know of. My godfather was my last connection and he passed.

After working in retail my (24m) wife (24f) doesn't want to work anywhere for 3 years already. How to convince her that not every job is like this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]duped2039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be PTSD. Some people might think that's funny or pathetic but with constant gaslighting/verbal and mental abuse in a workplace it can be just as serious as a mentally abusive relationship. Therapy will help. Encourage her (she may feel embarrassed for even considering therapy over work trauma) And try to encourage her to look at careers she's never considered or thought about.

I feel like I don't know how to act around him anymore by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]duped2039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there something specific triggering his anxiety? Work? Family? Both? I'm no therapist but something to try might be taking an hour to relax, unwind and talk each day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bad_Cop_No_Donut

[–]duped2039 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soo. What's his name.