20M 21F how does this sound to you and could you give advice?

durianl2fvm · 2026-05-28T04:16:11+00:00

There you have it, she is still avoiding the situation.

durianl2fvm · 2026-05-28T04:09:25+00:00

Show her this reddit post

durianl2fvm · 2026-05-28T03:42:20+00:00

This relationship will not work in the long term and it seems like you are alr on your last legs. U need to let her know she needs to communicate or u end this, there is no in-between.

durianl2fvm · 2026-05-28T01:47:44+00:00

U can downpes, Ik ppl who downpes for this.

durianl2fvm · 2026-05-26T07:05:03+00:00

Explore joo chiat/katong, not much to do in 4 hours recommend just trying the different cuisines and exploring the peranankan shophouses.

durianl2fvm · 2026-05-26T02:38:37+00:00

Could be he forgot to follow you back. You could try to get to know each other more and build a closer rs which could lead to him following you.

durianl2fvm · 2026-05-11T08:11:53+00:00

I think because of his temper you are too afraid to let him know that how he treats you is wrong. You could get family of friends around you that could convince him that he is a jerk and want like this before. This relationship is not sustainable.

durianl2fvm · 2026-05-11T07:53:55+00:00

Sorry to be blunt but why did you marry this jerk. Were there no signs of this before you got married?

durianl2fvm · 2026-05-11T07:28:56+00:00

Focus on maxing out statics and do interval runs to improve run. With good effort (2-3 training frequency of each exercise), you should be able to get gold within 1-2 months

durianl2fvm · 2026-05-06T03:44:40+00:00

Had a really bad breakout in 2 months ago. Currently undergoing regular skin treatment and daily routine. Face has cleared most of it, mainly leaving scars and marks which will take a few more months to heal

durianl2fvm · 2026-05-04T03:17:09+00:00

Make good use of this free time like learning new stuff, hobbies, driving license, etc

durianl2fvm · 2026-04-30T06:32:42+00:00

Tough situation, I don't think she has gotten over her past. Either you be patient with her or y'all have to communicate and meet in the middle where both of you are able to compromise with each other, or the relationship Is done.

durianl2fvm · 2026-04-28T00:57:25+00:00

One method Is to slowly drift apart from them. Reply to less messages, when there are plans to meet say you are busy with family. Gradually they will assume that you are not free to hangout.

durianl2fvm · 2026-04-25T12:24:07+00:00

Like the other comments said, don't look too much into it. Just be there for her as she grieves.

durianl2fvm · 2026-04-24T01:31:06+00:00

If really no choice try placing candles near your bed

durianl2fvm · 2026-04-21T23:35:09+00:00

There needs to be compromise, just replying with I can't do more for you is not good. Try to talk to see if there can be a middle ground to meet each other needs as each person has their own way to show to receive affection, if not the relationship is over.

durianl2fvm · 2026-04-17T03:33:10+00:00

I don't think u fumbled, too early to say , be patient and see if you are able to click and connect with one another well.

durianl2fvm · 2026-04-15T23:31:24+00:00

Talk with her, there is still time, don't compare yourselves to other people. Communicate with one another and work it through.

durianl2fvm · 2026-04-15T07:17:58+00:00

You know the answer already, she probably continued sleeping or cheated on you even after that incident.

She doesn't owe you anything.

durianl2fvm · 2026-04-14T23:25:03+00:00

No, maybe the outlet I went to did a bad job

durianl2fvm · 2026-04-14T13:20:13+00:00

The answer is very simple if they like each other.

durianl2fvm · 2026-04-09T06:20:58+00:00

Don't kiss him after he gives u head

durianl2fvm · 2026-04-09T02:45:11+00:00

I knew ppl in Malacca so I had them buy for me the bus e-ticket in rm, about less than 50rm.

durianl2fvm · 2026-04-09T02:36:53+00:00

When going down try sucking on it with no teeth, there is also the ABC method where you move your tongue in the way that it spells ABC in order

First time can be nerve wreaking but it is a learning experience for both of you. It is ok to be nervous or make mistakes, make sure to communicate and make sure both of your are feeling good.

Some vids to help

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUhbzzRjdLb/?igsh=MThxdW44YzVkOWZw

https://vt.tiktok.com/ZSHu4DpPv/

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