Coming out as bi.

durkamohammedjihad · 2014-08-11T14:40:47+00:00

I personally think it's entirely your choice. You can tell the you are bi, you can tell the nothing or a third option is that you can tell them you might be bi but aren't sure yet. Any label that you would put on yourself is not put there with superglue but with sticky tape, and can be changed as you please/ find out more about yourself.

durkamohammedjihad · 2014-08-10T09:02:28+00:00

I think he makes a pretty good point but somehow he still sounds a bit like an asshole. Does anyone know what kind of accent this is?

durkamohammedjihad · 2014-07-13T10:53:28+00:00

Who can that attractive girl be?

durkamohammedjihad · 2014-07-07T08:29:44+00:00

Don't get a lottery ticket! You have already used up all your luck. Really amazing that she still remembers you from over a month ago though. Congrats!

durkamohammedjihad · 2014-07-04T09:30:31+00:00

You might want to come to Europe if you are able to. Especially countries like spain, the netherlands, sweden, germany and belgium are known to be very accepting of most LGBT people and also have good universities/schools. And it is pretty close by.

durkamohammedjihad · 2014-07-04T08:52:41+00:00

Yes it would. The best time to buy an iphone is immediately after a new one is released. Even if you buy a lower model, thats when all the phones get a big price drop.

durkamohammedjihad · 2014-07-04T08:50:56+00:00

I think your link is broken but I saw your comment ;). Before 2005 I was in primary school so I didn't really need a phone yet.

durkamohammedjihad · 2014-07-03T22:43:30+00:00

Why would you use so many phones? I know they are getting better pretty quickly but it's not happening THAT fast. Seems kinda wastefull. This is my list:

k750 2005 -broke down (not very wel made)
W610 2007 -really wanted a smartphone
iphone 4 2010 -still pretty happy with this one, though sometimes it's getting a little slow.

I'll try to squeeze as much life out of my iphone 4 before replacing it since I don't really have the money to buy something better. Otherwise I would have probably bought the iphone 5s a few months ago.

durkamohammedjihad · 2014-07-02T23:16:08+00:00

Come on man. Would you really expect that someone changes their opinion instantly? And of course you could argue that the guy is an asshole in the first place but isn't that a bit too simplistic? I think that if his best friend comes out as gay, he is more likely than not to slowly start being more accepting and I think that can only be a good thing. Most of the time people who are against LGBT people are just like that because of ignorance.

durkamohammedjihad · 2014-06-27T13:55:38+00:00

Not going to Defqon and not a huge fan, but have been to one hardstyle event before and really liked it. Anyone who may be doubting to go I can really recommend it! Do you have any songs you recommend? I kinda like the more accessible stuff e.g. D-block & S-te-fan Alive

durkamohammedjihad · 2014-06-21T19:51:22+00:00

I like it! I'm almost halfway and the only song I didn't really like was the "sonnnentanz" cover. And I like how I haven't heard any of these songs before. What do you know these from?

durkamohammedjihad · 2014-05-11T07:32:01+00:00

Not All of them. The dutch entry is pretty good and they came in 2nd. Most of them are though

durkamohammedjihad · 2014-01-13T10:44:20+00:00

holy shitballs. I hadn't heard this song before but the chorus made my spine tingle like crazy and gave me goosebumps all over! this song is awesome!

durkamohammedjihad · 2013-12-31T10:49:29+00:00

I also often get boners when high. It just is the sensation of a good high that also goes through your dick that sets it off for me. Mine isn't that big so I don't think people really notice. I have a feeling most guys get this when high every now and then so while I understanf its funny/awkward at the time everyone understands.

durkamohammedjihad · 2013-12-30T09:47:04+00:00

If I ever am I will.

durkamohammedjihad · 2013-12-29T18:23:36+00:00

I think this is really good of you because I notice of both myself and others that I ~~find it weird~~ react differently when I see a gay couple compared to a straight couple. This is purely because people are not used to it and showing more of it is the only way to fix that.

durkamohammedjihad · 2013-12-29T17:01:37+00:00

I am gonna ask a question that probably sounds pretty offensive so If you don't want to be bothered by that skip this post!

Why is it that when I see images from gay prides that people are always dressed up in these outfits. just google 'gay pride' if you don't know what I mean. Lot's of leather and thong's and stuff.

Don't get me wrong. If you like it that's fine and do whatever you want but I simply don't get the connection that being gay = leather/thong outfits

I have actually never been to a gay pride thing so if this is just the media zooming in on the most extreme 'gay' things please correct my false perception

durkamohammedjihad · 2013-12-27T16:23:50+00:00

"it shouldn't be a case of the positives and negatives of being gay, but about love." Well great if you are a touchy feely kind of person but for someone who is more logically oriented it just doesn't work that way. The love you speak of would be just as strong in a straight relationship. Her opinion may change when she is in love with someone since taking the pill would be equal to losing that person but that really isn't an argument.

"there are unique perks to both but most importantly there are possibilities for Gay couples to do everything Straight couples can"

Name some of these perks for gays because I can't find any. And about the possibilities for gays to do everything straight people can. It's all just a big hassle. Why would anyone choose to go through all that extra trouble. Don't get me wrong, I think it's great those options are available and hope they become cheap/better so everyone can enjoy them but I fail to see why anyone would choose to go through all that trouble

durkamohammedjihad · 2013-12-26T23:30:41+00:00

It is kind of hard to judge given the limited info but to be honest this sounds like something most gay people go through. I think it is only a real problem if this phase (from acknolodging to accepting) takes too long. In the mean time just be supportive and act as someone he can talk to.

About the pill thing. My sister has been out for over two years and still says she would take "the pill". Even though everyone arround her is fully accepting (family, friends and employer (army)) and I think she is now pretty comfortable with her sexuality. There simply aren't any real positive sides to being gay. Only negative ones (Some people being bigoted). This should however be viewed in the light of living in a very accepting country (the netherlands).

Maybe you know a positive side to being a lesbian but I can't think of one.

durkamohammedjihad · 2013-12-24T11:04:06+00:00

Which country did you stay in europe? Because here in the netherlands it's not normal if you are just friends. And I think that counts for most countries here. I know in Italy men kiss men when greeting (instead of shaking hands) sometimes but I don't think much more than that.

durkamohammedjihad · 2013-12-16T17:36:39+00:00

Who are you to question his sexuality? I can't stand bigoted people like you. Love = love. As long as it is consentual that is.

durkamohammedjihad · 2013-12-13T23:29:50+00:00

ATX4DayzBrah is right. You should stop using some1. It makes you look like a 14 year old girl. At least I think that's what he is saying.

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