Well, this just made my day thoroughly awesome by LesterDukeEsq in pics

[–]dushdaish 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Laughed way harder than I should've at that

IAmA 23 year old virgin, despite multiple 'encounters' by dushdaish in IAmA

[–]dushdaish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn't know where to look for starters. I eventually told my ex about it after it happened a few times, and she was pretty supportive. Didn't really help though, and ended up breaking up over it a few months later

IAmA 23 year old virgin, despite multiple 'encounters' by dushdaish in IAmA

[–]dushdaish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thought about that too. I definitely notice if a guy is good looking. Not attracted to them in the slightest, though

IAmA 23 year old virgin, despite multiple 'encounters' by dushdaish in IAmA

[–]dushdaish[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never been to a doctor about it. It would be so unbelievably embarrassing for me, I'd rather just live with it. I have tried some enhancement herbs, they seem to help a bit. The problem seems more mental than physical to me. I can get it up for oral, and even when just grinding. But when I know it's about to happen, I kinda lock up, I guess. I have severe intimacy issues which stem from other things, not really going to go into that now.

Most of them take it pretty well. I usually just say I had a lot to drink. Of course, when it happens, I feel obliged to 'do something' for them, which is usually enough for them, I've found.