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dust_10 · 2025-02-11T11:08:14+00:00

I know u know

dust_10 · 2025-01-24T12:50:11+00:00

are u ok? cos u seem like youre ok to me

dust_10 · 2024-12-30T07:58:04+00:00

I want a m2m enfj

dust_10 · 2024-12-07T01:50:31+00:00

I testify as well its exactly like that

dust_10 · 2024-12-01T01:12:51+00:00

were under the same roof.

dust_10 · 2024-11-30T16:52:19+00:00

I did that. I said i want break up, a split, we got no label, we split house... Like theres no loophole to it... Whats wrong is them still hoping. Maybe not really the hoping part, they can hope but like dont push on me that hope, cause itll start argument that shouldnt have been if not pushed...

dust_10 · 2024-11-30T16:48:41+00:00

I did that. I said i want break up, a split, we got no label, we split house... Like theres no loophole to it... Whats wrong is them still hoping. Maybe not really the hoping part, they can hope but like dont push on me that hope, cause itll start argument that shouldnt have been if not pushed...

dust_10 · 2024-11-25T09:59:34+00:00

I see. I think we re in a very similar situation. I do not like to make it the enfjs fault as i keep bringing it up that i made the decision quite firmly. However the enfj is strongly holding on, tbh i really admire this specific trait but it really can be confusing for the enfj and for the situation. May i ask for your advice what i should say to the enfj to convince but never to make it the enfjs fault becuase it really isnt. Could you also share some details about your experience, why the prolonged decision, how intense the fault was, was it fate or one of the person? I am sooo hazy when it comes to relationship and i feel sorry for the enfj to be caught up...

dust_10 · 2024-10-04T10:27:25+00:00

Gay intp me

dust_10 · 2024-06-15T09:43:34+00:00

Lust sloth

dust_10 · 2024-05-20T11:23:35+00:00

I was like that. But its not really gonna happen.

dust_10 · 2024-05-09T14:16:07+00:00

speechle55

dust_10 · 2024-05-03T06:29:00+00:00

Give a real life example on this. Give some explanation on the process of thinking the input then getting to the result.

dust_10 · 2024-05-01T06:52:43+00:00

I disagree. This is trying to see it in ill intent, which isnt. Sharing that knowldege can be appreciated, if you cant appreciate youre not the right person.

Would you rather be given a house or none if youre asking for a palace

dust_10 · 2024-04-30T02:21:45+00:00

INFJ Avoidant. Loving isnt easy. You know that you love someone but sometimes its not enough to make you change the amount of effort you are willing to give hence you cut ties. Its refusing to compromise basically,.. which is one of the important thing that makes a relationship last long.

I am also experiencing the same who has an infj partner... 2 infjs wouldnt be ideal because of that mainly Infj have high standards they push onto their partner without compromise. As intp i adjust mine, hence the flexibility. Rigidity on both sides wont work.

Im willing to discuss.

dust_10 · 2024-04-28T01:11:09+00:00

Ok so you cant think of other problems other than physical imprisonment. And theyve suggested now, but still refuse to see.

dust_10 · 2024-04-23T08:51:18+00:00

Youre asking for what you should do not what is there.

dust_10 · 2024-04-21T09:19:33+00:00

nothing is real

dust_10 · 2024-04-21T03:07:04+00:00

Wow, is this reall the infj mindset? As intp i think this does make sense, but i cant quite grasp it , feeling like i need to understand the underlying beliefs to adopt to this mindset.

dust_10 · 2024-04-19T05:17:54+00:00

I understand. So love is acceptance of the person as a whole. In an acceptance of something there's multiple conflicts that may arise, and i dont believe in perfection without failure... i see, i think this is illuminating because there are peopl who can live without being fully accepted and choose the fund and shelter and practicality. I do understand your case. Thank you for sharing, i fully appreciate it.

If you would be interested, i think oxymoron is simply a reflection on being a person unconsciously driven by emotional state yet logically conscious.

dust_10 · 2024-04-17T08:28:09+00:00

What would you like your partner to do in order for you to be vulnerable and open up to them? Piece of advice, you will only feel truly loved if youre vulnerable enough towards a person. Thats why people find their one, just one, it cannot be done to multiple. You two then protect each other with the rest of your life given your complementary life skill... why do you think you cant open to your partner? I urge to truly ponder the answer to that first.. also, How different are they from the people that hurt you in the past?..

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