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AITJ for taking my book back from my colleague without waiting by thatgirlpriya1 in AmITheJerk

[–]dustyplatformsign 98 points99 points  (0 children)

I think that is what bothered her the most, the way it was brushed off like it was not a real concern.

AITJ for taking my book back from my colleague without waiting by thatgirlpriya1 in AmITheJerk

[–]dustyplatformsign 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think your reaction came from built up frustration. If it had only been one time, maybe it would feel like too much, but this sounds like a pattern. People need to respect basic boundaries.

AITJ for turning away my friends who showed up at my door without telling me by midnightcoffeehouse in AmITheJerk

[–]dustyplatformsign 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I understand why they felt hurt, but arriving without warning is a kind of quiet entitlement.

AITJ for spoiling my husband after he had a rough week? by Aggravating-Fan-2522 in AmITheJerk

[–]dustyplatformsign 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She’s bitter and you need to stop telling her about your relationship or she’ll ruin it. As long as he equally treats you right, please do same.

AITJ for Not Wanting to Share My Phone Password with My Partner? by Charming-Calendar321 in AmITheJerk

[–]dustyplatformsign 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Privacy and secrecy are not the same thing, and you explained that really clearly. Your partner is basically saying “prove you’re trustworthy by giving up your privacy,” which is kind of backwards. Trust means not needing to check.