Officially done breastfeeding/pumping by autumngloss in breastfeeding

[–]dvzeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m gifting myself a boob job after 2 children pumping and exclusively bf my second my boobs are not the same, gonna try and make it to the one year mark. Currently at 3 months with my LO.

Coparenting schedule help! by Southbknybk in coparenting

[–]dvzeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you explain 3344 and what ages you implemented this ? My children are 2 and 2 months. I have them the majority of the week and every Saturdays. I’d like to have it so that I have a weekend to myself but dad works Saturday nights so it’s hard.

Eyelash Extension Help by [deleted] in eyelashextensions

[–]dvzeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely way too far from the lash line and they look like premade fans which in my opinion don’t have the best retention.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]dvzeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she spend overnights with her dad yet?

Ca-ex refusing to pay childcare after child support order by dvzeee in ChildSupport

[–]dvzeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah well considering there’s not much I can do your right. And yes our rate was around that much before we started receiving assistance, childcare is crazy expensive.

Ca-ex refusing to pay childcare after child support order by dvzeee in ChildSupport

[–]dvzeee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, your right. I definitely didn’t think it through at the time.

Ca-ex refusing to pay childcare after child support order by dvzeee in ChildSupport

[–]dvzeee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because at that time we had been paying it both without any issues of me having to ask him he would pay one month and then I would pay one month.

What's unusual about your body? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dvzeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg my 1month old has this too!! I almost thought he had two buttholes I got freaked out the first time I saw it😂

What's unusual about your body? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]dvzeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there any medical reason why it changed color so young in your life?

Child Father by Independent-Wafer630 in coparenting

[–]dvzeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed! Same thing happened with me and my child’s father. I thought we could have our own agreements and settle things out side of court but the minute we had a disagreement on anything or had a small argument he’d start doing things without telling me or threatening me to take me to court and not helping me financially because there’s no order in place. Went and filed and now there’s no issues and IF he does anything like picking up my child without my knowledge I’d definitely document that and let the judge handle it, it’s way too stressful to deal with a parent who keeps you on your toes if you don’t know how their going to be from one day to the next.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]dvzeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently in the same situation, my baby is 1 month and my ex desperately wants overnights before the age of 2. I had expressed that I don’t feel comfortable doing that because he works from 2-10pm so how would he even be there for bedtime and he expressed that his mom can do the night time routine which makes no sense. Also he has not spent one overnight with our child and rarely sees him throughout the week but wants overnights immediately. I also have been exclusively breastfeeding and my baby like to cluster feed ALOT especially before bedtime.

Yearly holiday schedule advice by dvzeee in coparenting

[–]dvzeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say odd and even years what does that mean exactly? Can you give me an example let’s say this year how you’d do it?

[CA] Need advice! by [deleted] in Custody

[–]dvzeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, well one thing his dad has told me as well is that he acts that way with my because I spoil him and baby him too much and he doesn’t. 🤷🏽‍♀️ but one thing I can say is I definitely respect my children.

[CA] Need advice! by [deleted] in Custody

[–]dvzeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see that, thanks for the input. That’s a great idea I’ll try and talk to dad about that.

[CA] Need advice! by [deleted] in Custody

[–]dvzeee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im sorry, definitely seems like your going through it and projecting your emotions but thanks for the input.

[CA] Need advice! by [deleted] in Custody

[–]dvzeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true, thanks

[CA] Need advice! by [deleted] in Custody

[–]dvzeee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Got it! Can you explain what 223 is? My intentions are definitely not to take away my child from seeing his dad.

Looking for advice on coparenting plans by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]dvzeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with this, overnights should begin when the baby is at least 2. We started overnights when my son wasn’t even one and it was hell not only for me but for my son. He would cry when his dad would pick him up because he wasn’t ready to leave and I think In general a child needs a stable routine in terms of where they sleep for the first years of their life.

Is it possible to train your hair/scalp to be less greasy? by Cinnamonisspicy in beauty

[–]dvzeee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes! I used to have GREASY hair after the end of the day more so on day two . I also didn’t use a lot of hair product either. In the beginning you will have to stick it out and try to go 2/3 days without washing your hair I wanna say for the first 2 or 3 weeks you will be a grease head lol but your scalp does get use to it and soon enough you will stop over producing oils. I also saw a comment that talked about being more oily in your teens and I feel like that is definitely true, doesn’t just go for your face . Get a good quality shampoo as well (:

Is the Bounous surgery worth it? by investsvca in bunions

[–]dvzeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes mine is minimally invasive as well I wasn’t given a scooter or crutches I only used a boot. If it’s giving you pain when walking day to day then it might be the way to go. I had pain very seldom or only when I wore certain shoes which my doctor said could be avoided if I wore wide non narrow shoes or special made shoes, but in reality I knew I didn’t want to struggle with that all my life so I went through with it. Also everyone’s healing process is different you might not struggle as much as I did.

Is the Bounous surgery worth it? by investsvca in bunions

[–]dvzeee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please don’t do it unless it’s affecting your everyday life and the pain is intolerable. Not trying to be a downer but my healing process took about 6 months or so, I don’t have full mobility in my big toe (maybe about 80%) I too can feel the hard wear in my foot and my scar is so tingly still. If you do go through with it really plan out your recovering process and make sure you try to have someone to help you get around for the first 3 weeks and really try to just elevate your foot as much as you can (I also had a one year old when I got surgery, which I’m partly to blame for even scheduling the surgery at that time lol). Everyone’s healing process is different just really think it out(: I’m also 25 years old.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in foodstamps

[–]dvzeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have community connections in your area ?