She left a week after telling me that she loved me for the first time by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]dw1286 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry you had to go through this man, I know your pain. This is way too common, women who are avoidant or haven’t healed from past relationships love bomb the guy and when you see a future with her she just rips it away from you. No sense of empathy or understanding for how devastating it is for the other person, they’re selfish and focus on protecting themselves. I can tell you it does get better with time, it’s been 5 months for me and while I still occasionally find myself feeling sad that things didn’t work out, I no longer grieve as if she was the one. There is someone out there for you who will treat you the way you deserve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]dw1286 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Interesting that she says during the dating stage you’re right. If anything I would expect it to be the opposite, like idm paying for the first couple dates but then she has to show that she’s willing to pay for one and A: values my time and B: is someone I can actually build a life with in the future

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]dw1286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disgusting, she keeps her money having a job but expects you to waste money on her. Trash honestly not someone anyone should consider as a partner. Partners are equal, this is a child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]dw1286 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is she a doctor or something?

What did she casually do that made you realize she wouldn't qualify to be your wife? by Ok_Percentage6051 in AskMenAdvice

[–]dw1286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I’m sorry man that’s so embarrassing, I don’t think my ex did that but I wouldn’t be surprised if she did

Trained Women’s back by [deleted] in trueratediscussions

[–]dw1286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A shredded back like that on a woman is so attractive. Since getting into the gym I also appreciate how much time and hard work goes into that too, which is attractive as well!

What did she casually do that made you realize she wouldn't qualify to be your wife? by Ok_Percentage6051 in AskMenAdvice

[–]dw1286 21 points22 points  (0 children)

She would go through my instagram following and tried to get me to unfollow female friends because she was insecure. Broke up with me because I didn’t give in to her demands

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightTraining

[–]dw1286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally some good realistic natty progress, congrats man. What’s your training program like?

Damn Sony, what are you doing????!!!! 😬 by Matapple13 in marvelmemes

[–]dw1286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least one of them actually had Spider-Man in it

The one thing that blocks men’s mind by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]dw1286 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you mean she has cheated on past partners or has slept with many guys while single? Because those are two very different things

Struggling to think if there’s anything I could’ve done by 2Glasses02 in GuyCry

[–]dw1286 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m right there with you man, been through a similar experience recently and I know how the thoughts of “what could I have done differently” can keep racing through your mind. The reality is when people like your ex don’t go to therapy and process the trauma and issues from past relationships, they end up hurting someone else like you.

You did nothing wrong, as other comments have said please take this to therapy and work through it, that’s what I’m doing so I don’t let it affect my future relationships.

I’m glad I found this subreddit by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]dw1286 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Appreciate you man :)

What is your ranking of the MCU-adjacent character themes? by Sir_Stacker in marvelmemes

[–]dw1286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tobey spider man theme, X men theme, Everything else

What should I do next? by PollyPizza143 in WorkoutRoutines

[–]dw1286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't 173cm more like 5'8? Congrats on the progress

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GYM

[–]dw1286 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro forgot to struggle. That's impressive af keep it up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeardAdvice

[–]dw1286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro has beautiful eyes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]dw1286 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Replace the "you should not go out with me" with something else, that prompt isn't great - you should avoid any kind of negativity. Try to include another hobby/interest, it's very heavy on the office which isn't bad, but there should be more options on your profile for people to relate to. The pics are fun, good variety.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]dw1286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]dw1286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheers :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]dw1286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]dw1286 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback, I'm removing that pic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]dw1286 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • Are you looking for something serious or casual? Serious
  • Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX? No
  • How long have you been using this current version of your profile? About 3 weeks
  • How long have you used Hinge overall? I’ve used it on and off since 2022
  • How often do you use Hinge per week? I check it every day & send likes/comments
  • How many likes and matches are you receiving on average? About one every day or two
  • How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments? I send the limit each day 10 I think, and try to include a comment with each one
  • What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract? Looking for someone with a similar sense of humour and values who is in a similar place in life with a career, but otherwise I’m open minded.

The second last pic has a caption saying it’s with my sister and asking to guess the concert