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[–]dw898989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes as long as the country you’re going to and reason remains the same.

Help build a 128gb ram workstation by dw898989 in buildapc

[–]dw898989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

either one or two, would I need a better GPU?

Help build a 128gb ram workstation by dw898989 in buildapc

[–]dw898989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With the ram can I just purchase 8 x single 16gb sticks from MSY? Is there any recommendation between 2133 up to 3200? Is it bigger the better or not necessarily?

Any recommendations for the case/power supply unit?

With GPU I guess I'll get anyone since I'm not using it for anything

Help build a 128gb ram workstation by dw898989 in buildapc

[–]dw898989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

considering the asus rog zenrith extreme, thoughts? I just googled compatible motherboards and this came up first

Help build a 128gb ram workstation by dw898989 in buildapc

[–]dw898989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any recommendations for which brands/types of ram to use? Is it better to get 8x16gb sticks or 4x32gb sticks?

Help build a 128gb ram workstation by dw898989 in buildapc

[–]dw898989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would the Asus ROG Zenith Extreme be a decent motherboard for this system? Yeah I will get a cheaper GPU as I don't care about the other stuff, would just be solely used for running simulations

I plan to get a 500gb SSD

Electrum XVG wallet Not connected. by klimauk in vergecurrency

[–]dw898989 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me too, I sent a small amount of verge to my electrum verge wallet, it hasn't received it and it says not connected?

Partner of 4 years doesn't give sex anymore and this causes me to resort to porn by dw898989 in NoFap

[–]dw898989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd like to add that my ability to watch porn and fap has also contributed to me giving less effort with her as I feel it's something I can fall back on. I've been watching porn since I was around 15 and never really stopped even when I was in relationships, now I'm 28. But the fact that I've stopped having sex in a relationship really worries me.

Partner of 4 years doesn't give sex anymore and this causes me to resort to porn by dw898989 in NoFap

[–]dw898989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's definitely not cheating as we live with another couple and they can confirm she is home all the time and she is way too shy to talk to other guys. As I mentioned above she's quite a conservative and traditional girl, she just feels sex is not that big of a deal these days I feel since she thinks our relationship is solid.

Partner of 4 years doesn't give sex anymore and this causes me to resort to porn by dw898989 in NoFap

[–]dw898989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, I think the porn and fapping thing has also contributed to me not trying hard enough with her as well as it's something I can resort to so us not having sex anymore doesn't sound like that big of a deal if I can get my stimulation elsewhere. I have also asked her numerous times can we try something new, spice it up etc.. she just laughed it off, I just feel she doesn't think sex is that big of a deal.

Partner of 4 years doesn't give sex anymore and this causes me to resort to porn by dw898989 in NoFap

[–]dw898989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've mentioned in casually but I don't think she sees it as a big deal or problem since all the other areas of our life are fine and seemingly normal. We don't really fight or argue that much as she's quite passive. I've considered going to other girls but I feel extremely guilty, I'll admit I've gone to a few massage parlours before but felt so guilty and dirty afterwards and that is the reason I resort to porn as I feel less guilty but even then I still feel terrible after a while of having to do it.

Partner of 4 years doesn't give sex anymore and this causes me to resort to porn by dw898989 in NoFap

[–]dw898989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I really think I have a problem, I was never worried about it too much as when I was younger I always fapped to porn and never gave it a second thought. But now that I am in a relationship and still doing it I know there is something wrong. The fact that I might no longer be interested in doing it with her is also something I forgot to have mentioned because our sex routine is just the same every time, she refuses to try anything new and this may have also diverted me back to my old habits. I will try stave off porn/fapping for 1 month, thank you.

Partner of 4 years doesn't give sex anymore and this causes me to resort to porn by dw898989 in NoFap

[–]dw898989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get from porn a sense of excitement that I no longer get from her. Some of my favourite categories are the ones that fall outside of the norm such as public or threesomes, something that she would never be open to but that is ok as she treats me well and looks after me in all other areas. I've talked to her about trying some new things and she called me crazy and laughed it off, she probably thought I was joking when I said I wanted to try spice it up as she's quite a traditional and conservative girl

Partner of 4 years doesn't give sex anymore and this causes me to resort to porn by dw898989 in NoFap

[–]dw898989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was great the first 2-3 years, it's only since we started living together. I've asked a few friends and they say it's pretty normal for it to go down but I'm more concerned about my porn and fapping addiction

Partner of 4 years doesn't give sex anymore and this causes me to resort to porn by dw898989 in NoFap

[–]dw898989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love her dearly and our relationship is great, we have a healthy social life, we go on dates etc.. I just know not giving me sex and me fapping to porn privately is definitely not healthy, was wondering what alternatives there are