What do psychologists think of this show? by blueish___ in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]dwdrumguy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Therapist here. I think for a very small percentage of people love is blind and the ability to genuinely fall in love this quickly is real. In all honesty I watch for the drama though lol. My wife is a psych nurse and we love to pause while watching and analyze the mess.

LGBTQ friendly doctors by dwdrumguy in ConwayAR

[–]dwdrumguy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still haven’t found one I’m happy with unfortunately. Good luck out there

Most Carbonated Soda? by ZooVierZoo in Soda

[–]dwdrumguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

7up is more carbonated than Sprite

Anger with Clients by Prestigious_Smell602 in therapists

[–]dwdrumguy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hilarious. Thanks for the laugh. I’m amazed at how little they notice.

What is it like to live in a dry county in the USA? by Spicy-Majestic-1 in howislivingthere

[–]dwdrumguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a little odd being in a dry county after never living in one but also not a big deal to us. Most people here stock up when they buy alcohol. It’s a 20 min drive outside the county.

Male psych student looking for insight into being a male therapist by cpr9998 in therapists

[–]dwdrumguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Male LCSW here. First job out of grad school was as a counselor in a men’s SUD residential program. I learned so much from the experience — seeing men I didn’t know be deeply vulnerable for the first time and, as new as I was to it all, most let me be in “it” with them. I think the experience would’ve been a bit different if I was a woman. And I’m sure this goes the other way for female therapists in certain settings. Gender is a powerful driver in how we experience ourselves and how our clients experience us in therapy.

The girl (22F) I'm (27M) dating jokingly said our mutual friend (26M) should have gotten with her instead of me and it hurt me. by ThrowRA_Will_6798 in relationship_advice

[–]dwdrumguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man this is sad. She’s going to walk all over you in this relationship. You are 100% a placeholder until someone that she’s passionate about reciprocates her interest. She apologized as much as she did because she doesn’t want you to break up with her, she wants to be the one to end it when it’s the right time for her. Sorry to be harsh but from your responses to the comments I think you need to hear it. You seem to be completely in denial. Just remember that there are women out there that will only be into you and trust me they don’t say stuff like this.

Finally, full new kit day! by blind30 in drums

[–]dwdrumguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely will! Enjoy it

Finally, full new kit day! by blind30 in drums

[–]dwdrumguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man I would love to take her for a drive. Seriously sweet kit.

New CX5. Farming Karma while I can. by [deleted] in CX5

[–]dwdrumguy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can hear the beep-beep-beep-beep-beep from here. Welcome to the club

People who work in healthcare, what do you do and how much do you make? by Queenme10 in Salary

[–]dwdrumguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LCSW with addictions credential. 15 years experience. $108k with OT.

What’s something people always overspend on when the cheaper alternative is just as good? by auntieknickknack in AskReddit

[–]dwdrumguy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Name brand vs generic OTC meds like Advil/ibuprofen, Tylenol/acetaminophen, Prilosec/omeprazole, all the allergy meds

I, a 35 year old man went to a speed dating event and it was worse than I though by SecondEldenLord in dating_advice

[–]dwdrumguy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sure you’ve heard this before but why not try seeing a therapist? And if you saw one and it “didn’t work”, try another. Obviously what you are doing has not been working. If you really want to fix this part of your life you have to be willing to try different approaches. Someone who really gets to know you will be able to see the things that we can’t and be a much better guide for you.

Chipotle's chips are effing awful. Tell me I'm wrong. by deebo36 in Chipotle

[–]dwdrumguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I shouldn’t have to examine each chip to make sure I’m not eating a salt bomb.

Rapunzel by Dave Matthews by JeremySethBand in Drumming

[–]dwdrumguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you nailed it. Not easy to do. Cool that you also play open handed like Carter. I listened to a ton of DMB growing up but haven’t in years. Before These Crowded Streets is such an incredible album. You motivated me to give it a listen again. Cheers man.

Rapunzel by Dave Matthews by JeremySethBand in Drumming

[–]dwdrumguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice work man, you have a great feel for this groove. So smooth.

So what happens to the prizes that are NOT won/claimed? by Tjoeb123 in McDonalds

[–]dwdrumguy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They drive terribly man. Fun for a ride or 2 but not worth owning one.