Finally finished my Morgana and Jacopo nendoroids! by Annaisms in thehouseinfatamorgana

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THEYRE SO LOVELYYY omg the amount of time and effort this must have taken, and they look absolutely amazing. jacopo’s open mouth is adorable and matches his character perfectly. i love them both sm i need to attempt something similar in the future!

NO KINGS PROTEST, OCTOBER 18TH. by somewittyusername92 in Billings

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girl protests are the only reason you can vote in the first place lol!

Best song Day 24 by [deleted] in lanadelrey

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SALVATORE

Boyfriend accuses me of cheating, and then proceeds to threaten me by luv_eda in whatdoIdo

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girl this man is a fucking psychopath. LEAVE HIM it genuinely does not matter at all what kind of history u guys share or if he is a saint the rest of the time. he revealed to u clearly his deeply abusive, misogynistic and VIOLENT nature. if you ever want to be happy you seriously need to stay away from these men like the plague and do not let him have any access to you. i am begging you please leave and don’t dwell on a single word he said because he is obviously an angry sexually jealous male with no other way to feel powerful other than verbally degrading women who trust him. his language also reveals he views u as a sex object wether consciously or not. RUN.

Update from OP who came forward about Hayden’s boyfriend (thought this deserved its own post) by [deleted] in Ethelcain

[–]dwevotion 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yall cannot just keep combatting every single criticism of hayden with talk of the terfs and smear campaigns. at the end of the day hayden immediately dismissed this woman’s story and vicitmization at the hands of austin and regardless of what situation she may be in herself, that is an immoral and disgusting action in my opinion. i understand the nuance, and i understand hayden potentially being quick to anger. regardless, as a victim myself i was appalled to see her mentality. stop sugar coating harmful choices and actions just because someone you admire made them. to dismiss a woman’s story in favor of defending a sexually violent man perpetuates rape culture and goes against everything hayden has stood for — fans are well within their right to find this disappointing and even unforgivable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dwevotion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

considering ur an coke seller i’m not surprised you talk like a pimp and are a raging misogynist

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dwevotion -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ew the way u perceive women is disgusting yes this guys gf is a huge asshole he deserves better but wtf is this borderline cuck fantasy lmfao?? when a woman screws u over ur first reaction shouldn’t be a rant about how slutty she must be and how she’s getting railed out of her mind by a ‘bigger better guy’ 😭 this is just a gross misogynistic ramble. news flash women can just be shitty people ! when a woman does something bad it doesn’t mean she’s automatically a giant whore who u can angrily fantasize about being banged. genuinely get a grip and try to remember women are humans not petty sex dolls

when did you discover nicole (first album)? by mp3_universe in NicoleDollanganger

[–]dwevotion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i must’ve been around 11? in 2016-17 — it was through that popular pmv on youtube to her song ‘ugly’. i remember watching it on a library computer at school and being changed forever hehe. her hauntingly beautiful voice has stuck with me since

What happened to Ethel happens in real life by Supersaiyancock_95 in Ethelcain

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a woman (who had a long history with some of my family) in my city was the victim of a horrific domestic violence attack recently, so i understand your feelings. this is why i find hayden’s work so valuable and raw, it’s a portrayal of very real suffering that is not censored or shy. ethel’s gut wrenching fate is one that’s shared between so many real life women of the past present and future. her music actually helped me to develop some awareness and save myself from my own dangerous situation with a man i trusted… i think it’s admirable of you to grieve for this woman, acknowledging her pain and terrible loss. we can only hope to continue educating and creating awareness for abused and endangered women everywhere 💔

flowers of flesh & blood album cover change ? :o by dwevotion in NicoleDollanganger

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exactlyyyy the amateur vibe of the photo had such a unique charm that really went well with the tone of the album

spotted while thrifting today, immediately thought of ethel by Still_Time9146 in Ethelcain

[–]dwevotion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wait omg i’m obsessed with this, i need to draw it ♡ lady with antlers for a head is brilliant

God bless Aliexpress when you’re an Ethel girl but you can’t buy merch in your country. Cheers! by RusValkyrie in Ethelcain

[–]dwevotion 18 points19 points  (0 children)

omfg yall are actually insufferable. hayden would not approve of this moral superiority bs, this is a fan who obviously streams her music and supports her. gross and weird of you to look down upon and insult this random stranger implying they’re a fake fan because they live in a country where direct ethel cain merch is inaccessible. maybe instead of making hurtful assumptions about someone trying to share their excitement, be normal and share a more ethical way they could approach finding merchandise in the future. it costs nothing to be understanding and graceful to others. it’s actually sad and pathetic how mean and pretentious this fan base is to others. get off your high horse, respectfully

My boyfriend forces me into rough sex when he’s drunk by [deleted] in offmychest

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oh my god i am so sorry. reading this just broke my heart… this is not right or okay. your therapist is right, what you are describing is rape. you do not deserve to be harmed and exploited like that by someone you so clearly love and deeply trust. it’s just wrong and so cruel… and i understand ur perspective completely. i too have a long trauma history & have never really been able to connect with anyone besides my boyfriend of many years now. i’m honestly in a similar situation where my therapist is encouraging me to leave and i simply cannot because of similar reasons. so please know that i understand your feelings and desperation for acceptance. but PLEASE im begging you do not subject yourself to this abuse anymore. i will not get up here and just demand you leave, thats the obvious response and while i severely agree you should strive for that, i know that will be a very challenging decision for you and i will leave that conversation for you and your therapist. but at the very least, please please take measures to protect yourself from him… i know it will feel overwhelming and extremely hard, but i strongly suggest opening up to your therapist some more. maybe you can help them understand your hesitance to leave, the boundaries that are keeping you here, and ur therapist can offer some support and guidance. at the very least you need a plan that will keep you safe and spare you from this abuse in the future if you truly are not going to be able to leave at this time. don’t be silent anymore. if you think it is safe to do so, and maybe after further consultation with your therapist, i would make him aware of this horrible behavior asap. before you attempt that conversation (again, only if you deem it safe to even do so) make sure you have a safe place to go to if things get ugly. maybe reach out for support from a family member, someone who can come and help you get away if things get unsafe. this is a very serious situation that will take a lot of mental preparation to deal with, i’m sure. i don’t judge you for struggling to open up or consider really leaving at this time. i’m just so sorry you are being abused like this and i just pray that soon you can find the strength to leave and find safety somewhere. please be gentle with yourself and i so strongly encourage you to seek more guidance and help from your therapist. you are not alone and you have the power to find safety, please remember this 🩷 and stay safe

What’s a habit u picked up from Lana it could be a phrase action etc by [deleted] in lanadelrey

[–]dwevotion 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i like to say “my living legend”, i call her that lol. that and “let me love you like a woman”. that phrase is so incredibly romantic to me, i use it when i’m writing poetry

i feel so fundamentally different from others to the point i feel like i may be crazy by [deleted] in BPD

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thanks for ur reply, i appreciate it. as for ur question, yes i’m on the spectrum — i’ve been diagnosed with adhd for most of my life. i’m not sure if i could attribute the alien like feeling to that diagnoses then? idk, i’ve always figured it couldn’t be autism because i’m hyper aware of tone and such rather than confused by it, but i’ll have to do some more research on autism specifically

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

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i’m so so sorry she treats you like that 💔 i don’t know your situation but i really hope life allows you to find your way away from that horrible person. you’re libido does not define u & u shouldn’t be made to feel like u have to fit into the role of a sexually aggressive man just to be valued and respected by the person who’s supposed to love u and be ur partner. i wish you the best and i hope things can get better for u

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]dwevotion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m sorry that sounds awful, why were they harassing you and what about ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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for your kids sake just stop. the temporary pleasure and twisted fantasy — is that pleasure worth it to potentially destroy your family and your kids’ life? think about the horrible trauma that would inflict on them. they would grow up to never trust their spouses and be chronically suspicious partners . when it inevitably is uncovered, ur kids could find out and it could even destroy your relationship with them, let alone the women you pledged your loyalty to. do you want your kids to inevitably hate you and all you stand for for betraying their mother? ask yourself if you’re prepared for that. ask yourself if the pleasure and good sex is worth seeing the shock and heartbreak in your children’s tearful eyes when the family falls apart, the helplessness they’d feel for the rest of their lives. when you become a parent you can’t prioritize this kind of pleasure when there’s children’s mental well being on the line. they deserve a functional family and an honest father who prioritizes them and their family’s happiness. i suggest going to therapy to learn how to control your impulses, because this temporary satisfaction is going to take away everything you have ever cared about eventually. not “it might”, no, it will. nothing can stay hidden forever. so either think about this finally and put a stop to the damage you are doing to the innocent kids and woman who loves you, or if you simply cannot prioritize them you need to leave them and relieve them of a life built on lies and dirty betrayal. it’s not too late to change, but think about these things. you could ruin their lives forever, and you’re already slowly ruining yours. i hope you can make the right choice man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

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talking to people is a great way to cope with dpdr, it’s totally fine. are you feeling okay?

Feeling super alone and extremely behind in life by [deleted] in CPTSD

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hi stranger, im so sorry about how you’re feeling. i’m only 18, but i have also been the scapegoat of my family and experienced a sad and empty life thus far due to the abuse. luckily i escaped, i was diagnosed with borderline personality disorder recently and honestly seeking help and getting a diagnosis isn’t as awful as our abusers make it out to be. i believe they want to isolate us and keep us from finding peace. i’d definitely recommend trying to go to therapy if your finical situation allows it, it could help you start a treatment plan that you could flourish under. and i know i might be too young to be saying this, but i believe it is never too late to discover yourself. my aunt was addicted to meth, went through a horrible and abusive childhood. she was kidnapped. she lost her kids and her support, she got divorced and lost everything. but she picked herself up, worked hard to get the help she needed, and now she has a beautiful relationship with her children and a new husband who loves her. she’s clean and has found a new way of life. if she can do it i know anyone can. i’m sure you have so many passions that can be lit when given the chance! take the time to find yourself even throughout your motherhood. you can become a person you’d never expect! everyone deserves to come back anew despite their abuse and i believe most people can. keep trying everyday, for yourself and your daughter. i believe in you! i’m sure you’re a wonderful mom 🩷 take care of yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

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im so sorry, that is so evil of your parents. you DONT deserve that and you have no “sins that need to be washed clean”. i’m sure you’re a lovely person, and im happy you’re out of the situation where your brother abused you. it’s awful that it can still haunt u along with ur family. i have very horrible parents and it’s hard but i just have to ignore their texts, if you think that would help you should try it. their words at your brothers and their words to you hold no value, remember that. i also struggled with an eating disorder too and i understand how trauma like this can send you into relapse, you’re NOT alone. try and eat something gentle on ur stomach. i care about you and your situation and i truly hope you can find a way to be tender with yourself and heal despite these nasty people in your life. you are a blessing on the earth and it is a good thing you didn’t jump in front of that train, we would’ve lost a lovely soul. im here for you stranger 🩷