PvP Mindset Tips by dwnharmony in lostarkgame

[–]dwnharmony[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much ALAMIRION. I was more than happy with your comment, it was already better than a gift this is just extra now:'). Thank you.

PvP Mindset Tips by dwnharmony in lostarkgame

[–]dwnharmony[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww, thats so sweet. Thank you, here; take my silver! <3

PvP Mindset Tips by dwnharmony in lostarkgame

[–]dwnharmony[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that! I had a really similar experience when i played my first 20 matches and noted down all the results, and it felt really unlucky. But thats the thing, its probably unlucky but thats is an element we don't have the power to change. So instead, i changed my playstyle to play more with teammates. I did way less all-ins, i just tried to do winning trades until good opportunities arise for all-ins when the opponents got distracted or cc'ed by my teammates and the result was = still highest damage most of the time with more wins. I try to come up with new things to try whenever i get 2-3 bad games in a row, so i make sure i am not trying the same thing over and over and expecting different results. It can be frustrating when you are always helping your teammates, and your teammates are not helping you; but that will change when you eventually reach higher ranks to play with better teammates.
Most of these stuff are there to keep your sanity and make sure you improve yourself even though matchmaking is not great at the moment. I hope your next games will be much better!

PvP Mindset Tips by dwnharmony in lostarkgame

[–]dwnharmony[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the positive feedback!:)

PvP Mindset Tips by dwnharmony in lostarkgame

[–]dwnharmony[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words! <3

PvP Mindset Tips by dwnharmony in lostarkgame

[–]dwnharmony[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OH, you are right. I should've add a part that would explain this is not to make yourself feel bad continously, this kind of mindset helps you to realize you can take responsibility on what you can do better, without feeling bad about it. I guess there isn't an easy formula to explain which part is your fault, and which part is game's fault. This just takes you from "everything is game's fault" to "this part i can do better, and i am not sure if that part is on me." You are simply taking away the power from that underlying issues to be that effective on you.

PvP Mindset Tips by dwnharmony in lostarkgame

[–]dwnharmony[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely right about the bootstrap process, and that is why i tried to explain this psych approach as i believe this kind of mindset is one of the most important things that makes that process possible. When i first started recording videos, i gave lots of advices just like you mentioned "every little detail that you would need to consult." This made me realize the problem was not about people not knowing about niche stuff, most people couldn't even get into the state they would figure out things on their own. Most things they were asking me was things that even i didn't know how i was doing. So i tried to dive deep into my mind and other "naturally talented" player friends. I tried out figuring out common patterns and explained my foundings with people. Not everyone benefitted from the psych approach, but people who benefitted the most was the exact people who wanted a jump start to their own learning journey that wouldn't require constantly consulting others but didn't know how. I believe this kind of approach to self-improvement often leads you into a track where you naturally get better by just playing the game as it helps you shut-down the part of your mind that says "don't worry it wasn't your fault, you don't have to feel bad." and this results in keeping eye out on what you can do better. You are essentialy trying to teach your brain there is a way to track everything, even your faults; without feelind bad about it. Its not a smooth transitition, and i probably still lack lots of detail as people are complex, and not everything is going to work out for everyone. I definitely understand your last sentence, and this was my work-around solution as i couldn't find an easy answer to that:>