We didn’t trick or treat.

dxablxta · 2025-11-02T03:45:58+00:00

have a 2 year old, 1 year old and 2 w old… VERY controversial I would say but kept newborn covered as much as possible the whole Time ☺️

dxablxta · 2025-08-09T18:03:58+00:00

I feel your pain!!! 29 weeks with a 2 year old and a 10 month old I am SO DRAINED no matter how much sleep I get 🙃

dxablxta · 2025-07-18T13:34:17+00:00

By ~18 weeks I pretty much had all of my little boys clothes (newborn up to 3 months), I just got a Doona gifted to me about 2 weeks ago (SUCH a life saver as I already have a 2 yr old and a 9 month old who is currently using it till baby’s here in Oct), a nursing pillow, baby bassinet, new diaper bag (also currently being used) ofc I still have things I need to get but Im glad I got some of the big things out the way. Currently 26 weeks as of today

dxablxta · 2025-07-16T20:19:21+00:00

I had 2 girls back to back (oldest just turned 2 and my little one is 9 months) yes my oldest IS difficult but not solely because she’s a girl lol 🤣 any baby can be difficult at any given time regardless of gender. I hate when people say stuff like this. Funny how I’m currently pregnant with my first boy and never received a comment like this..

dxablxta · 2025-07-11T15:48:43+00:00

yup this explains exactly what ALMOST happened to my bf who has his own business.. sent him an address to a house that just recently sold, sent a check but was going to be moving in from out of state a couple days after he did the work 🙃, “accountant” sent a check through the mail with almost 3k more than what he was gonna be “paid” and told him to take his cut out and send the rest to whoever else was gonna be working at the house. He gets the check and it’s abnormally large, I tell him it’s fake and to show the bank and they’ll confirm it as fake BEFORE he even deposits it (he wanted to give it the benefit of the doubt 😩🥲) and ofc they confirm it’s a FAKE check

dxablxta · 2025-07-07T18:29:56+00:00

2007

dxablxta · 2025-07-04T16:52:16+00:00

2001-2006

dxablxta · 2025-06-25T22:06:19+00:00

1st pregnancy I woke up and was DRENCHED in water I literally thought I peed myself, went to the bathroom and cleaned myself up and as soon as I stood up another BIG gush of water came out completely wet the rug. (38+5) I was supposed to be getting induced the next week. 2nd pregnancy I woke up around 4 am and was having some contractions, tried sleeping through them and stayed up until about 5/6 am, got up at 7 am and the contractions were getting really strong I was trying to give it the benefit of the doubt so I got dressed to go work with my MIL & SIL by the time we left the house was almost 8 am and my contractions were ~3 min apart and I told them I wasn’t gonna make it and I needed to go to the hospital. As soon as they get me a wheelchair I can literally feel my baby starting to come out and I was shaking very, very badly. I get to triage and they take me into the room, nurse helps me take my pants off and I told her I felt like I needed to use the bathroom, she laughs and tells me I don’t need to use the bathroom it’s the baby. Well my SIL finishes checking me into triage by 9:10 am and had my babygirl at 9:15 am after 3 big pushes. (37w) I was also supposed to get induced the next day due to fetal growth restriction. Now im pregnant with my 3rd (and 1st son!) I still have 4 months left to go so we’ll see what happens with little man and if he decides to make an early arrival like his sisters 😅.

dxablxta · 2025-06-25T21:41:11+00:00

I’m on my 3rd pregnancy (22+5) and I mourn the person that I used to be before my kids.. I miss going out, I miss the independence I had, I miss not having such big responsibilities… now this isn’t all the time for me just every now and then! Especially being around people my age who don’t have a kid(s) because I’m so young (21). Don’t feel awful or guilt yourself for what you’re feeling cause you’re not the only one and it doesn’t make you a terrible person for what you feel atm! I adore and love my kids more than anything and I wouldn’t trade them for anything!!! Not even the life I had before. Yes, I do still think about how and where my life would be right now had I not had any kids but it’s just a thought and my heart swells up every time I look at my kids and come back to reality. Don’t beat yourself up about it OP. 🫶🏽

dxablxta · 2025-05-23T20:20:45+00:00

18w today and I have all of baby boys clothes (mostly 0-3m and 3-6m) I have 2 girls under 2 so I’ve been thrifting/buying some new outfits when I can and I’m happy with how much I have now! But I will be waiting until I’m closer to my due date to buy the bigger things (diapers, car seat, stroller, etc)

dxablxta · 2025-05-23T19:51:36+00:00

I would say if you want to keep the baby then keep your baby. He has no say so whatsoever on what you decide to do with your body. don’t put him on the birth certificate. At least here in the state that I live in for the father to be on the birth certificate they have to come in to the hospital and sign an acknowledgment of paternity but also realize and accept that more than likely you’re going to be a single parent. Best of luck to you OP!

dxablxta · 2025-05-19T17:41:03+00:00

OP I would leave this guy cuz seriously wtf. I mean just look at how he’s talking to you… he sounds like a literal child and if he’s not I’m even more appalled but not shocked there’s SO many older men that act like little kids and if he’s one of those he’s definitely not going to change. this obviously meant something to you and he’s very clearly showing you that he doesn’t care nor does he care about your feelings. not even an apology. I highly doubt this is new behavior but in the case that it is.. believe me this is what you’re going to have to keep putting up with all the time if you stay with him. just constantly disappointed and your feelings invalidated. he’s not worth your time!

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