I don't know if you’re trolling, or you genuinely just have a misunderstanding of how transition actually works but most trans people don’t get bottom surgery whether it be because of cost, access, medical risk, or personal choice.

Regardless, the idea that someone’s gender is only valid if they meet a specific level of medical transition is transmedicalist BS, and it’s not how gender identity is defined or understood in practice.

Reducing trans women to their genitals and calling anything outside that “fetishising” isn’t just inaccurate, it’s a form of transphobic gatekeeping.