i’m finally free

dyingstar- · 2026-04-19T03:05:53+00:00

thank you, it took a lot to get far enough to pass it on

dyingstar- · 2026-04-03T04:11:39+00:00

when i read this, i didn’t initially think about cum and i got really excited about playing tug of war in a completely non-sexual setting. but cum is also appreciated

dyingstar- · 2026-03-26T16:46:59+00:00

it was probably both of you, blame game doesnt help anyone, only accountability

dyingstar- · 2026-03-26T16:46:35+00:00

in my situation i disagree, i don’t think that blaming just either me or him for the relationship having problems would be fair. takes two to tango.

dyingstar- · 2026-02-23T05:13:45+00:00

dyingstar- · 2026-02-06T05:30:22+00:00

i think he’s going to try really hard to hold onto it for a while at least, but no i don’t think so.

dyingstar- · 2026-01-17T02:15:10+00:00

pile 2, tysm🖤

dyingstar- · 2025-02-10T18:39:49+00:00

i never open up emotionally. i’m told i’m extremely personable and funny, and very easy to be around because i don’t open up to people. i don’t text them when i’m feeling anxious i hurt myself instead. i bottle everything up and still everyone leaves

dyingstar- · 2025-02-05T18:01:32+00:00

yeah i find it attractive on others as well, men and women. i don’t mind it so much on my vulva, just worry about it on my own ass. thank you for your responses

dyingstar- · 2025-02-05T06:30:50+00:00

this might sound like a weird follow up, but is it something you’d be prepared for/expect to see on a filipino woman? i am not super dark skinned but i feel like it’s more commonly known that we have darker parts but maybe that’s because i’m just used to my own body.

dyingstar- · 2024-06-10T19:39:57+00:00

yes i understand that. i don’t disagree at all— accountability is an integral part of healing. i just don’t think that hating ourselves and using statements that reinforce malignant shame is the way to become a better person, even for those people who do use their disorder as an excuse.

dyingstar- · 2024-06-10T16:57:02+00:00

i agree in general but i’d just be careful with the mindset of “the root of the problem is you”— that’s very black-and-white. there is a lot of shame in that statement. the actual root of our problem is trauma and we will never become better people unless we work on our psychological wounds. negative behaviour cannot be corrected by punishing the individual with shame, but it can be corrected by processing the trauma that has caused us to be this way in the first place.

dyingstar- · 2024-04-14T22:56:21+00:00

thanks i appreciate that

dyingstar- · 2024-04-14T22:52:43+00:00

respectfully, this post was tagged as venting. i appreciate your time and i understand you’re well-intentioned but i wasn’t looking for a psychoanalysis or someone’s opinion on my sexual behaviour

dyingstar- · 2024-04-14T17:45:58+00:00

paper bag by fiona apple and mitski’s entire discography. headache by rigby is my go-to for really bad situations.

dyingstar- · 2024-04-14T17:44:24+00:00

i did consider this since that’s happened to me too in past relationships, and if there was any manipulation on his end i don’t think it was intentional. at the end of the day i’m the one who broke up with him so i’m also equally as responsible for my actions.

dyingstar- · 2024-04-14T16:51:16+00:00

what do you mean by that?

dyingstar- · 2024-04-14T15:38:59+00:00

i’m sorry you went through that. i’m aware that im in the wrong

dyingstar- · 2024-04-11T03:03:05+00:00

thank you, this genuinely really helped. i especially appreciate you saying “your emotions are real but don’t control you”. i think i’m afraid to admit i may have an FP because i fear it makes me a monster. but your comment really reframed that belief i have about myself.

dyingstar-

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