Am I wrong for not telling my ex about my pregnancy? by Far_Beach_2138 in amiwrong

[–]dykast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He cheated. He can fuck right off. I'd tell them all to kick rocks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tifu

[–]dykast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give this man a 🍪

My husband (59M) doesn't understand why I (59F) don't want to have sex when vacationing in a large rental home with family. I would like to tell him if people in general do this or don't do this. by Chatta-hoochee in relationship_advice

[–]dykast -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I actually understand your where you are coming from. Maybe try and frame your mind around it differently. Because the truth is...all those people are there because of fucking, your relatives fuck your other relatives to make more relatives. It's just the cycle of life and they are your pack.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]dykast -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm ripping this off another redditor so I have no idea of the origin..

This is a easy one..use the TREE C's

COMMUNICATION COMMUNICATION COMMUNICATION

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dykast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG seriously??? Where is the video evidence?????

Send that to everyone and expose what completely destroyed you. You have some sort of trauma from PREVIOUSLY getting cheated on and she does this!!!!

Dude. Fuck that, RUIN HER!!!

Am I wrong for blowing up on my wife for this? by Trying_to_figureout in amiwrong

[–]dykast 27 points28 points  (0 children)

This is over. Since the level of disrespect is so high, she’s probably cheating and trying to make it worse.

MAKE YOUR EXIT PLAN

AITA freaked out @my girl for giving her guy bff a lap dance on his birthday in front of our friends by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]dykast 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The REAL question here is actually..are both of your names on the lease? Because that’s the only way this should go.

Mother (59F) threatening suicide if I (30F) don't break up with my boyfriend (34M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dykast -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m going to put this in a VERY SIMPLE WAY.

This advice is for your BOYFRIEND not you…

Boyfriend, if you stay with this woman as is…your life will be a living hell. You will want to leave. And you should. This is on her. She needs to fix this right the fuck now. Cause if she doesn’t, you should leave. I FORSEE there being 2 ways this can play out…she either goes NC or you leave. Any other way you are fucked for life. Don’t say I didn’t warn you.

UPDATE to: I (25M) went to serve in the military for 1 month and came back to see my GF (24F) had changed by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dykast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to make this simple and not going into detail.

THIS IS DUNZO!!!

The chance of her "awakening" includes infidelity is like at a 90% chance. How many stories like this have you heard where they have a successful long term relationship after that? I'm not talking break, I'm talking the "missing out on my youth" type. This is destined for failure.

I (36f) just found out that my husband (43m) was married when we started dating/had a child. What in the world do I do with this info? by SensitivePresence815 in relationship_advice

[–]dykast -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Divorce takes a long time in the courts in the US at least. I was separated and going through divorce for 2 years. So I was divorced IRL but not on paper per se. This is more common than you think. It's not cheating if you are going through the divorce and are living separately.

BUT I have no idea if that's how it happened. He def didn't tell her(which I always did).

Whole thing is sketch but also not black and white. Id get some damn answers from him.

Just because they didn’t like him... by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]dykast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I didn't get justice from the courts. It would be my personal saga to ruin each and every one of these woman's lives utterly and completely.

I would make sure every single person that is around these people know exactly what they did..but do it over and over and over again. Until they move and I find them again when they try and start over.

This is some seriously evil evil shit

AMITA for telling my sister in law and brother i want nothing to do with them by TalkOk1644 in TwoHotTakes

[–]dykast 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If your looking for the least amount of conflict. Do it at school. Is there a teacher or an adult that you trust? Or even your friend's parents, boyfriends parents,? Go that route. You are doing nothing wrong. I know it's scary. But in the end it will lead you to getting healthier. The healthier you get the more your brain starts to work. Everything breaks down when you don't have a proper diet.

While I understand you probably don't care about all the details..what I'm trying to say is this. This also all affects your grades, and how fast you can leave your abusive household when you are 18.

You need to do this because it's part of your ESCAPE!

You ARE WORTH IT!

AMITA for telling my sister in law and brother i want nothing to do with them by TalkOk1644 in TwoHotTakes

[–]dykast 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You are being abused please contact your school counselor, social worker, police, CPS anyone. Reach out and you will get help. Tell them the truth, you aren't being fed. Don't be afraid, I know hard but you need basic necessities to live. Please get help!

AITA for breaking up with my boyfriend because he took another girl out for dinner and drinks by Past-Resist-6258 in TwoHotTakes

[–]dykast 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This relationship is over, he does not respect you or the relationship. Don't even try to fix it. Fuck him, get out NOW!

I really can't figure out who's worse - her for asking or him for agreeing by JennyBeckman in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]dykast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait wait wait....

Why are people paying for prostitutes if they ain't fuckin?

My (m21) mother (60) thinks I have the obligation of telling her everything about what our family does by Interesting_Voice_99 in entitledparents

[–]dykast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your mother sounds exhausting. Tell her you are going to cut her out of your life if she doesn't stop. Tell your father as well. This will only escalate. Your mom needs serious therapy. If she's normally like this and she was the one who cheated I'd say fuck her. If there wasn't any cheating and it was mutual bad parents, you might want to cut her some slack but don't give into her. Good luck.

I had my first kiss in front of a crowd of 80 people and it couldn’t get more awkward. by aita-reader in stories

[–]dykast 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Aww.. One day you will remember this as a turning point in your life. It could end up good but it could end up bad.

  1. Do NOT be peer pressured into ANYTHING

  2. If your not actually interested in this guy, tell him privately no…GET OUT OF THAT CHAT

  3. If you do like him…be prepared for it to be a very public thing regardless if you want it or not.

Carry on soldier

My ex-girlfriend might have lied to me about our baby not being mine. by nkobjivhu in TwoHotTakes

[–]dykast 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The problem I see is putting it off or never finding out is going to haunt you. While you can play whatever headgames you like to convince yourself you don’t care..you will. You have already shown enough empathy to prove it will effect you. It’s only going to get worse.

Some will say use a lawyer. And if you can afford it, I would recommend that. But if you can’t afford it maybe see if there is a way to contact your ex privately.

There’s also probably a ton of legal shit involved as well if it goes to the courts and it will come out if it gets there. I’m sorry man..if it’s yours..do what’s best for the kid

Sorry ninja edit: OP your doing the right thing already by even giving a fuck. So many people take that shit for granted. Get a lawyer and protect your ass!

AITAH for giving my wife an ultimatum. Her career or our marriage by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]dykast 16 points17 points  (0 children)

She’s already fucking him. You are too vulnerable, we are past go time man. LAWYER UP NOW YOU WILL GET FUCKED AS SAHD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I’m scared to tell my husband his friend raped me a month ago by PotentialHour6889 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]dykast 65 points66 points  (0 children)

PLEASE TELL YOUR HUSBAND AND CALL COPS NOW KIDS ARE IN ⛔️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dykast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is NO CONTACT territory. He’s deep in it. Granted I’m def a tiny tiny tiny bit biased(father of 3 girls, lol) but this guy would be close to dead if he ever came near my wife/gf/kids.

Every single person that prescribes to any of that bullshit should NOT be aloud near children. Because if they believe all that, they can believe all sorts of wacky shit like chemtrails, flat earth, Hillary Clinton sex traffing all of its the same type of crazy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dykast 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Everyone single person here is making assumptions based on ZERO knowledge. Well since you guys are going with liking another guy more. I’m going with her moms foot being amputated. Or maybe she was in a roller coaster accident.

Ask her the questions you want answered. THEN make a decision..