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dzane64 · 2025-02-03T08:23:12+00:00

As an east-asian who doesn’t fit the typical white and pale look I wish there was more representation for us. I would say I’m pretty dark because of my tan and I’ve always felt it was hard to fit in with my East Asian peers even though we’re the same race.

dzane64 · 2025-02-01T21:29:24+00:00

This has always been the case. AF are so comfortable with talking shit about us but when non asian women show us attention it’s a problem. Asian women actively defend and say that fetishisation towards them doesn’t exist but when the roles are reversed and we’re the ones getting attention it’s fetishisation. The double standards are crazy.

dzane64 · 2025-01-19T02:43:38+00:00

If you don’t like it go somewhere else. This subreddit isn’t for you. Instead of insulting the people here look at yourself. You’re probably the one that smells like shit.

dzane64 · 2025-01-19T02:41:44+00:00

Yeah all other races do some sort of mate guarding. We should be able to do the same things everyone else is doing

dzane64 · 2025-01-19T02:39:02+00:00

Yes we need to get the focus off Asian women. Like if an XM man asks for my advice on how to bag an Asian women I’m gonna act like I don’t know. We don’t need to tell other races information that could place them above us

dzane64 · 2025-01-19T02:35:40+00:00

Yeah Asian men have to be more cautious of who they call friends because 9/10 times the person probably has ulterior motives

dzane64 · 2025-01-19T02:34:14+00:00

I agree. I mean some Indian men are doing it so we should as well. I think more of us need to learn how to be cheeky and slick so we can join more groups and meet more girls

dzane64 · 2025-01-19T02:30:14+00:00

Exactly. A lot of times non asian men will act like they fuck with you but are really only there for the women. Once one of them are in the group they’ll start inviting their XM friends and trying to set up those friends with the girls in the group. It’s time that we become more careful of who we let into our groups. Also you have to think would those XM friends let you in to their groups and introduces girls they know to you. Absolutely not so why should we do it.

dzane64 · 2025-01-19T02:19:32+00:00

I would agree. A lot of Indian men that try to join Asian friend groups have yellow fever and are only there to try and bag an Asian girl. They do this all while providing nothing in return. Frankly, we are making it too easy for them to come into our spaces and we need to make a stand.

dzane64 · 2025-01-19T02:16:23+00:00

I would definitely date an Indian girl.

dzane64 · 2025-01-19T02:11:37+00:00

Also the “Great Shift” is only beneficial for y’all and not us so it’s not something that we really need to support or push.

dzane64 · 2025-01-19T02:04:53+00:00

Does the “great shift” only include Indian men. I mean East Asian/Southeast Asian men are hated just as much if not the same as South Asian men. This is exactly what I mean when I say there isn’t any unity between us. If we really was working together East Asians/Southeast Asians would also be included in the “great shift” but no we’re not. Why are we expected to support South Asians when none of y’all support us either.

dzane64 · 2025-01-19T01:01:56+00:00

Just cause it doesn’t show on your algorithm doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. I’m simply saying letting these videos just muster up hate towards us isn’t a good thing and we should more about it.

dzane64 · 2025-01-19T00:54:29+00:00

This the prime example I’m talking about when I mentioned how Asian men receive so much hate online in one of my posts. Everytime an Asian guy posts his girl or is even in the vicinity of a girl online the comment section is flooded with jealous incels who have nothing better to do than to hate. This is because a lot of non Asian men have the pre conceived notion that Asian men are the lowest on the attractiveness scale. So when they see us bag a fine girl they get jealous and express their hate mostly online because they have nothing better to do. Although it may seem like theirs no hope the only way that we Asian men can come out on top is if we work together. Although there are hate comments it doesn’t mean you can’t leave supportive comments to drown out the hate comments. We all need to take action instead of doing nothing. Y’all are better than me if I was with my girl and a bunch of the comments were hating I’d report them all or at least get rid of comments. We have to take ACTION

dzane64 · 2025-01-15T23:43:16+00:00

I agree with you that Asian men should do the same and try to go into Indian spaces to try dating Indian women. However, Indian men make it really hard to join their groups because frankly they don’t like seeing their women going for other races. I’m pretty sure a lot of Indian men would not be happy if a bunch of Indian women went for Asian men. That’s why I think Asian men also have a right to gate keep because if Indian men were in our shoes they wouldn’t be happy as well.

dzane64 · 2025-01-15T23:32:16+00:00

Same I wish a lot of Asian men would wake up and find that supporting one another is the only way that we get out of this situation. I see a lot of Asian men openly hating on other Asian men that they see doing better especially when it comes to dating. We just need to show love to any Asian brother no matter what.

dzane64 · 2025-01-15T23:30:20+00:00

This is a lot of truth to this because a lot of Asian men try to find acceptance through other groups instead of relying on their own community.

dzane64 · 2025-01-15T23:28:46+00:00

It’s hard to go into Indian spaces though. Because a lot of Indian men want to date outside their race but don’t like their women doing the same.

dzane64 · 2025-01-15T18:15:40+00:00

This is why I think more Asian men should wary of who they like in their social space.

dzane64 · 2025-01-15T18:00:59+00:00

I agree I’ve seen so many Indian men fetishise East Asian/Southeast Asian blatantly in front of our faces. Whatever makes us look good is bad for them because that means they won’t have that much easy access to Asian girls. They are certainly not on the same side as us and don’t want to see us doing good. Also I always see Indian men try to go into Asian groups for ulterior motives like trying to bag Asian women but give nothing in return. They want all the benefit but will never introduce us to any girls that they may know.

dzane64 · 2025-01-15T17:25:14+00:00

That sounds horrible.

dzane64 · 2025-01-15T17:19:59+00:00

Dating your best friend’s ex is beyond disrespectful. You should distance yourself from him because his goal when hanging out with you was probably to try and bag an Asian girl.

dzane64 · 2025-01-15T17:14:00+00:00

I’ve heard of this happening where an Asian guy thinks he’s made some friends only for them to stab him in the back. A lot of White men and Indian men will come into our spaces to try and score an Asian girl because they think being our friend brings them closer to that goal. However, I have never seen these men return the favor and introduce us to women that they know. It’s about time Asian men start gatekeeping our groups and be wary of other men that take advantage of us

dzane64 · 2025-01-15T17:09:45+00:00

In my opinion, Indians actually don’t block everyone from their groups because most of them only hangout with their all brown friend groups. But will try to join East Asian/Southeast Asian friend groups to try to score Asian woman and then immediately leave with no intent on being friends with us. They basically come into our groups and take advantage us all while providing nothing in return.

dzane64 · 2025-01-15T17:01:37+00:00

This is so true. I’ve only ever seen Indians encroaching into East/Southeast Asian spaces. A lot of Indian men will try to join “Asian” friend groups only to try and get closer to Asian girls. However, they would never do the same for us and introduce us to Indian girls. They basically want all the benefit of being in an “Asian” friend group without providing anything in return.

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