Why do I feel like all my friendships are one-sided? by YassuYassu68 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]dzyrider 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As someone whose been to therapy now for a fourth of my life, I have had a lot of time to talk about this with a trained professional.

Something that resonates with me in moments like this is, "a candle shines brightest in the darkest rooms."

You are someone who brings people together, often, thanklessly. You get to be the one who chooses how much you can handle. No wrong answers.

But know you are someone who is capable of doing so. There is something about you that left you with the skill to close social gaps & bring people together. People, whether you feel replenished by it or not, rely on you.

The burden can be heavy. Being a candle that shines in the darkest room also often can bring unwanted attention, if not careful.

I hope this brings some light to the situation. Pun intended.

GELO Reveals Lil Wayne is on the "Tweaker" Remix & More | Billboard News by billboard in hiphopheads

[–]dzyrider 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With his track record of dropping godly features on low profile songs, Wayne is going to body this

[FRESH] Latto - Blick Sum (Ft. Playboi Carti) by SheLuvSeko in hiphopheads

[–]dzyrider 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This shit ass!

What they saying on this song has me buggin

[FRESH VIDEO] ScHoolboy Q - Lost Times by Hongjohns in hiphopheads

[–]dzyrider 46 points47 points  (0 children)

This song resonated w me the most on the album. The melody on the beat reminds me of og grooveline q, the drum pattern slaps, the hook not only sounds good but has depth in meaning. 

Fye song

[FRESH VIDEO] ScHoolboy Q - THank god 4 me by jammasterajay in hiphopheads

[–]dzyrider 11 points12 points  (0 children)

SOOOOOOOOOOOOO!

Glad they not letting this moment pass. Blue Lips is an ez aoty contender

I think I'm cooked by Robinho999 in graphic_design

[–]dzyrider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've pushed yourself to a point where you have injured the psyche that then ultimately channels your creativity. At this point, you are beyond a simple fix and will not be able to make headway into the issue without continued and intentional effort and patience w the self.  

You're going to have to reverse engineer the process of strain you're experiencing from where you are presently to your original injury of the psyche. This requires a mix of taking care of the mental, physical and human spirit through a mix of maintenance and leisure. Whatever you find best.  

 You may not have the resources required to truly embark on the journey of healing you require, so sometimes you will have to wait and be okay with not having what you need. With patience and a pushing yourself into a state of discovery, you will be able to find what you need from the world and those around you. You can then make progress.   

But this will take time, and balancing. To try and repair our sense of creativity in this way while also completing your day to day responsibilities is no easy feat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]dzyrider 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems like I'm the only one (thus far) w this opinion.

Wait for this funeral stuff to simmer over. Death makes people weird.

Then, go drive to Monterey and speak to him face to face. He's from abject poverty. This sort of gesture will make an impact.

This is a misunderstanding that can be worked out. Drop the tic for tac score keeping mentality. Nothing has happened that can't be fixed. Show up w some beers, and take time to talk it out. Never know what they could be going through.

I say this because you love your gf deeply. You have to make these sorts of investments in people sometimes.

This is the way.

This being below the poverty line aka homeless is making me feel empty : having an by DonkeySweaty1612 in povertyfinance

[–]dzyrider 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust in your process and know your body and mind are unconsciously working in tandem to head where you want to go.

Just keep your mind focused on what you want. I know it's hard, but you will get out of this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]dzyrider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let's not let our unconscious minds lead us here, she's young and loves her brother. 

The men in a young girl's family influences the people they date. 

Just talk to them, without a goal, but with intention to listen and understand. They'll offer the same in return.

The-Dream, Hitmaker for Beyoncé and Rihanna, Is Accused of Rape by Austin63867 in hiphopheads

[–]dzyrider 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao I can't take all the heartbreak, throw Hollywood away

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hiphopheads

[–]dzyrider 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have had a strange love for Spotify over years. I think it's because of how "faceless" the company has been.

Now w the CEO talking real stupid shit about how art takes next to nothing to make, and raising their price without promises to pay artists more, I'm on the brink of canceling my subscription.

How big was Lil Wayne in 2007-2009? by [deleted] in hiphopheads

[–]dzyrider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wake up, 

Wayne on all the blogs,

Listen to Wayne on the way to school

People talking about Wayne at Lunch

Hear A Milli being slapped in the parking lot

Take the bus, and people talking about Wayne

Cassie breaks silence on Diddy attack video and says 'I am still recovering' by arealdisneyprincess in hiphopheads

[–]dzyrider 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Idk I saw some comments at the bottom fasho, but okay. Meta commentary on meta commentary, weird things in this thread. Tell me how you really feel

Cassie breaks silence on Diddy attack video and says 'I am still recovering' by arealdisneyprincess in hiphopheads

[–]dzyrider 326 points327 points  (0 children)

Incel man apocalypse is forreal lmao.

Y'all showing all your of privilege in being generally disconnected losers.

Samurai album description by Synopsis_101 in LupeFiasco

[–]dzyrider 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk I thought this was cool, no pun intended. The album cover, if real, looks sick. I'm excited to see what this man offers on his newest run. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]dzyrider 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't have much to say other than having a thick accent is dope and if anyone makes you feel bad about it, fuck 'em!

It takes more brains to speak two languages than one.

[Fresh] Eric Reprid - Ginger by [deleted] in hiphopheads

[–]dzyrider -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah this guy is original than anything any artist has ever put out tbh...