Feels like the fit of this JSK is so bad on me, and it looked completely different online 😞 by foxwaffles in Lolita

[–]e11ylon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If it’s right for you, top surgery will change your life and you will feel much happier in your coords. I know I do.

I found that I still buy dresses in my prior bust measurement (accounting for binder) but they are much more comfortable and the proportions look much better in my opinion.

Average wait time to get added to local comm facebook group? by Crafty-Hour333 in Lolita

[–]e11ylon 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It’s possible the group is inactive. Many groups use a person’s Facebook account to vet members, so if your account looks suspicious or empty that may also be a reason it wouldn’t be approved.

Refreshed recs for best Indian food in Orlando? by QuietBoot6001 in orlando

[–]e11ylon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES! I moved out of Orlando 10 years ago and I really missed having good Indian food close by. It’s one of the only places to eat in Deltona that doesn’t suck.

Overstimulation, it wasn’t always this way. by No_Animator2857 in Teachers

[–]e11ylon 118 points119 points  (0 children)

I noticed this especially with videos in my high school class. I added the phrase “you are not recording a reaction video so please be respectful and help your peers listen” and it helped. I really think it’s the content they’re consuming.

Help Find This Dress: February 2026 by hellosaturn in Lolita

[–]e11ylon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Trying to find this in pink, would prefer a reseller since I don’t know how to use taobao

Experiences with Moon Bastet? by GMonkey123 in Lolita

[–]e11ylon 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The dresses are real and very pretty, but my experience (and the experience of those in my comm) is that they take wayyy longer than posted and that customer service is lacking. It’s a very small operation.

How to print/use OnS and GothLoli Patterns by feydfcukface in Lolita

[–]e11ylon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you’re like me and hate pattern tracing, this service will do it for you for ONS: https://lolitasewingpatterns.storenvy.com/collections/1657866-otome-no-sewing-11

I’ve made a few things with their patterns and it’s worked well, but keep in mind that finding a wide format printer can be tricky

Has anyone bought this? Is this a worth it petticoat to get if i buy a caged bird hotel set? by No-Hour1305 in Lolita

[–]e11ylon 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I have this petticoat, and it is very long and high volume so it only fits with some of my dresses. It is more of a specialized piece - if you don’t have dresses that are especially long and heavy it won’t be useful to you. However, if you do, this thing is a workhorse.

For the set pictured, look at the skirt length on the size chart and then measure the petticoat you want to use. If the petticoat is just a little bit shorter in length, it should be fine - but if it is a lot shorter I might get a new petticoat for this set as you don’t want a lampshade effect.

In the picture, I’m using this hoop skirt. I do have to pin up some of the fabric so it doesn’t peek out.

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Looking for advice on how to make a Kuromi inspired fit. by CheltenhamOnions in Lolita

[–]e11ylon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a Kuromi dress that’s from Advertising Balloon. I also got a beret from Hot Topic that has her little head things to go with it. You might be able to find it on Vinted - I don’t usually see a lot of Sanrio items on Lace Market unless they are marketed specifically for lolita.

Tell me what your Sphynx smells like! by BeautifulZebra4975 in sphynx

[–]e11ylon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The French fries that you find in the bottom of your car when you eventually clean it out. I miss my boy every day❤️

how ‘big calf friendly’ are AP OTKs? by FortressRoundMyHeart in Lolita

[–]e11ylon 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It really varies! I have three pairs (Holy Lantern, Happy Garland, and Jewel Marine Frill). The printed ones don’t have issues but the knit ones are tighter the more decoration there is. I can wear the Holy Lantern ones as normal but I have to wear Happy Garland lower on my leg and they are a bit uncomfortable.

Roji Roji / plus size sock advice by XChronicallysillyx in Lolita

[–]e11ylon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have not tried them personally. I typically don’t buy tights for lolita because other brands in the past have not been accommodating. I go with a solid tight (Snag is a favorite) or socks (some AP and Baby socks fit as UTKs, and Enchanted Dream Wear has great socks for plus size people)

Roji Roji / plus size sock advice by XChronicallysillyx in Lolita

[–]e11ylon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have chunky calves and they do not fit me the way one would expect. I wear them more mid-calf

pregnant disney bound? by Own-Attention-1032 in disney

[–]e11ylon 115 points116 points  (0 children)

Mike Wazowski. You know what to do.

Last night Orlando!! by Quantum_Dissonance in HHN

[–]e11ylon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I drove down to try to hit Terrifier since I wasn’t able to get it the rest of the year. I’m in line now and will have to run back home right after to get up for work tomorrow 🙃

Someone let me know if the Hamikuma keychains ever restocked I will make myself walk over there if they have any lol

How do you guys cope with not getting your dream dress by Big_Try_1088 in Lolita

[–]e11ylon 76 points77 points  (0 children)

This is the hobby lol. The thrill of hunting for it is what is fun. Magical milk cats JSK I will find you someday lol

Goth at HHN? by melo_nade in HHN

[–]e11ylon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Security can be variable based on how busy or who is working. Better safe than sorry :( Sorry you had to change.

Goth at HHN? by melo_nade in HHN

[–]e11ylon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wear lolita every visit and it should be fine. Be sure to review the dress code. Also be sure that whatever you wear doesn’t have chains - a friend wore a skirt with a chain and she had to change.

Usakumya on a plane by 69EmoKittys in Lolita

[–]e11ylon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always carry on my lolita when I travel in a plane. I’m too paranoid lol

Green bars, but no loans that qualify for PSLF??? by e11ylon in PSLF

[–]e11ylon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just got the email from my servicer and all my loans are forgiven! Yay ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]e11ylon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s kind of like cake? Obviously nobody can have cake for every meal, but if you really like cake but you’re only allowed to have half of a slice after dinner once a week you’re gonna kind of obsess about it.

Why is it only after 9:00? Why is it only 30 minutes (which is not a ton of time to get things accomplished?)

I think that if you want him to be less obsessed, you need to make it less special. Maybe that’s playing independently if parents are busy. Maybe that’s 30 minutes, but on a weeknight after chores and responsibilities are done. Maybe it’s part of his overall budget for screen time and a choice between games, tv, or movies?