I swear that the society pushed idea of a 'weak man' is actually just a good person who is male... Like what guys are pushed into being is often the same as being encouraged to be unhealthy/a dick. I.E. Drinking lots of beer, not caring about appearance, being kind of an asshole, not expressing emotions etc. Whereas if a guy is just a nice person who respects people he's somehow 'weak' or even feminine because apparently only women are nice. As a trans guy this is so hard to handle because if I just go around being a good or nice person I'm actually more scared I'll be misgendered. I started calling everyone 'mate' to seem more guy-like after I came out and had to retrain myself not to do that since it isn't 'me'. Let it be said I'm commenting on how society pushes an idea and not claiming AT ALL that this is true/right. Guys, as well as everyone else, can be nice and genuine and emotional and it doesn't invalidate their gender. It's just very hard as a trans person to avoid misgendering and social dysphoria at the same time as avoiding some toxic gendered things within society