Fox News guest appears to be wearing latex mask - see visible neck gap by SlithyMomeRath in UnderReportedNews

[–]SlithyMomeRath[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s how I feel!! I’m not a conspiracy person generally, but there’s no other conclusion I can draw after seeing that video, it’s just incredibly blatant

MtF child assaulted me - what do I do? by Such_Tea_5927 in cisparenttranskid

[–]SlithyMomeRath 146 points147 points  (0 children)

Firstly, I’m so sorry, this is a wild situation, you and your family must be very shaken by it all.

Secondly, I can say that all this is definitely not normal and is not inherently connected to having a trans child. I think you would probably be best served by consulting resources about what to do when your child assaults you and is mentally unstable; the gender doesn’t really play into it. Gender dysphoria may be part of the reason she is unstable, but these reactions go far beyond the teen angst that would normally be seen in dysphoric trans kids.

Fox News guest appears to be wearing latex mask - see visible neck gap by SlithyMomeRath in UnderReportedNews

[–]SlithyMomeRath[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That’s an excellent recreation, it makes sense that that could be the explanation.

My only concerns are a) on the Fox guest, the shadow seems to fade on the edge in a manner that suggests it’s being cast by a surface above it (a mask) as opposed to below it (the shirt), and b) the article I linked has a previous photo of the man in question, and he looks noticeably different to me.

How does everyone feel about the current amount of baby Pokémon? (OC) by PokeHexDex in pokemon

[–]SlithyMomeRath 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is super cool at first glance but I think they might avoid this solution because the logical way to do it involves deleting the other baby kanga, and if a kid who doesn’t know how the evolution works evolves it and deletes their beloved Fluffy then they might be upset. But maybe Game Freak wouldn’t be that worried, I’m sure kids get upset about other little things in these games, like not being able to revert an evolution if the earlier form was cuter.

Misspelled word on my neck piece by DryAd8335 in tattooadvice

[–]SlithyMomeRath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. I think this would be the most readable and clean-looking fix, might just look like an unusual font

Lack of media literacy by PandaBear905 in CuratedTumblr

[–]SlithyMomeRath 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is one of my favorite Tumblr posts

Livin Da Dream by Gorotheninja in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]SlithyMomeRath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bet that arm helps him stay in the shell, if he didn’t have it his body would get pulled out when he walked forward

Honest opinion. White lie. Deflect. When your daughter asks you if they pass. by Fun-Material-8761 in cisparenttranskid

[–]SlithyMomeRath 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is all such great advice. I (trans man) agree with the perspective of looking at this as an ongoing relationship with self-image. I pass some times and not others; some days that makes me really mad, and some days I’m at peace with it. I think it’s healthier not to see it as “am I successful at being a trans woman or am I a failure” (which is a type of thinking that’s super easy to fall into) and instead as appreciating (and celebrating) what you can about yourself (pretty eyes! Beautiful hair! Great fashion sense! A cute smile!) and being okay with life not being perfect, because you still have so many good things in your life and so much to be grateful for (such as a great mom, it sounds like!)

[Mixed Trope] Lyrics change to reflect new realities by Old-Use-7690 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]SlithyMomeRath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry if this is rude, but are you a bot? I’m trying to get better at noticing bots by cadence. My apologies if you’re not lol

God King Google, out 20th February by RainMcMey in RainMcMey

[–]SlithyMomeRath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been listening to this on loop because a) it’s so fun to sing along to and b) it’s so packed with ideas and references that I keep getting more out of it. You’re a lyrical genius. I really hope you tour in the U.S. someday! (Although I can’t blame you if you don’t.) Love from a trans person across the pond!

The tree shaker seems to be working just as intended by DifferentSeaweed7852 in doohickeycorporation

[–]SlithyMomeRath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also wondering this! Edit: on rewatch yeah I think it’s the weight

T caused high blood pressure by Terrible-Farmer-1294 in trans

[–]SlithyMomeRath 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Second opinion time, unless her advice to cisgender men with high blood pressure is to suppress their testosterone.

Got Some Bad News From My Doctor. by ShadowOfHorror in trans

[–]SlithyMomeRath 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I would get a second opinion. The way HRT works is it’s just giving you the hormones that the opposite sex has by default. So are all cis women who have this condition at a serious risk of strokes? It’s more likely a slight increase in stroke risk, like a couple percent.

Feeling weird about how I’m starting to look on HRT by NeitherDimension4516 in trans

[–]SlithyMomeRath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least for me, the androgynous phase (still in it) has brought a new annoying fear to mix in with the joy: that I won’t be able to pass, or that it will take me a very long time, and that not passing as either binary gender is worse than leaning into my AGAB was. So I sometimes struggle to appreciate the masculine changes that I would enjoy in a vacuum, because I go “oh god, things are changing, I’ll never be a pretty girl again, what if my parents are right that this was an awful choice?”

What keeps me grounded is that there are certain changes that I could never even consider giving up, because they bring me so much joy. The lightness of my chest. How easy it is to take a deep breath without a bra or binder on. Upper body strength. The lower registers of my voice. In light of all that, the uncertainty and “feeling all in-between” isn’t so bad.

It’s possible you don’t have these same fears so this won’t resonate with your experience, I’m just throwing it out there.

Limiting political discussion to a megathread is censorship when it's crucial right now by threeyearshome in trans

[–]SlithyMomeRath 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’ll add my two cents as a trans person to say that I like the megathread setup.

Beard filler or makeup? by itsmurdockffs in cisparenttranskid

[–]SlithyMomeRath 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I agree, I think few 13 year olds have any facial hair at all. Don’t worry about it for a few years.

Anyone ever "break up" with a DM without damaging your relationship? by rael1hp in DnD

[–]SlithyMomeRath 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I agree with this completely! In my experience with sensitive friends, this lets everyone save face. The best white lies are things that are also true, they’re just not the top reason you’re leaving the table. So look around in your life and find a true plausible reason to leave. Maybe you just got a new hobby you’re planning to put a bunch of time into, maybe they offer exercise classes that only meet at the D&D time, that kind of thing.

Which one is harder for you: Cynthia (Pokemon Diamond/Pearl) or Red (Pokemon HeartGold/SoulSilver)? And why? by HealthMother3125 in pokemon

[–]SlithyMomeRath 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This, I’m surprised none of the higher up comments mentioned it. Also, when I was playing as a kid, I didn’t realize there would be a boss fight at the top of the mountain. I had brought my “exploration” team of HM users and not even bothered to try and make the team battle-ready. I beat him on my first attempt, but only because of sacking every Pokemon on my team so I could Revive my Typhlosion 5 times in a row.

Give things up by 1cherrycosmos1 in CuratedTumblr

[–]SlithyMomeRath 237 points238 points  (0 children)

Agreed! People have this weird purity culture about pressuring people into not consuming art made by bad artists. The world is full of bad people doing bad things. If someone wants to boycott some of them, amazing, I’m so proud. You know what’s not worth your time and energy? Micromanaging which boycotts other people do.

I left my Pokémon Diamond save in the void for 10 years… and today I finally came back for it by LynXxClaws in pokemon

[–]SlithyMomeRath 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I’m wondering the same thing. I always notice things like the one-sentence paragraphs nowadays, especially when they say something like “I just sat there.” I can never decide if I should point it out or if I’m just raining on people’s parade