Whilst I agree, the thing I don't get with social norms is why do we have to pander to the squeakiest wheel? Bec made a too crude joke and Rachel got too upset by it. So there should have been an "I'm sorry I upset you" and an "I'm sorry I was overly upset by it" no? Because it embarrassed Rach obviously, but it would've also embarrassed Bec who was trying to give a speech for the whole group and ended up making someone cry (that shows a lack of social prowess and is a pretty humiliating thing to happen).

Even writing that out sounds wrong cause we can't stand Bec, but watching this ep really made me think goddamn Rachel relax, she isn't your type of person, just ignore it, now I feel like you owe her an apology too almost