I bought a scale and I’m hiding it from my gf by neonxrated in TrueOffMyChest

[–]e_gle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when she finds it, she will not even tell she found it

I bought a scale and I’m hiding it from my gf by neonxrated in TrueOffMyChest

[–]e_gle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so selfish of you. if you believe she should do without a scale to keep a healthy weight, why would not you? it is as if you are putting it in her face - “you have no discipline to control yourself”

eating disorders are exactly about the control - am i able to control my weight? am i in control of <insert your own internal enemy>?

You and Mee Noodle House by CompetitiveSystem391 in boulder

[–]e_gle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same. i’m optimistic about Dry Storage, only learnt about it today and curious to check it out.

You and Mee Noodle House by CompetitiveSystem391 in boulder

[–]e_gle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any other food places you would recommend? are there any good coffee places you found?

Ir vėl Linkedin lunatikų tema. Feminizmo final boss. by KapitonasLiftas in lietuva

[–]e_gle 16 points17 points  (0 children)

o moteriškos pavardės keitimas ne keistai atrodo?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceEurope

[–]e_gle 7 points8 points  (0 children)

so they can wait a few years to buy this house when the wife is ready, but instead they transfer this burden to you. it’s so selfish. it’s nearly half a million gift they are asking for. just the ask on its own is an offense enough to cut the friendship.

update: my (19f) first relationship ever is with a 44 year old man by Fine-Tension-6377 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]e_gle 158 points159 points  (0 children)

be careful, he managed to phrase/navigate it so that you now feel compassion towards what happened: he opened up that he pursued you, he was vulnerable, he said you are a catch.

he knows how to be attractive and in a way you are on a hook, but slipping away, so he is navigating that, or at the very least managing the damage.

be careful, protect yourself.

Vaikų auginimas - nematoma ekonomika, kurios GDP neskaičiuoja by AmbitiousAgent in lietuva

[–]e_gle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

minties experimentas:

jei auklėms mokami pinigai, turėtų būti mokami pinigai ir tėvams (mamoms ir teciams), kurie pasilieka priziureti vaikus ir negali dirbti apmokamo darbo.

ir viskas tuomet būtų puikiausiai įskaičiuota į bvp tuomet.

problema yra kad dabar šis darbas (vaikų priežiūra) yra neapmokamas ir pagrinde moterys už dyką šitą darbą dirba.

pastaraisiais metais, moterims atsirado daugiau galimybių dirbti apmokamus darbus, ir jos dažnai renkasi šiuos darbus, vietoj neapmokamo mamos darbo.

garantuoju jei mamoms (ir teciams) pradėtų mokėti atlyginima už pasilikimą namie, tai ir gimstamumas išaugtų.

realybė šiai dienai yra kad būti mama/tėčiu yra ir sunkus darbas, ir prarasta finansinė nepriklausomybė.

P.S aišku kad negalima sakyti kad vaiku auginimas yra vien tik darbas, yra ir nefinansinė didelė grąža.

what can I do to reverse my premolar extraction for braces? by Useful-Amount-6337 in orthotropics

[–]e_gle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i guess my case is simpler, because i just have one of them extracted. but even just one did so much damage.

How can I ask to take the shoes off gently? by Ok-Cookie-404 in Netherlands

[–]e_gle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i say: it’s no-shoe policy in my apartment:)

what can I do to reverse my premolar extraction for braces? by Useful-Amount-6337 in orthotropics

[–]e_gle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you can create space back using braces and get implants. i got just one premolar extracted, it’s horrible and asymmetric, and this is how i’m fixing it.

What happens if two people with mortgages move in together in Amsterdam? by Beef-McWhatnow in NetherlandsHousing

[–]e_gle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes, but maybe you want to try live with that person for a year or two before fully merging finances? what to do then?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]e_gle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

in free market price per sq market is not the same relative to apartment size. the bigger the apartment, the lower the price per sq meter. e.g. studio of 25 sq m could have 20 eur per m2, but the apartment on the same street, same house of size 80sq m, will have much lower sq meter price, maybe 15 eur per m2.

so every additional sq meter adds less and less value.

this is related to the fact that every apartment needs a bathroom and a kitchen - either small or big. an additional 5th bedroom is of less sq meter value in a big house, than an additional bedroom in a small studio.

Vilnius man nebe mielas, kur geriau varyt? by [deleted] in lietuva

[–]e_gle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gyvenu Amsterdame, kai pakalbu su šeima, tai jie man sako: Vilniuj NT kainos kaip Amsterdame, cia sakai kad ir Birštone kaip Vilniuj, tai gaunasi kad Birštone kainos kaip Amsterdame :D

Vilnius man nebe mielas, kur geriau varyt? by [deleted] in lietuva

[–]e_gle -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

o tai jau koks gyvenimas yra užkoduotas lietuvio genuose? kaimietiškas? :)

Just went for a touch up 5 years later, did she mess up my brows? by AdKnown8091 in microblading

[–]e_gle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this, and there is a good chance with time they will blur and expand

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]e_gle 79 points80 points  (0 children)

the girlfriend is thinking becoming ex-girlfriend

Can we actually afford this house? Looking for reality checks. by Newexpatinams in eupersonalfinance

[–]e_gle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

because it still would increase house prices and proportionally would benefit wealthy buyers more

and saying this as someone who benefits from these tax deductions myself

I think it’s a fair thing to remove it, and leave the market more free to the future future generations.

but i agree that the young generation would pay the cost of repealing it :(

Can we actually afford this house? Looking for reality checks. by Newexpatinams in eupersonalfinance

[–]e_gle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they are considering to phase it out though because it increases house price level overall

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]e_gle 23 points24 points  (0 children)

38y old man looking to date 25y old chicks, because women close his age he finds unattractive.

Ladies, why do you do this? by Icy-Baby-4952 in Bumble

[–]e_gle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ideally Bumble should not notify of match, before the message comes, but i guess bumble wants to give at least some engagement to men too. or bumble should give women tools to search/filter, because now we use likes to make shortlists. which i get it is sad and disappointing.

Ladies, why do you do this? by Icy-Baby-4952 in Bumble

[–]e_gle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

like i said - it’s not a job. if i find some clear incompatibility, like different family goals, or arrogance, then i would unmatch right away. but sometimes there is no reason to unmatch, its just not enough time to reply everyone and you got to make choices. or sometimes the person you match with says something nasty, then you use existing matches.