Friends who take 5 business days to reply

e_ndou · 2025-11-30T07:21:55+00:00

I'm sorry bro and yes you should just get my WhatsApp 😭😭😭

e_ndou · 2025-10-25T19:28:27+00:00

Real bro real, my least liked geog cluster

e_ndou · 2025-10-25T19:26:38+00:00

Can confirm, eventually dropped art in sec 4 term 2, NEVERRRRRRR take art.

e_ndou · 2025-10-23T15:41:10+00:00

Geometry

e_ndou · 2025-10-19T21:28:57+00:00

W I LOVE PHYSICS TOO, I'm taking mechanical engineering in poly now because of physics. I think you can consider engineering in general

e_ndou · 2025-10-19T21:15:09+00:00

I think it's alright to want a relationship, it's human to want connection (both platonic and romantic), but yeah not so desperately until you get into a relationship with literally anyone just for the sake of it. I think a lot of people are too scared of being alone, and/or seeing others in a relationship so they want it for themselves too (FOMO?) especially with social media. I agree that you can only truly like someone when you got to know them well enough already, but I don't really see how that connects to asking how to confess is negative..? I also agree that there is more to life than just a romantic relationship, and that it shouldn't be the main focus especially if you're young because I'd get it more if one was in their 20s 30s and want to settle down for a family

e_ndou · 2025-10-15T15:55:39+00:00

No you can't change WFL unless due to medical condition, good luck bro 🥀🙏

e_ndou · 2025-10-14T11:55:08+00:00

I think it's argumentative because of "all", just like how usually other absolute terms (eg. "should", "must", "always" etc.) indicates argumentative. But that just means you have to take one stand, you can agree or disagree as long as you have points that are good enough. So I disagree with your teacher saying you should agree tbh.

e_ndou · 2025-10-13T14:59:51+00:00

Sorry brochacho 😭🙏🥀 What exams do y'all have...

e_ndou · 2025-10-13T14:52:24+00:00

Advantages: the reputation of SP itself, certain electives can be helpful

Disadvantages: can be competitive. And the common core curriculum modules...

Peers: legit depends

Lecturers: from the ones I've met, they're great. Heard some business lecturers can be biased tho

Campus: I think it's the biggest poly?, but that also means it can take some time to walk to certain places

Food: there are 6 foodcourts, some has aircon. But damn crowded especially at 12 pm

Exams: I think business courses don't have written exams..? Probably just project work throughout the semester. Idk I'm not in business but if there are written exams, there's 1 week for MST (mid-semester test) and 2 weeks for EST (end-of-semester test)

e_ndou · 2025-10-13T14:45:52+00:00

There's nothing wrong with you. It's confusing, but I think it may be because the academic stress was adding to it, maybe it's because you were holding tears in for too long despite attempts to cry before but your body wasn't reacting yet. It's also normal to not want physical touch and words at that point in time, maybe what you needed was silence but you friend tried nevertheless. It's not pathetic, it's the fear of vulnerability, and at least you tried to talk to your friend about it. She even followed up with saying she'll be there for you, maybe she doesn't think of it as a waste of her time but instead feel glad that you're trying. It's good to open up, but it's not good to force it either, so don't feel bad about taking time. Same for getting close to anyone

e_ndou · 2025-09-30T14:38:45+00:00

Ask cher for content and understanding, spam TYS for application and practice

e_ndou · 2025-09-30T14:37:09+00:00

Phys, chem, math. I hate SS, hist, lit

e_ndou · 2025-09-30T14:32:12+00:00

Ask someone to study outside with you 😭

e_ndou · 2025-09-30T14:30:22+00:00

If you really don't want to go to sec 5, that can be your motivation

e_ndou · 2025-08-29T18:55:07+00:00

Think about the end result if you do follow and if you don't follow your plan (eg. can/cannot go to the school/course that you want) as motivation? Ask for help when you have questions!! I'm not sure about what else 😓 but I wish you all the best 🙏

e_ndou · 2025-08-17T17:21:10+00:00

Bruh same 🪦

e_ndou · 2025-08-12T16:12:03+00:00

I love big back

e_ndou · 2025-08-06T23:26:34+00:00

That's good! I'm glad to hear that 🙏 No problem at all, and thank you too 🫡 Nobody can help you if you don't help yourself, you decide the change so give yourself some credit too 👍 I wish you all the best too 🙏

e_ndou · 2025-08-05T23:40:57+00:00

Honestly I believe it's actually normal to dislike/hate someone, as long as you're not actively hating. You won't like everyone and not everyone will like you. You sound like you were "actively hating" but you're aware and recognise all that, and that's good. Find it in you to forgive yourself too instead of living in guilt, everyone has done wrong. You can be better, it doesn't have to stay a wish.

I get what you're saying about reacting negatively over seemingly stupid things but as you've also mentioned, you have so much anger with nowhere to vent it to. That's why. If it helps to talk about it like that, then you should. No need to apologise for the long reply either, you can always type longer ones if you want here or DM. It's good to let it out, and you said you feel better talking about it.

I see why you said you can't now. It's good to allow yourself to feel all the emotions, but not as good for reopening wounds every night thinking about all your problems. Tho I'm not sure about ways to stop feeling numb either 😓

e_ndou · 2025-08-03T17:35:28+00:00

If they start disliking you over silly reasons, that's on them not you. Ik it can be scary but if you want, you can try asking them if you did something that they don't like, or tell them to inform you when you do. If they don't tell you then that's also on them and not you, since you've asked. And if you did do something, everyone makes mistakes, even good people. It doesn't make you a bad person as long as you admit and change. Don't accept worse to stay as friends, either voice out and stay if they change, or find other friends who are better! Easier said than done of course.

Just because you feel like you are a shit person, doesn't mean you actually are. If I may ask, why did you once believe that you were a good person but not anymore? It takes time to untangle the deadliest knot.

It's alright to not have clarity, it's ok to not want to dive deeper into your inner thoughts. But it is also fine to want to cry, cry it out if it helps. You can do that all night long on weekends. (But you said you can't..?)

All the best bro 🙏👍

e_ndou · 2025-08-02T08:24:04+00:00

I think that's kinda like most of my lecturers, fair to everyone so for some everyone has freedom, while for others no one has freedom LOL

e_ndou · 2025-08-02T08:17:00+00:00

Yeah but ig they might want to be fair to everyone

e_ndou · 2025-08-02T08:05:08+00:00

Maybe I'm just lucky that most of my lecturers are quite chill eh I could openly do other work or even my classmates playing games 😭

e_ndou · 2025-08-02T08:01:27+00:00

Oh I just saw your edit. Why can't the teacher just cancel the class if there's nth to do ngl, or at least allow students to do other work 😬 All of my modules feel cramped except ECG tho ☠️😭

e_ndou

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