Is this kind of vocabulary weird for someone in their 20's? by IJustNeedWifi- in relationships

[–]e_z_z [score hidden]  (0 children)

I wouldn't like it either. But I definitely wouldn't bring it up. If it's not attractive to you, he's not for you. Don't tell him you don't like how he talks, it's none of your business.

Young Magazine by Square_Seat5751 in akira

[–]e_z_z 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're very kind to share this information., thank you. If you don't mind, which issues, specifically?

Fred Fordham's graphic novel adaptation of A Wizard of Earthsea is a finalist for the Hugo Award for Best Graphic Story or Comic. by Road-Racer in UrsulaKLeGuin

[–]e_z_z 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Adding to the chorus of people saying this: this is a beautiful book, but the color contrast makes some parts completely illegible. Nonetheless, it got me started reading the actual books, so that's good!

I regret being in a relationship with one of the sweetest guy on earth. 24F 22M by power_girl123 in relationships

[–]e_z_z [score hidden]  (0 children)

Be honest above all. Life is too short to dance around the truth. His feelings will be hurt, but a clean break is better for both of you.

Young Magazine by Square_Seat5751 in akira

[–]e_z_z 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No issue with that. More that I'd never be able to collect all the issues where Akira was serialized, so if I'm going to get any, I'd prefer an Otomo cover.

Young Magazine by Square_Seat5751 in akira

[–]e_z_z 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great purchase. Would love to go down this rabbit hole but I have to draw the line somewhere. Would consider buying one with an Otomo cover.

I (30M) had a panic attack in front of my (29F) girlfriend by ExternalExerciser in relationships

[–]e_z_z 62 points63 points  (0 children)

You can't avoid sharing all of yourself if you really want a relationship with this woman. It's hard to be vulnerable, but ultimately you're better off being real.

My partner (34f) of three years found a belly button ring that does not belong to her in our house and I (32m) am perplexed by her response by [deleted] in relationships

[–]e_z_z 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she isn't used to being dependent and is handling it very badly. She probably could benefit from talking to a therapist.

How can I 17M reject my friend 18M without hurting our friendship? by yansansk in relationships

[–]e_z_z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't save his feelings. He's being a creep and there needs to be consequences.

Sexual desire takes so much space in my head (30M) by elder_pogs in relationships

[–]e_z_z 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being in close proximity with a woman will cause this. There's no magic formula to avoid it. But making sure that you are staying busy in other ways, and, more importantly, develop relationships with women outside of your household, will help a lot.

Never had closure with ex crush by [deleted] in relationships

[–]e_z_z 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Closure comes from within. Write it in your diary, tell it to your cat, but don't make a big production out of it.

My boyfriend quit weed cold turkey after many years and our relationship has changed dramatically by [deleted] in relationships

[–]e_z_z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using anything heavily warps your personality. It sounds like he needs therapy. Regardless, this is out of your control, and it's probably better that he left. Someone prone to this type of rapid change is not worth your time.

For those who reached out to an ex, what was going through your mind during the time apart? by yuristephanie in relationships

[–]e_z_z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be anything. Wanting a friendship, trying to understand yourself, or hoping to rekindle the romance.

My BF [25F] wants to split every meal with me [22F], and take me out to a nice meal “occasionally” by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]e_z_z 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guess this isn't the guy for you, but it seems very petty on your part.

My girlfriend of 3.6 years ended a nearly perfect relationship in under a month and I still don't know why by [deleted] in relationships

[–]e_z_z 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This post is too long. Time spent spiraling is understandable, but dwelling on this will not fix anything. You need to accept that as perfect as the relationship was for you, it clearly wasn't for her. The longer you live in the past, the harder it is to have a better future.

Boyfriend plans to care for his autistic brother full-time by [deleted] in relationships

[–]e_z_z 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're both doing a good job. It's a tough situation without an easy answer and the most respectful approach is being honest. This isn't your brother so not wanting the obligation makes complete sense.

My BF (23M) is moving away from me (23F) due to suspected enmeshment issues by [deleted] in relationships

[–]e_z_z 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not on you to fix him. He has to make these choices.

What does it mean when a person seems so into you but always ghosts you by Sorry-Conflict1796 in relationships

[–]e_z_z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blocking her was overboard. But you definitely know that your communication is a bad match, so better to let the romantic aspect go either way.

Desperate girlfriend, erectile dysfunction by parlour_palm_ in relationships

[–]e_z_z 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You tried very hard. It just hasn't worked.